# Gay Men, Straight Women - Do You Want to See the Penis, or the, uh, Package? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 3, 2008, 8:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952 "2008-03-03T20:00:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![jackdavinci](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackdavinci/32/3259_2.png) [@jackdavinci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackdavinci)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/41 "2008-03-06T18:49:36Z")
Gay male here. It depends on context of course. But yeah I like to see it all. At the very least, it should have equal -ahem- standing with women’s breasts. Neither hidden awkwardly as though it’s something obscene, nor shown off just to -ahem- titillate. I find all body parts potentially sexy, and often clothing can be equally or even more sexy than nudity if done right. So sure, show it, it’s great - or don’t, it’s not important, just don’t make a big deal out of it either way. I was reading somewhere else someone pointing out that Rowling has written quite a few Harry nude scenes into the novels… I wonder if she’s hoping they will appear on film? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/42 "2008-03-06T19:11:07Z")
I like both. It really depends on my mood. I’ve seen some men in a suit and tie that got me going more than any nude man I’d ever seen. Sometimes a guy in a jock is what I want to see, other times it’s the full nude. Russell, male, gay. ---
**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/43 "2008-03-06T19:29:46Z")
I’m married to a man who pulls his pants down and does a naked cock flapping dance when he’s excited or happy about something (and we’re alone together). I find it funny or :rolleyes: depending on my mood. Not sexy, not at all. I like erect penises, but not in isolation. Straightish woman. ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/44 "2008-03-06T19:31:21Z")
[QUOTE=Antinor01] Sometimes a guy in a jock is what I want to see [/QUOTE] Fuck yes! ---
**Author:** ![brujaja](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4af34b/32.png) [@brujaja](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brujaja)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/45 "2008-03-06T19:53:29Z")
Mostly straight chick. Believe it or not, one of the things I find sexiest about a man is… his arms. I like lean muscled arms in a sleeveless T or wifebeater. I love to watch men doing something they’re good at. I remember once a sometime lover was driving me home. He was a really good driver, very competent in all situations, and I looked over at his arm as he was shifting gears, and I thought, _mmmmmmmm!_ You don’t have to say it, I already know I’m weird. ---
**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/46 "2008-03-06T20:37:41Z")
[QUOTE=irishgirl] I like erect penises, but not in isolation. [/QUOTE] So, two penises? ---
**Author:** ![goldenmean1975](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7993a0/32.png) [@goldenmean1975](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/goldenmean1975)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/47 "2008-03-06T21:35:56Z")
Straight female here. I love to look at male genitals. All sizes, shapes…as long as they aren’t diseased, they turn me on. I love to look at the rest of the body as well. But I have a great fondness for penises. Female genitals look gross to me. But I like pretty boobs, to look at. Not sexually, but they are aesthetically pleasing to me. ---
**Author:** ![irishgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/8edcca/32.png) [@irishgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/irishgirl)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/48 "2008-03-06T23:42:25Z")
**Otto** - D’uh, yes! No, really I mean with the arms, the hands, the butt, the face, the chest, the thighs, the body, the back…I like men, from top to bottom (especially bottom) but it’s better as a coherent whole, rather than a few pieces. ---
**Author:** ![ouryL](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ouryl/32/6067_2.png) [@ouryL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ouryL)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/49 "2008-03-07T00:02:36Z")
Nudity in porno is a must. In conventional media…meh! ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/50 "2008-03-07T00:08:51Z")
[QUOTE=levdrakon] **Otto, Otto, Otto**. You pay for guy porn? [/QUOTE] _Anyone_ pays for _any_ porn? ---
**Author:** ![exclamation](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/858c86/32.png) [@exclamation](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/exclamation)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/51 "2008-03-07T02:05:34Z")
Penis is great, in context. But I’ll have to say the package, definitely. Especially if it’s pleasantly suprising (like a quiet, nerdish guy with an amazing set of back muscles). Female, mostly hetero. ---
**Author:** ![bbs2k](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e495f1/32.png) [@bbs2k](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bbs2k)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 8:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952/52 "2008-03-07T08:28:21Z")
[QUOTE=irishgirl] I’m married to a man who pulls his pants down and does a naked cock flapping dance when he’s excited or happy about something (and we’re alone together). I find it funny or :rolleyes: depending on my mood. Not sexy, not at all. [/QUOTE] Can you post a video of this? I am not interested, but I am _interested_. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/gay-men-straight-women-do-you-want-to-see-the-penis-or-the-uh-package/439952.md?page=2)