# Gay Christians are better than Straight Christians

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [July 16, 2003, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916 "2003-07-16T16:37:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Polycarp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/82dd89/32.png) [@Polycarp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Polycarp)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/21 "2003-07-16T20:37:07Z")

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**John** , my apologies – self-deprecating humor sounds like advanced homophobia when you don’t realize who’s doing it! :o

Barb and I twice attended St. John’s MCC here, once formally as representatives of our church exploring a “safe space/welcoming congregation” status and looking to make contacts for speakers, etc., and once attending a concert/service put on by their (award-winning) gospel choir. It was truly an eye-opener for us. Revealing a (hopefully now exorcized) touch of stereotyping, let me say that we expected to meet a group of gay peple who were Christian, and instead met a group of Christians who were gay. The sincerity and devoutness of people who had refused to let the alienation of Christians alienate them from Christ, and had formed a community of believers where they could feel at home, comfortable, welcomed, a part of the church family, hit me extraordinarily hard.

The Charlkotte MCC regularly runs ads in _Q Notes_, the Charlotte gay biweekly paper, and this time around wraps location and contact info. with the slogans _You Are Invited!_ and _A Place Where God Does Not Discriminate_.

Indeed.

BTW, if anyone wants the location and contact info. I’ll be glad to send it; a minor nitpick with the 365Gay story cited in the OP is that the pastor is the Rev. Mick Hinson (not Mike). There are also a number of other MCC locations in the Carolinas and nationwide.

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**Author:** ![UrbanChic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9dc877/32.png) [@UrbanChic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UrbanChic)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/22 "2003-07-16T20:40:49Z")

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I know what the 4 stands for, ya dork!

I think Svt is Servant. It could be svelte, though.

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/23 "2003-07-16T20:44:58Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Otto \*  
> \*\*4 = “for”.
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> The “Svt” part mystifies me, though. \*\*

Damn you **Juanita Tech**!😛

I thought I was going to be first with that abbreviation guess!

And speaking of “4evers” what ever happened to \*\* His4ever\*\*? I tried doing a search, thinking they would be along here, but all it said was that isn’t a valid username.

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**Author:** ![UrbanChic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9dc877/32.png) [@UrbanChic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UrbanChic)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/24 "2003-07-16T20:52:52Z")

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She changed her name to lynn73, Baker.

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**Author:** ![gobear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8dc957/32.png) [@gobear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gobear)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/25 "2003-07-16T21:02:59Z")

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So does mean we now have two of these fundaloonies on the premises?

(mutters to self, “Where’s that can of Raid?”)

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**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/26 "2003-07-16T21:15:46Z")

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_…in bed_.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/27 "2003-07-16T21:26:15Z")

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It’s not just a _Christian_ principle, it’s a _Bliblical_ principle.

[Proverbs 25: 21,22](http://bible.gospelcom.net/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&passage=prov+25%3A21%2C22&version=NIV)

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> If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;  
> if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.  
> In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head,  
> and the LORD will reward you.

Since this is from the Old Testament (AKA Hebrew Scriptures), it predates Christianity and is indicative of how anyone claiming to serve the God of the Bible should act.  
;j

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**Author:** ![Sofa\_King](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58956e/32.png) [@Sofa\_King](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sofa_King)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/28 "2003-07-16T21:34:56Z")

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Svt.

South Vermont?

Special Vehicle Team?

Sycovant?

Fucking moron?

And congratulations to the Charlotte Metropolitan Community Church for practicing what they preach.

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**Author:** ![Homebrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@Homebrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Homebrew)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/29 "2003-07-16T21:38:12Z")

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Sly _Queer Duck_ reference, **matt**.

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**Author:** ![Polycarp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/82dd89/32.png) [@Polycarp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Polycarp)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 10:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/30 "2003-07-16T22:00:54Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Svt4Him \*  
> \*\*I’d also like to add that now all ‘gay christians’ are like that. So take a few instances and apply them to the whole whether gay or not is wrong. The examples I can give are from experiences I’ve had, but since it then becomes a gay vs non-gay, I choose not to share them. So in this case, were the people being Christlike? Absolutely. If I’m on the way to rob a bank, and I help someone who’s fallen, am I being Christlike? Sure, but does it imply that my life is a reflection of Christs? I think not. \*\*

**Svt** , since you bothered commenting here in the first place, it would seem reasonable to ask you to expand on what you’re saying here. These are members of a Christian church comprised largely of gay and Lesbian people, who met a protest against them by estending hospitality to the protesters.

Can gay people sin? Sure. Can gay people show the spirit of Christ? Sure. But I get an underlying message of “but they’re not really Christians, since they haven’t repented of being gay” from your post – and I may be reading something into that from years of prior similar onboard conversations. So explain yourself. What was your post supposed to mean?

(Oh, and by the way, of what board are you a moderator? I noticed you made reference to that in another thread. Just curious.)

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/31 "2003-07-16T22:27:14Z")

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At the risk of being lumped in with her/him, I’m going to try to decode **Svt4Him** ’s post.

_ahem_

This does not mean I agree, I just think my decoder ring works…  
A typo messed up her point. Should have read, “I’d also like to add that **not** all ‘gay christians’ are like that.”

And when saying, “If I’m on the way to rob a bank, and I help someone who’s fallen, am I being Christlike? Sure, but does it imply that my life is a reflection of Christs? I think not.” I think she means that “even people of the nations\* do that,” implying that Christianity and homosexuality are at odds with each other. That some \* individual acts\* of certain persons may equal what one might regularly do if one was Christlike.

If I got it wrong, **Svt** , then make your point more clear.

And to everyone else, you should know by now [how I feel](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=182505) about homosexuality. I’m neither pro nor anti. It simply is, like being Black or White. (imho)

- [Matthew 5:43-48](http://bible.gospelcom.net/cgi-bin/bible?language=english&passage=matt+5%3A43-48&version=NIV)

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**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/32 "2003-07-16T22:30:24Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Sofa King \*  
> **Svt**

Supra-ventricular tachycardia, is my take on it. So excited that one’s heart really goes pitty-pat very, very fast with the risk that it may develop into a fatal arrhythmia.

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**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 10:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/33 "2003-07-16T22:43:04Z")

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> \*Originally posted by JuanitaTech \*  
> \*\*I know what the 4 stands for, ya dork!
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> I think Svt is Servant. It could be svelte, though. \*\*

Oh, I was thinking it might be “Save it.” Like, “save it for him.” Like, s/he’s waiting to be fucked by God or something.

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2003, 11:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/34 "2003-07-16T23:56:29Z")

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I figured “Svt” was a misspelling of “civet.” Maybe it’s an advertisement for perfume. “Diamonds for her… Civet for him.”

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**Author:** ![Doomtrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/0ea827/32.png) [@Doomtrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doomtrain)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/35 "2003-07-17T00:02:54Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Otto \*  
> \*\*Oh, I was thinking it might be “Save it.” Like, “save it for him.” Like, s/he’s waiting to be fucked by God or something. \*\*

Does God say “Oh, me! Oh, me! ME! ME! ME! OOOOH ME!”?

(and so GMRyujin moves down another circle in the Inferno.

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**Author:** ![Polycarp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/82dd89/32.png) [@Polycarp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Polycarp)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/36 "2003-07-17T00:15:33Z")

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While the interpretations of “Svt” have been humorous, can we avoid a pile-on? It’s possible to construe what he/she tried to say in a way that is not condemnatory, and I’d like to give the **Svt** a chance to explain the meaning of what he/she posted.

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**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/37 "2003-07-17T00:17:00Z")

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Nah, I got the “Servant” reference right away.

I’m not going to tell you my feelings about “gay Christians,” although I did hear a former homosexual give a presentation in Sunday School. (very heartwarming, it was)

Aside from the sexuality of the people referred to in the OP, it is indeed a very nice story. Not quite heartwarming IMO, but eh… very nice.

(and it’s a good thing I don’t know how “Bringing in the Sheaves” goes, else I’d be laughing in my usual hysterical manner)

F\_X

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**Author:** ![Duke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e8c25b/32.png) [@Duke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duke)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/38 "2003-07-17T00:17:21Z")

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I don’t think it stands for “savant.”

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**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 12:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/39 "2003-07-17T00:45:48Z")

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It reminds me of the Summer of Love where the hip crowd put flowers do rifle barrels.

Flamsterette, aside from the smugness and self-righteousness of the protestors, I hope they enjoyed their meal.

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**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2003, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-christians-are-better-than-straight-christians/188916/40 "2003-07-17T02:08:37Z")

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Oh, they probably had to swallow some of their pride and such. And I am certainly not smug or self-righteous.

F\_X

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