# Gay Marriage in SF-- does this help or hurt the cause?

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**Created:** [February 12, 2004, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916 "2004-02-12T20:46:09Z")\
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> [@John Mace](#):
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> I’m not personally upset with him. I’m trying to understand if his actions will further help gay marriage become legal or whether it will cause a set-back. I’m questioning the tactic, not the goal.

So we can expect you to come here applauding him if this works out in the long run?

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> [@DMC](#):
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> So we can expect you to come here applauding him if this works out in the long run?

No. I don’t subscribe to the tenet that the end justifies the means.

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**Post date:** [February 17, 2004, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/103 "2004-02-17T23:28:11Z")

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> [@John Mace](#):
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> No. I don’t subscribe to the tenet that the end justifies the means.

well, you see, that’s not really the point. you said you weren’t personally upset with him. i took that to mean that if this helped the cause rather than hurt it, you saw no problem in his actions. so in that case, you would be a believer in the machiavellian tenet.

if he didn’t in fact hurt his cause, and if he was obeying what he thought to be a higher law (the ca constitution rather than the 2000 initiative), how would the evilness of his means hurt the result?

[aside]as far as the end justifying the means, i can’t argue with the tenet per se. the failure of many to include “the means” in “the end” is what ruins the viability of this believe, in my opinion.[/aside]

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**Post date:** [February 17, 2004, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/104 "2004-02-17T23:57:25Z")

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Understanding that Gavin Newsom campaigned for Mayor supporting gay marriage, and that he knows that his position is shared by the majority of his constituency (so he is not taking a great immediate political risk), I have no problem believing what he says about the reasons for his decision.

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> “I see a world that I saw over the course of this weekend where people were literally … coming together because they have been in a loving relationship for decade after decade, and they want the same privileges and rights and obligations that were extended to my wife and I,” Newsom said.
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> “That’s the kind of world that I want to live in,” Newsom said. “That’s the kind of world that I think the constitution of the state of California, for that matter, the U.S. Constitution, provides and protects.”
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> The long-held bans on interracial marriages were “fundamentally wrong,” he said, as are bans on gay marriages that prevent couples “like Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin, who have been together for 51 years, [from being] able to consummate that in the way my wife Kimberly and I were able to do.”

Knowing that he is not going to be harmed politically (at least in the near term) by his actions, he is doing what he believes to be fundamentally right.

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**Post date:** [February 17, 2004, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/105 "2004-02-17T23:58:39Z")

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> [@Ramanujan](#):
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> well, you see, that’s not really the point.

Actually it was. If a court rules tomorrow that gay marriage is constitutional in CA, it will undoubtably be becuase of Newsom’s actions. In that case, my analysis (per the OP) was incorrect, and I’ll be happy to admit it. That doesn’t mean that I condone the methods of the mayor in this case. As I’ve said before, that is because he failed to initiate any judicial challenge to the law, and just decided to act as though he, himself, were the judiciary. Had he tried to go the legal route and was ignored, then I think a case could be made for taking the actions he did.

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> you said you weren’t personally upset with him. i took that to mean that if this helped the cause rather than hurt it, you saw no problem in his actions. so in that case, you would be a believer in the machiavellian tenet.

That was in the context of someone asking me if I would be upset at some mayor in the past who issued marriage licenses to interracial couples. But I probably wasn’t clear on that. I meant that his goal is not upsetting to me (I don’t oppose gay marriage), but I thought I made it clear in many other posts that I thought the tactic was irresponsible and unwise. I could be wrong about the second part, but I’ll stand by the first part.

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> if he didn’t in fact hurt his cause, and if he was obeying what he thought to be a higher law (the ca constitution rather than the 2000 initiative), how would the evilness of his means hurt the result?

Well, I never said his means were evil-- those are your words. I very well could be wrong about whether his actions will hurt the goal. That’s what this debate is about. I do think there is a place for a mayor to use this tactic (violating a clear statutory law). If, for example, a law had been passed to bar gays from attending public schools in SF, then he would be justified in trying to prevent what could be irreperable harm to those gays excluded from the educational system-- waiting for the courts to act could ruin people’s lives. In this case, I don’t see the **dire need** to alter the status quo by means of bypassing the perfectly legitimate legal process of challenging the law in the courts directly.

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/106 "2004-02-18T00:00:51Z")

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> [@John Mace](#):
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> No. I don’t subscribe to the tenet that the end justifies the means.

Does this mean that you disagree with the concept of civil disobedience? Was Rosa Parks wrong for refusing to move to the back of the bus?

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Balron: From earlier in this thread:

> [@John Mace](#):
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> …My point is specifically with Newsom, not with those gays who chose to take advantage of this situation. I understand where they are coming from, and think their actions are a legitimate form of protest…

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/108 "2004-02-18T00:10:07Z")

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**John Mace** - Can you clarify what you mean by initiating a judicial challenge to the law? It’s my understanding that you can’t just go to the appeals court and say, “I think this law is bad, can you declare it unconstitutional?” In order to challenge a law in the courts, don’t you need to have a specific case (e.g. a same-sex couple who are married) in order for the court to make a ruling?

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/109 "2004-02-18T00:22:59Z")

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At least that’s what [Stanley Kurtz says](http://www.nationalreview.com/thecorner/04_02_15_corner-archive.asp#025345), in this post and the three or so below it. Then again, he also wrote [this article I once posted about](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=236785) re: gay marriage has already destroyed heterosexual marriage in Norway. Well, conservatives? Feel obligated to amend the Constitution now that you know what’ll happen if you don’t? 🙂

Though I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised; **Shodan** has already asserted late [in this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=234851&page=4&pp=50) that, based on research of dubious meaning done by someone who’s firmly against gay marriage for religious reasons, gays are too promiscuous to trust with the institution of marriage. Makes me wonder if it makes anyone who posted in [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=236746) want to change his/her mind about what (s)he said therein…

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/110 "2004-02-18T00:24:20Z")

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**SV** :

One scenairo: A same-sex couple have applied for a marriage license, been refused, and then challenged that refusal in court. That would not have been direct action by the mayor (since he’s already married to a woman, and couldn’t initiate this action himself), but he certainly could have encouraged someone to take that action.

Maybe one of our resident lawyers can clarify this, but I’m not sure he **couldn’t** challenge the law directly by insisting that his office had the right to issue same-sex marriage licenses and ask the court for a ruling. I’m thinking of the case a few years back when Newdow challenged the “under God” phrase in the pledge. That’s going all the way to the Supreme court, and I don’t recall him actually breaking any laws-- just challenging the one that requires teachers to lead to the pledge.

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/111 "2004-02-18T00:39:38Z")

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Here’s another example: The way [Prop 187 was challenge (and overturned) in CA.](http://www.aclunc.org/aclunews/news198/187.html)

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/112 "2004-02-18T00:51:22Z")

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> [@John Mace](#):
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> I thought I made it clear in many other posts that I thought the tactic was irresponsible and unwise. I could be wrong about the second part, but I’ll stand by the first part.

indeed, you did make that clear. my point was that the end contains the means, and if the end (with the means) is greater than the start, then indeed the end does justify, as such, the means. i agree that if he could’ve arrived at this place (presuming this place is a good one) through more responsible means, that didn’t advocate through public action the disregard for the law, i would prefer that route.

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> Well, I never said his means were evil-- those are your words.

yes, they are. i did not intend to put words in your mouth, only to contrast the “good” end with the “evil” means in a typical “does the end justify the means” problem.

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> I very well could be wrong about whether his actions will hurt the goal. That’s what this debate is about. I do think there is a place for a mayor to use this tactic (violating a clear statutory law). If, for example, a law had been passed to bar gays from attending public schools in SF, then he would be justified in trying to prevent what could be irreperable harm to those gays excluded from the educational system-- waiting for the courts to act could ruin people’s lives. In this case, I don’t see the **dire need** to alter the status quo by means of bypassing the perfectly legitimate legal process of challenging the law in the courts directly.

i agree, and you will note that i initially thought this was a totally bad move on the mayor’s part. the public response to this (nearly 2500 couples married now) has swayed me more toward the nobility of his means, though, i think. i still question the motives, but i think if things turn out well, a pr stunt just such as this is exactly what was needed in this fight.

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If things turn out right, yes the “PR stunt” will prove itself to be the correct tactic.

You completely lost me on: “the end contains the means”. Can you elaborate?

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/114 "2004-02-18T06:39:27Z")

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The Constitution of the state of California does contain language that could be used to strike down the ban on gay marriages, if the state Supreme Court were inclined to do so. In particular, I have seen this mentioned:

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> CALIFORNIA CONSTITUTION  
> ARTICLE 1 DECLARATION OF RIGHTS
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> SEC. 7. (a) …  
> (b) A citizen or class of citizens may not be granted privileges  
> or immunities not granted on the same terms to all citizens.  
> Privileges or immunities granted by the Legislature may be altered or  
> revoked.

This specifically grants rights to “classes” of citizens, which could easily be interpreted as providing far stronger protection against discrimination than similar language in the federal Constitution. If I recall correctly, it is similar in wording to a provision in the Massachusetts constitution which was cited in support of the recent ruling by that state’s Supreme Judicial Court.  
It’s important to note that the California Constitution is extremely easy to amend. Given the current makeup of the legislature, it’s almost impossible that a two-thirds majority would approve an amendment banning gay marriage, but their participation is unnecessary. We’ve taken direct democracy to such an extreme in this state that all you need to do to amend the constitution is collect enough signatures and the amendment will go up for a vote at the next election, where it can be passed by a simple majority. I note the following:

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> CALIFORNIA CONSTITUTION  
> ARTICLE 2 VOTING, INITIATIVE AND REFERENDUM, AND RECALL
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> SEC. 8. (a) The initiative is the power of the electors to propose  
> statutes **and amendments** to the Constitution and to adopt or reject  
> them.  
> (b) An initiative measure may be proposed by presenting to the  
> Secretary of State a petition that sets forth the text of the  
> proposed statute or amendment to the Constitution and is certified to  
> have been signed by electors equal in number to 5 percent in the  
> case of a statute, **and 8 percent in the case of an amendment to the  
> Constitution, of the votes for all candidates for Governor at the  
> last gubernatorial election.**  
> © The Secretary of State shall then submit the measure at the  
> next general election held at least 131 days after it qualifies or at  
> any special statewide election held prior to that general election.  
> The Governor may call a special statewide election for the measure.
> 
> ARTICLE 18 AMENDING AND REVISING THE CONSTITUTION
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> SEC. 4. A proposed amendment or revision shall be submitted to the  
> electors and if approved by a majority of votes thereon takes effect  
> the day after the election unless the measure provides otherwise. If  
> provisions of 2 or more measures approved at the same election  
> conflict, those of the measure receiving the highest affirmative vote  
> shall prevail.

I’m not sure wether this 8 percent figure would be based on the last ordinary gubernatorial election or the recall election we had last year. About 9.4 million people voted in that election, and the required 750 thousand signatures needed to put an amendment on the ballot could be collected very quickly if some group were willing to fund the effort.

Based on the fact that an initiative statute banning recognition of same-sex marriage passed with nearly 60% support a few years ago, this creates an interesting dilemma for any state judge inclined to see a right to same-sex marriage in the state constitution. If such an implicit right were found, it might be explicitly eliminated very quickly.

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> [@JasonFin](#):
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> Based on the fact that an initiative statute banning recognition of same-sex marriage passed with nearly 60% support a few years ago, this creates an interesting dilemma for any state judge inclined to see a right to same-sex marriage in the state constitution. If such an implicit right were found, it might be explicitly eliminated very quickly.

Well, that’s been my point all along. Newsom is essentiallly saying to the electorate: “I d-double dare you all to pass an amendment to the State Constitution.” It’s a big gamble.

Looks like a reprieve of at least a few days has been achieved thru the [two judicial hearings today](http://www.mercurynews.com/mld/mercurynews/7977479.htm), although the 2nd hearing got hung up on (believe it or not) a punctuation error in the petition. In an ironic twist, the judge in the 2nd hearing is the grandson of Earl Warren.

It would be interesting to hear from one of our resident lawyers about what this means (my bolding0:

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> Warren, grandson of former U.S. Chief Justice Earl Warren, did eventually **order the city to cease and desist, but made the order non-binding** , a distinction the city took to mean full speed ahead.

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/116 "2004-02-18T18:11:40Z")

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> [@JasonFin](#):
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> This specifically grants rights to “classes” of citizens, which could easily be interpreted as providing far stronger protection against discrimination than similar language in the federal Constitution. If I recall correctly, it is similar in wording to a provision in the Massachusetts constitution which was cited in support of the recent ruling by that state’s Supreme Judicial Court.

indeed, section 7(a) is what the mayor himself cited as his constitutional justification for allowing the marriages to take place. he said that it has been construed in the past to prevent discrimination against gays, too.

the ma sjc decision, however, was based on a clause that mirrored almost exactly the due process (and equal protection, in a concurring opinion) clause of the 14th amendment. ma jurisprudence has given this clause a lot more weight than it is given in the federal constitution, though, despite the similar wordings.

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Newsom is also a felon.

See the CA [penal code, section 115(a)](http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/waisgate?WAISdocID=1275712288+1+0+0&WAISaction=retrieve).

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**Post date:** [February 18, 2004, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-marriage-in-sf-does-this-help-or-hurt-the-cause/228916/118 "2004-02-18T18:26:13Z")

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> [@John Mace](#):
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> You completely lost me on: “the end contains the means”. Can you elaborate?

“the end justifies the means” is generally said to mean that the sum of all utility of a process is based on whether the goal was accomplished. thus, any means necessary to accomplish that goal are acceptable, provided the goal is accomplished.

my point is that this view of things fails to take into account the changes that occurred while the process was taking place. one issue in another thread right now is the validity of strict constructionism. many wish for various rights to be in the constitution and have more-or-less said they would warp it to find those rights. in the end, the right they found is there, but someone might use the same process to remove rights even more important in the future. so the means must be considered when evaluating the utility of the end.

as another example, let’s say that i want a new car. one way i could do this would be to kill my mother, collect life insurance, and run off with the money without helping out my family. then i might have enough for a new car. the end might be said to justify the means, but in this case, when i say “the end”, i mean me with a new car, but without a mom or a family or any friends, and no place to live. so “the means” have to be considered when evaluating “the end”.

boy i hope that makes sense.

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> [@John Mace](#):
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> Well, that’s been my point all along. Newsom is essentiallly saying to the electorate: “I d-double dare you all to pass an amendment to the State Constitution.” It’s a big gamble.

Indeed. Especially considering that the CA constution can [be amended by simple majority vote from a voter initiative](http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/.const/.article_18)–See Article 18, section 3 as linked.

Prop 22–which was not an amendment to the constitution–passed in 2000 with 61% of the vote, because of the concern that other states would enact same-sex marriage laws. Prop 22 was intended to make that irrelevant. I suspect a CA constitutional amendment would pass now (though with a smaller margin).

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> [@Ramanujan](#):
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> boy i hope that makes sense.

Well, I still don’t understand, but don’t worry about it…

BTW, I didn’t mean to imply that I never think the end justifies the means, only that I don’t accept that as generally being true, and definitely not in this case. People aren’t dying (or even being denied even a small part of their livelihood) to warrent such a flagrant disregard of a law that was so recently and so resoundingly passed the people of the state of CA.

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