Lissla Lissar, you didn’t offend me it was more of a reaction to what I had been reading negatively about Rand on this board for awhile. So if something I wrote came out mean it’s just the way I write.
Since no one really asked I will tell how Ayn Rand influenced/changed or whatever my life.
As I said before I first read her when I was 22. I had just gotten out of college so I was at my fathers house waiting for dinner, I think for my graduation. I was pretty bored so I was looking through his bookshelf. I had seen her books on his self before but never took any interest in them. I picked up Anthem since it was so small and I figured it would be something to do while I waited.
Quite frankly this book was what I was always looking for. Since I was a little kid I had different thoughts, at least from what I saw. Most of it was stuff like, “you need to do stuff for the good of the group.” Either I saw it differently or others accepted it. I’m still not sure.
I tried religion when I was 8 or 9, mostly because I was looking for answers. Even there you can see that they want to be second to God or just others in general.
I also tried Boy Scouts and the same thing happened. They were fairly similar to religion in that they wanted you to help everyone else.
Now I’m not saying there is anything wrong with helping others. Even Rand never said such a thing, and if someone can actually find this then please let me know, I personally have never seen it. I have most of her books so I can look it up. I have never seen her say don’t help others. What she said is that it is not your duty to help someone else. If you chose to help someone else that is fine but in no way should you be forced nor feel forced to do it. That was why I didn’t like the scouts or religion.
To Rand and to me you must always give the individual the choice to do as they want. She did not say anything about doing whatever you chose with a total disregard for others, again I’d like someone to point out where she said that. She actually said the exact opposite, you have no rights to do something that can harm someone else. She would have never said it’s ok to get rip roaring drunk and then go for a drive, that would put others at risk, something you have no right to do. My father used to say the same thing to me when I first learned to drive. He would tell me “If you want to drink, that’s pretty much fine by me. However, do not drive if you have been drinking. I will come and pick you up, but if I catch you driving after drinking I’ll kick your ass and you will not have a car.” I took that to mean that I don’t have the right to endanger others, much the same I took Rand to mean do what you want until the point that you may endanger another.
Even looking at The Fountainhead when Roark destroyed the building he made sure that the night watchman was gone, at least I’m pretty sure he did it’s been awhile since I read it.
That was only one of the things that I picked up from reading Rand. To me actually reading “It’s ok to be you, do with your life what you want,” was huge, I can not think of another book that just said that. Yes others have said it but even then it just was not the same, not for me.
I think that this is the biggest thing that I got out of reading Rand. There are other small things that off the top of my head I can not think of right now.
Now I guess though I can go onto the things that I did not like or at least not agree with that Rand wrote. I never understood her economics and most of it I don’t think would work. Then again who’s really does? I also didn’t like the way she killed some of the people in Atlas Shrugged, at one point there was an accident in a tunnel and she went into a small dialog about all the things that the passengers did and it’s ok that they died. I really didn’t like that, just because they did things that you don’t agree with doesn’t mean that you can just dismiss their lives.
Lissla Lissar, you asked me about rasing children. Well as I said I was raised at least a little bit by her philosophy. Looking back I can see how at least my father used some of what she said when bringing me up. The part about driving drunk is one. Actually they are all pretty much along the same lines, you have no right to harm others. I can also see how he chose to send me and my brother to college using his money. Talking to him now he has told me he wanted me to go to college and that he put money away because of that. He never had to save money and I’ve never gotten the feeling that he was forced to. Last night on Judge Judy she told someone it was there duty to send their kid to college and pay for it. I don’t see how anyone can say that.
My father also let me do pretty much what I wanted. Yes others let their kids do whatever, but from what I have seen it was different, he cared about what I did but let me do it to learn and not just let me run wild. I can’t really say what I want except my growing up just felt different from what I saw around me. I think that I will talk to my father about this as it will give me a better insight than me trying to say how he did it when I don’t know his thoughts. I will not really talk to him until next week though as I am going away for the weekend.
There is plenty more to say but right now I can’t put it to words, incase you haven’t noticed writing is not my strong point. However:
I place her books in this order, Anthem, The Fountainhead, We the Living, Atlas Shrugged. While I liked AS I did not get much out of it, Anthem gave me the jump start and The Fountainhead told me the rest.
As for dirt, I could care less about what Ayn Rand did with her personal life. No really I do not give a shit that she had an affair or didn’t live 100% to her own thoughts. I never read any of the books about her and know very little about her life and that’s mostly from the introductions of her books.
I think though that a lot of people, at least from what I have read around here, go into her books all wrong. Even Guinastasia went into AS knowing she would hate it, did you even finish it by the way, and of course she will. I used to do the same thing, go do something I know I would hate and end up hating it. Now I’ve come to learn that thinking at least a little bit positively that I might enjoy something and I do, by the way I’m not picking on you Guin, it’s just an example. I think one would need to read the book as just a book and let it tell you what it wants.
If anyone has any questions please let me know. I can only tell you how I interpret her works though and not how someone else will.
on preview I think this is the longest thing I’ve ever written here! :eek: