Part of the problem as well is that misunderstanding leads to a belief in the Big Accountant in the Sky. As we flip a fair coin, the ratio of heads to tails will get closer and closer to 50/50. Because of this, many people conclude that there is what Garrison Keiler called “odds pressure”: As the discrepancy between heads and tails grows, it becomes more and more likely that the coin will land to so as to shrink that gap. For example, if I’ve flipped two heads and twenty tails, odds are in my favor that I’ll flip a head next time.
Odds pressure is, of course, bullshit. It is the ratio between heads and tails that comes arbitrarily close to 50/50, not the absolute numbers. For example, if I’ve got 7 heads and 3 tails, the ratio is 70/30 and the gap is 4. After 100 tosses, I may have 60 heads and 40 tails, thus the ratio is 60/40 and the gap is 20. After 1,000 tosses, I may have 550 heads and 450 tails, thus the ratio is 55/45 while the gap is 100. You can see that the ratio of heads to tails is getting closer and closer to 50/50, but the discrepancy between heads and tails is getting larger and larger.
Make sense?
Streaks can be disconcerting. So listen to this story. There is a king who wants to win a coin toss very badly. So he decides that he’ll get a ringer. On a certain day, everybody in his kingdom flips a coin. (They each flip one of their own coins, they don’t all flip one giant coin in unison.) About half of those people will flip tails, and are eliminated from the competition. Then the remainder all flip again, about half of whom are eliminated. Then that remainder flip again, and about half are eliminated. This continues untile there are three left, two of whom flip tails and get eliminated. Now the last guy standing has flipped heads, oh let’s say, 50 times in a row. (It’s a big kingdom.) The odds of flipping that many heads in a row are one-in-a-gazillion. The king has his ringer—this new Royal Headflipper can flip heads at will.
Clearly the king is deluded and the Headflipper has about a 50-50 chance of becoming the Headless Headflipper, because he didn’t do anything special. The odds of getting all tails on one of the rounds is pretty low, so it was highly likely that someone would score heads all the way through. This guy just happened to be that person.
There is a book called Conned Again, Watson that you might enjoy. It tackles probability using Sherlock Holmes type stories to go through each quandry.