I didn’t say your child did or didn’t NEED anything. I don’t know you or your kid. The point is that there are generally not resources available to give every kid who NEEDS probably over $100k worth of care that much money.
Did I say you were lazy? Why so defensive?
So how much of your time and energy are you willing to dedicate to your child?
It’s more a matter of resources you don’t seem to have, or are not able to get. What are you realistic options here? Do you honestly think holding out hope that someone is gonna give you tens of thousands of dollars every year is a viable option? Maybe it is, and if you can find someone to do that, more power to you. I don’t think you are lazy or a bad parent. I have nothing but empathy for your situation, but I do think it’s probably one you yourself are going to have to solve with resources at your disposal currently.