# Games to play with your kids

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**Category:** The Game Room\
**Created:** [July 16, 2013, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695 "2013-07-16T20:25:10Z")\
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**Author:** ![Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Unauthorized_Cinnamon)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2013, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/1 "2013-07-16T20:25:10Z")

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(that don’t make you want to gouge your own eyes out).

I don’t know about you all, but I typically loathe playing board games with my five year old. They’re an excruciating mix of boredom, frustration, and temper tantrum management.

_Candyland_: coma-inducing  
_Chutes and Ladders_ and _Sorry_: Jesus Christ, will this game ever end?  
_Operation_: nothing more than the prelude to a screaming meltdown when she can’t even get one piece out  
_Hungry Hungry Hippos_: device for seeding white marbles around the entire house  
_Go Fish_ (specialty cards with actual fish on them, in a size guaranteed to never, ever fit in a child’s hands or allow shuffling except by Andre the Giant): do you have any sharks, because I want them to kill me now

and so on.

BUT, I have discovered some games that I not only don’t despise, I actually enjoy!

_Yahtzee Jr._: not great, but not a total loss. Games are pleasantly brief.  
_Crazy Eights/Uno_: simplistic but not mind-numbing  
_Puzzles_: Surprisingly engaging, and it’s cooperative so no loser  
_Checkers_: believe it or not, I’m just learning how to play. But that means the kids might beat me, which makes it more fun for them!  
_Doodle Dice_: Actually fun, and good for everyone’s spatial relations and planning skills  
and the best so far -  
\*Catan Junior \*- retains the fun of the grownup version, but not too complicated or frustrating. Plus it has pirates and a Ghost Captain - what’s not to like?

What games do you like to play with your children? (Alternatively, what are the worst games to play with kids and why?)

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**Author:** ![aNewLeaf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ac91a4/32.png) [@aNewLeaf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aNewLeaf)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2013, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/2 "2013-07-16T20:34:49Z")

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I don’t have kids, but I do have a lot of Legos.  
Five is a great age to start building things. Buy a tub, see how it goes.

How viable is outdoor fun?  
Can you jump rope? That’s hours and hours of entertainment right there.  
Are kites an option where you are?

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**Author:** ![Teuton](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/teuton/32/3864_2.png) [@Teuton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Teuton)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2013, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/3 "2013-07-16T20:42:21Z")

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I have a 7yr old daughter, and a 4yr old son who… doesn’t really play.

However, we all get a lot of mileage out of:

[By Golly](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/3507/by-golly), which is a twist to the standard memory card game

[Aquarius](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/814/aquarius), which is a card edge matching type game

[Zeus on the Loose](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/22864/zeus-on-the-loose), which is a counting game with greek gods in.

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**Author:** ![JSexton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/96bed5/32.png) [@JSexton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JSexton)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2013, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/4 "2013-07-25T02:19:17Z")

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Dino Dice, a reskinned version of Zombie Dice.  
Dixit  
King of Tokyo  
Love Letters  
The Resistance  
Apples to apples  
Survive: escape from Atlantis

All terrific board games that adults and kids can enjoy. Fuck nonsense “games” like candyland that teach terrible habits and lack decision making.

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**Author:** ![ENugent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/4af34b/32.png) [@ENugent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ENugent)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2013, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/5 "2013-07-25T03:09:40Z")

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Some substitutes that are actually sort of fun:

_Candyland_: [Cartagena](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/826/cartagena)  
_Chutes and Ladders_ and _Sorry_: [Max](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/4637/max)  
_Operation_: [Gulo Gulo](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/6351/gulo-gulo)  
_Hungry Hungry Hippos_: sorry, never played it - can’t help with this one  
_Go Fish_: [Love Letter](http://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/129622/love-letter)

We also get a fair amount of mileage out of Zeus on the Loose.

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**Author:** ![Max\_Torque](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Max\_Torque](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Max_Torque)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2013, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/6 "2013-07-25T19:10:13Z")

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The big one at our house right now is [Trouble](http://www.amazon.com/Hasbro-4658-S5-Trouble-Board/dp/B00000DMFN). Games are pretty quick, and you can’t lose the die. The boring part comes when everyone’s trying for a “6” at the same time.

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**Author:** ![MLS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/919ad9/32.png) [@MLS](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MLS)\
**Post date:** [July 26, 2013, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/games-to-play-with-your-kids/663695/7 "2013-07-26T00:51:05Z")

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I have a suggestion about the temper tantrum management. When my younger daughter was old enough to play games, at first she would throw a fit if she lost. “Okay,” I said, “Do you want to win?” “Yes!!” So I put both our playing pieces at the starting square. Then I jumped hers to the winner’s spot. “Hooray! You win! Want to play again?” Not sure what that was about, she said yes. Repeat. “But I want to play the game!” “Oh, that’s different. I thought you just wanted to win.”

She got the point very quickly. In games of skill rather than chance, we would give her a slight advantage. For example, in Big Boggle, she could make smaller words, and there was a one-point adjustment on the scoring. After she started to beat the pants off us regularly, we did away with that rule!

Just the other day, I taught my 3 year old granddaughter to play the card game War. I figured it was educational; she had to decide which number was higher. What she liked the best was watching me shuffle the cards.
