# Fuck You, Pothead neighbor.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [September 28, 2014, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778 "2014-09-28T14:54:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 14\
**Page:** 10

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/181 "2014-10-03T00:51:46Z")

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True.

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**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/182 "2014-10-03T03:00:09Z")

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> [@Cartooniverse](#):
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> **D\_Odds** , there is no formal building management. This is not a condo or co-op situation. Therefore, at least in this state, the ability of one tenant to react to the behaviors of another tenant are greatly reduced.

I assume someone is in charge of collecting rent, overseeing common areas, grounds maintenance, etc. If you are writing checks (or sending automatic transfers - it is the 21st century after all), the payee should be the property manager/landlord, and they’re the one to whom you should complain. No guarantee they’ll do anything, but it is part of the job of being a landlord in multi-family units.

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**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/183 "2014-10-03T03:07:15Z")

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Agreed. That is the landlady. However, this is a normal NYC apartment building. No common grounds past the indoor hallways and staircases. No grounds outside at all. ( the laws concerning who is liable for maintenance/ injury on the sidwalks of New York City are fascinating. )

She has not been spoken to as of yet. If the situation returns, she will come to the building for a good sniff herself. ( She is not living on premises ).

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**Author:** ![D\_Odds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/d_odds/32/2882_2.png) [@D\_Odds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Odds)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 12:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/184 "2014-10-03T12:45:45Z")

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As a lifelong NYer/LIer, I’m very familiar with NYC apartment buildings. Even the exterior and the indoor hallway of a two-family building need lighting, and sidewalks need shoveling in winter, and all too often you get two residents who wouldn’t lift a finger to change a lightbulb (and bitch and moan that it is not being changed rather than mention it to the landlord/landlady). Happy to own my own four walls in Queens, though there’s not much distance between my walls and either of my neighbors’ four walls.

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 1:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/185 "2014-10-03T13:01:08Z")

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> [@Chimera](#):
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> Angrily denouncing and insulting everyone who disagrees with you is a great way to go through life, isn’t it?

Plus people don’t try to borrow money from you.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/186 "2014-10-03T14:46:13Z")

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> [@Penfeather](#):
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> Can you please pit the Beat Poets next?

Lousy Fauvists, with their vivid colors and bold brush strokes! GRRR!!!

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**Author:** ![Chimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Chimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimera)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/187 "2014-10-03T15:05:36Z")

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Assholes with their goddamn barbeque out on the patio all the time. I have every right not to smell that shit in my apartment!

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**Author:** ![Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/try2b_comprehensive/32/65_2.png) [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Try2B_Comprehensive)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/188 "2014-10-03T19:12:24Z")

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I gave up caffeine at the same time I gave up pot. Ever since, The Lord speaks through me. If you have any questions, here’s your chance.

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**Author:** ![Red\_Wiggler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/red_wiggler/32/13190_2.png) [@Red\_Wiggler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Red_Wiggler)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/189 "2014-10-03T19:23:37Z")

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> [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](#):
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> I gave up caffeine at the same time I gave up pot. Ever since, The Lord speaks through me. If you have any questions, here’s your chance.

I always suspected that trying something like that would make you crazy.

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/190 "2014-10-03T19:47:48Z")

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> [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](#):
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> I gave up caffeine at the same time I gave up pot. Ever since, The Lord speaks through me. If you have any questions, here’s your chance.

You’ll likely live longer; but why?  
😃

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/191 "2014-10-03T19:57:12Z")

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> [@Try2B\_Comprehensive](#):
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> I gave up caffeine at the same time I gave up pot. Ever since, The Lord speaks through me. If you have any questions, here’s your chance.

> [@kayaker](#):
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> You’ll likely live longer; but why?  
> 😃

It will only seem longer.

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**Author:** ![Penfeather](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/penfeather/32/384_2.png) [@Penfeather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Penfeather)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/192 "2014-10-03T20:59:04Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> Lousy Fauvists, with their vivid colors and bold brush strokes! GRRR!!!

I have the right not to subject my valuable eyeballs to this perfervid onslaught by these charlatans and laudanum fiends of so-called artists ! I complained to the woman in the souvenir shop and she sighed elaborately and handed me a form titled “We Welcome Your Feedback”, so clearly I am not alone in denouncing this fraudulent imposition by deluded scribblers, opium-eating mountebanks, and Henri Bloody Matisse!

Sir, I have the honour to remain,  
An Outraged Taxpayer

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**Author:** ![Maserschmidt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/maserschmidt/32/18829_2.png) [@Maserschmidt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maserschmidt)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2014, 10:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/193 "2014-10-03T22:20:24Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> Lousy Fauvists, with their vivid colors and bold brush strokes! GRRR!!!

☹ Completely derainged, you are.

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**Author:** ![rsa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/839c29/32.png) [@rsa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rsa)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2014, 4:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-pothead-neighbor/699778/194 "2014-10-05T04:15:46Z")

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You’d better be careful what you wish for; he could switch from pot to booze!

[WILLIE NELSON BECOMES MAUREEN DOWD’S ‘MARIJUANA MIYAGI’](http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/willie-nelson-maureen-dowd-marijuana-miyagi-20140922)

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> Elsewhere in the column, Nelson explained why he had started smoking weed in the first place. “I found out that pot is the best thing for me because I needed something to slow me down a little bit,” Nelson told Dowd. Referring to his past as a “mean drunk,” to use Dowd’s phrasing, he also said that if he had continued to drink heavily, “there’s no telling how many people I would have killed by now.”

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