# Geez, I'm 34 and I have a question about sex. **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [May 17, 2005, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253 "2005-05-17T16:10:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Kythereia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e8c25b/32.png) [@Kythereia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kythereia)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 9:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/61 "2005-05-19T21:49:39Z")
I think you may be thinking of **START** … ---
**Author:** ![Kythereia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e8c25b/32.png) [@Kythereia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kythereia)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/62 "2005-05-19T21:50:51Z")
To **Priceguy** , not **Loopydude**. :smack: Preview, preview… ---
**Author:** ![devilsknew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4da419/32.png) [@devilsknew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/devilsknew)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/63 "2005-05-19T21:51:08Z")
> [@vetbridge](#): > > Duh…pleasure. Ideally mutual. _checks to do list_ 😉 Yea, **bustin a nut** is such a noble goal. :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![TellMeI\_mNotCrazy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tellmei_mnotcrazy/32/3419_2.png) [@TellMeI\_mNotCrazy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TellMeI_mNotCrazy)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/64 "2005-05-19T22:02:44Z")
Why does sex have to be noble? Sometimes, people like to do things just because they’re fun. ---
**Author:** ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/65 "2005-05-19T22:04:30Z")
> [@devilsknew](#): > > Yea, **bustin a nut** is such a noble goal. :rolleyes: I have reviewed this thread and find that I’ve never attributed orgasm with nobility. So what’s the problem with mutual pleasure?:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/66 "2005-05-19T23:08:50Z")
> [@vetbridge](#): > > I have reviewed this thread and find that I’ve never attributed orgasm with nobility. So what’s the problem with mutual pleasure?:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes: “But I want to face the peril!” “No, you can’t, it’s too perilous.” ---
**Author:** ![jimpatro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b9e5f3/32.png) [@jimpatro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jimpatro)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2005, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/67 "2005-05-19T23:48:55Z")
**Loopydude** > [@](#): > > She then proceded to return the favor, and hit me back with “What, I’m not the goddess, now?” And with 100% po-faced earnestness I replied “You’re better, even!” 😃 Woody Allen wishes he could come up with stuff this good. Priceless. ---
**Author:** ![Loopydude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e56c9b/32.png) [@Loopydude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loopydude)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 12:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/68 "2005-05-20T00:21:27Z")
> [@jimpatro](#): > > **Loopydude** > > 😃 Woody Allen wishes he could come up with stuff this good. > Priceless. Aww, made me blush. Woody would be appalled, but thanks. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tenar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/35a633/32.png) [@Tenar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tenar)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 12:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/69 "2005-05-20T00:35:45Z")
Rough paraphrase from the movie _Dogma_: Jay: “Let’s get makin’ with the love!” Bethany: “WHAT?!!?!” Jay: "Making love. It’s a nice way of saying ‘boning.’ " ---
**Author:** ![Canadiangirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@Canadiangirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Canadiangirl)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/70 "2005-05-20T13:18:15Z")
Isn’t that interesting? I was in one of those relationship (you know, casual guy friend, great lover) but when I started dating someone else, he got all in a knot about it. It seems to be that you can’t seem to find a casual lover at the same time they want a casual lover…I think that’s the way of the world. ---
**Author:** ![flight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/bbce88/32.png) [@flight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flight)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/71 "2005-05-20T14:13:20Z")
[QUOTE=The Weird One] > [@flight0People say crazy shit during sex. One time I called this girl "Mom."\[/quote](#): > > :eek: That beats me. One time I growled during sex. Completely unintentional, I swear. To his credit, he let me finish before he started teasing me abou tit. Er, about it. 😃 Hmm, that would be a woosh, try googling my post. ---
**Author:** ![flight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/bbce88/32.png) [@flight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/flight)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/72 "2005-05-20T14:14:29Z")
> [@The Weird One](#): > > > [@flight](#): > > > > People say crazy shit during sex. One time I called this girl “Mom.” > > :eek: That beats me. One time I growled during sex. Completely unintentional, I swear. To his credit, he let me finish before he started teasing me abou tit. Er, about it. 😃 Hmm, that would be a woosh, try googling my post. … and this would be a need to preview. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Weird\_One](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@The\_Weird\_One](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Weird_One)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/73 "2005-05-20T14:53:54Z")
[QUOTE=flight] Hmm, that would be a woosh, try googling my post.QUOTE] :o ---
**Author:** ![The\_Weird\_One](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@The\_Weird\_One](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Weird_One)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/74 "2005-05-20T14:55:01Z")
Curses! ---
**Author:** ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2005, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/75 "2005-05-20T16:55:00Z")
> [@devilsknew](#): > > So harden yourself if you must Isn’t that a given? > [@devilsknew](#): > > Sex without Love is masturbation. [http://www.masturbateforpeace.com/](http://www.masturbateforpeace.com/) ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2005, 4:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253/76 "2005-05-26T04:27:49Z")
> [@devilsknew](#): > > Yea, but what’s the point? “Sex is for pleasure, a complete and worthwhile goal in and of itself. People have sex because it feels very good, and then they feel good about themselves. The worthiness of pleasure is one of the core values of ethical sluthood.” - Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt, _The Ethical Slut_ [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/geez-im-34-and-i-have-a-question-about-sex/304253.md?page=3)