# Fuck you, Rowan County (KY) Clerk Kim Davis

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [August 13, 2015, 6:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757 "2015-08-13T18:09:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1701 "2017-07-23T02:12:24Z")

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> [@D\_Anconia](#):
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> Your MENTAL ILLNESS **is not an accuse for** the continuous self-absorbent nagging nonsense you post here.
> 
> Get out of the basement, and get a life.

What does that even mean?

You’re one to bitch about nagging nonsense. Talk about unaware.

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**Author:** ![xenophon41](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xenophon41/32/253_2.png) [@xenophon41](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xenophon41)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1702 "2017-07-23T03:11:29Z")

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This thread has turned into a truly disturbing group exercise of classic bullying. Yes, **BigT** was quite wrong in post 1669. **Miller** immediately posted a rebuttal that was pointed and direct and sufficient. The following posts were vile. And reduced my respect considerably for two Dopers whom I’ve come to admire over the years for the quality of their characters as expressed by their posts.

Yes, **BigT** lashed out in response. That’s what sometimes happens when bullies gang up on the vulnerable. Nothing about **BigT** ’s response makes sense. That’s because it’s not a response to the facts, it’s a response to people being douchebags.

Right now, all I’m thinking is “Fuck you assholes.” This is why I rarely post here any more.

I remember when “Don’t be a jerk” was taken more seriously here.

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**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 4:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1703 "2017-07-23T04:13:48Z")

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> [@xenophon41](#):
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> This thread has turned into a truly disturbing group exercise of classic bullying. Yes, **BigT** was quite wrong in post 1669. **Miller** immediately posted a rebuttal that was pointed and direct and sufficient. The following posts were vile. And reduced my respect considerably for two Dopers whom I’ve come to admire over the years for the quality of their characters as expressed by their posts.
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> Yes, **BigT** lashed out in response. That’s what sometimes happens when bullies gang up on the vulnerable. Nothing about **BigT** ’s response makes sense. That’s because it’s not a response to the facts, it’s a response to people being douchebags.
> 
> Right now, all I’m thinking is “Fuck you assholes.” This is why I rarely post here any more.
> 
> I remember when “Don’t be a jerk” was taken more seriously here.

If **BigT** can’t handle being insulted, he should confine himself to the parts of the boards where insults are against the rules. So should you.

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**Author:** ![D\_Anconia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/67e7ee/32.png) [@D\_Anconia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Anconia)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1704 "2017-07-23T04:38:36Z")

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> [@running\_coach](#):
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> What does that even mean?

You have GOT to be kidding. Big Tard is the biggest scold in the universe, but he has the least life experience of any adult I know.

And he DOES (not always, but a lot) try to use his “mental illness” as a shield when he’s called out on his obnoxiousness.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 5:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1705 "2017-07-23T05:09:34Z")

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> [@D\_Anconia](#):
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> You have GOT to be kidding

I think the issue was your use of “accuse” when you meant “excuse” in that post. Autocorrect typo? **Running coach** bolded that part of your post when he quoted it.

But otherwise, someone needs to get some perspective. **Ravenman’s** post was the mildest of retorts one might imagine in The Pit. Best stay out of this forum if misreading a post is going to flip you out like that. Sheesh.

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**Author:** ![mhendo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mhendo/32/3159_2.png) [@mhendo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mhendo)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 5:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1706 "2017-07-23T05:13:23Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> I think the issue was your use of “accuse” when you meant “excuse” in that post. Autocorrect typo? **Running coach** bolded that part of your post when he quoted it.

And what the hell is “self-absorbent”?

Sounds like a kitchen towel.

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**Author:** ![D\_Anconia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/67e7ee/32.png) [@D\_Anconia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/D_Anconia)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 5:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1707 "2017-07-23T05:37:48Z")

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> [@John\_Mace](#):
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> I think the issue was your use of “accuse” when you meant “excuse” in that post.

Yes, that.

Still don’t understand why certain posters (and, truth be told, the mods) give Big Tard such a break around here.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1708 "2017-07-23T05:59:10Z")

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> [@mhendo](#):
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> And what the hell is “self-absorbent”?
> 
> Sounds like a kitchen towel.

Technically that would be something like “super absorbent”. “Self-absorbent” implies that the thing has absorbed itself and therefore presumably vanished from existence. Which is kind of an appropriate metaphor for **D’Anconia** , where any remnants that may have been left of intelligence, self-awareness, or usefulness on this earth have vanished, making this fucking illiterate dumbass a useless waste of space. He’s not like a kitchen towel because a kitchen towel is actually useful for wiping up spills. **D’Anconia** is about as useful as a red wine spill on a brand new suit jacket. And about as welcome.

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**Author:** ![splatterpunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3be4f8/32.png) [@splatterpunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/splatterpunk)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 7:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1709 "2017-07-23T07:34:00Z")

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> [@xenophon41](#):
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> This thread has turned into a truly disturbing group exercise of classic bullying.

Bullshit. **BigTard** ’s entire posting history is one of moralizing, sanctimonious potshots at other posters. Everyone posting in this thread knows that. He is no innocent victim being taunted by others for sport; he is a smug, self-aggrandizing shit heel who lives to condescend to those he thinks don’t measure up to his personal moral standards. If anything, \*he \*is the fucking bully (ineffective as he may be).

> [@](#):
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> Yes, **BigT** was quite wrong in post 1669. **Miller** immediately posted a rebuttal that was pointed and direct and sufficient. The following posts were vile.

No, they weren’t. They were commensurate with **BigTard** ’s posting history. He is a vile human being, and deserves every bit of the vitriol he attracts. The fact that you feel sorry for him (for whatever misguided reason) doesn’t change that. **BigTard** is an asshole and everyone knows it.

> [@](#):
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> And reduced my respect considerably for two Dopers whom I’ve come to admire over the years for the quality of their characters as expressed by their posts.

I’m sure these two posters will be devastated by this revelation.

> [@](#):
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> Yes, **BigT** lashed out in response. That’s what sometimes happens when bullies gang up on the vulnerable. Nothing about **BigT** ’s response makes sense. That’s because it’s not a response to the facts, it’s a response to people being douchebags.

Yes, this often happens when people encounter a douchebag. And **BigTard** is a well known douchebag. Again, he is no innocent victim; he has a history here.

> [@](#):
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> Right now, all I’m thinking is “Fuck you assholes.” This is why I rarely post here any more.
> 
> I remember when “Don’t be a jerk” was taken more seriously here.

You remember wrong. The BBQ Pit used to be _way_ more unforgiving to douchebags like **BigTard**.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 9:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1710 "2017-07-23T09:38:48Z")

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> [@xenophon41](#):
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> Yes, **BigT** lashed out in response. That’s what sometimes happens when bullies gang up on the vulnerable. Nothing about **BigT** ’s response makes sense. That’s because it’s not a response to the facts, it’s a response to people being douchebags.
> 
> Right now, all I’m thinking is “Fuck you assholes.” This is why I rarely post here any more.
> 
> I remember when “Don’t be a jerk” was taken more seriously here.

I suspect you don’t remember it very well, because this is kid stuff compared to how the Pit used to work. For example, time was, you could say, “Fuck you assholes,” without drawing a mod note.

Speaking of which…

[Moderating]  
**xenophon** , saying “fuck you” to other posters is a violation of the Pit’s language rules. Please avoid doing this in the future.

No warning issued.  
[/Moderating]

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**Author:** ![kaylasdad99](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kaylasdad99/32/3398_2.png) [@kaylasdad99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kaylasdad99)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 10:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1711 "2017-07-23T10:49:57Z")

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**Miller** : Brilliant.  
**BigT** : Take care of yourself, guy. For whatever reason, you seem to have gotten turned around and lost track of what’s been going on. Take a knee and as much time as you need to clear your head.

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**Author:** ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 10:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1712 "2017-07-23T10:55:18Z")

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> [@xenophon41](#):
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> **Miller** immediately posted a rebuttal that was pointed and direct and sufficient. The following posts were vile.

With all due respect to **Miler** , he didn’t even explain the actual legal issues before the court.

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**Author:** ![Muffin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muffin/32/4341_2.png) [@Muffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muffin)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1713 "2017-07-23T11:50:31Z")

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> [@splatterpunk](#):
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> **BigTard** ’s entire posting history is one of moralizing, sanctimonious potshots at other posters. Everyone posting in this thread knows that. He is no innocent victim being taunted by others for sport; he is a smug, self-aggrandizing shit heel who lives to condescend to those he thinks don’t measure up to his personal moral standards. If anything, \*he \*is the fucking bully (ineffective as he may be).

**BigTard’s** very next post, ten minutes after he flounced out of this thread, in response to a poster opining that there is no such thing as objective morality :

> [@](#):
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> Either you don’t mean what you said, or you are a psychopath. I’d hope for the former, but you seem sincere. You just tried to argue that what Nazis think is moral is just as valid as anything else.
> 
> I literally would not trust you to be alone with anyone without hurting them because you might think that your subjective morality would allow you to do so.

At least **BigTard** didn’t let loose his big guns by call that poster a dumbass.

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**Author:** ![Muffin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/muffin/32/4341_2.png) [@Muffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Muffin)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 12:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1714 "2017-07-23T12:12:51Z")

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> [@xenophon41](#):
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> Right now, all I’m thinking is “Fuck you assholes.” This is why I rarely post here any more.

What, **BigTard** should not live by his own standards?

> [@Disputing the warning](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/disputing-the-warning/791661/4):
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> It’s about time the guy who starts the shit gets in trouble instead of the people upset because you keep on antagonizing everyone.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1715 "2017-07-23T13:34:24Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> I suspect you don’t remember it very well, because this is kid stuff compared to how the Pit used to work. For example, time was, you could say, “Fuck you assholes,” without drawing a mod note.
> 
> Speaking of which…
> 
> [Moderating]  
> **xenophon** , saying “fuck you” to other posters is a violation of the Pit’s language rules. Please avoid doing this in the future.
> 
> No warning issued.  
> [/Moderating]

Well, technically he was just “thinking” it. 😃

> [@Ravenman](#):
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> With all due respect to **Miler** , he didn’t even explain the actual legal issues before the court.

It wasn’t even clear to me that **Miller’s** post was in response to **BigT’s**. Could have been, but there were several posts before **BigT’s** that were discussing the state vs Davis paying.

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**Author:** ![Morgenstern](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Morgenstern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgenstern)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 2:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1716 "2017-07-23T14:41:27Z")

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**BigT**. Walk away. Ignore this forum. Everyone here is an asshole at one time or another, it’s the pit. The pit is full of past assholes, present assholes and future assholes. It’s like an asshole supermarket. Just learn to laugh and not give a flying fuck.

Two rules for you BigT.

1. Don’t share personal shit on a public forum. Seriously, NEVER do that.
2. Never give a rat’s ass what an anonymous asshole says on a public forum. Fuck 'em.

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**Author:** ![Ravenman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ravenman/32/2929_2.png) [@Ravenman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ravenman)\
**Post date:** [July 23, 2017, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1717 "2017-07-23T14:56:51Z")

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Rule 3. Don’t post wrong things and expect everyone to shut about it.

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**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\
**Post date:** [July 24, 2017, 9:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1718 "2017-07-24T09:13:09Z")

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To sum up my response to everyone in this thread:

no u

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**Author:** ![bobot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bobot/32/21622_2.png) [@bobot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobot)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2017, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1719 "2017-12-06T21:27:01Z")

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Bump…  
I think it’s worth it. 🙂  
A gay man who was refused a marriage license by Davis is running for her job.

"David Ermold will return to the Rowan County courthouse Wednesday, nearly two years after Clerk Kim Davis refused to give him a marriage license because he was gay.Only this time, he does not want a license. He wants Davis’ job.  
Ermold filed to run for county clerk on Wednesday, hoping to challenge the woman who two years ago told him “God’s authority” prohibited her from complying with a U.S. Supreme Court decision that effectively legalized gay marriage nationwide. "

> **[Gay man who was denied marriage license by Kim Davis is running for her job](https://www.chicagotribune.com/nation-world/ct-kim-davis-david-ermold-20171206-story.html)**
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> David Ermold returned to the Rowan County courthouse Wednesday, two years after Clerk Kim Davis refused to give him a marriage license because he was gay.

> **[Google News](https://news.google.com/home?hl=en-US&gl=US&ceid=US:en)**
>
> Comprehensive up-to-date news coverage, aggregated from sources all over the world by Google News.

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**Author:** ![Roderick\_Femm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/roderick_femm/32/14875_2.png) [@Roderick\_Femm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roderick_Femm)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2017, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/fuck-you-rowan-county-ky-clerk-kim-davis/727757/1720 "2017-12-07T04:51:00Z")

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Now THAT’s a campaign I would gladly contribute to. Looking it up now…

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