# Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 3, 2001, 3:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388 "2001-06-03T03:03:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Searching\_For\_Truth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Searching\_For\_Truth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Searching_For_Truth)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 3:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/1 "2001-06-03T03:03:00Z")
I have to know-guys always joke around saying that they’d love to catch a girl in the act or watch a girl masturbate. I reason that this might work when watching a porno flick, but how many guys are eager to walk in on their girlfriend masturbating? Most girls would rather not walk in on their guys as far as I can tell. What do \* you \* think? ---
**Author:** ![dpr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@dpr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dpr)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 3:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/2 "2001-06-03T03:19:42Z")
I love watching my SO masturbate. It’s one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question. As for walking in on her, well that’s a bit more difficult as they can hide it so much easier than, say, a guy with a throbbing erection though I’ve done it before, just as I’ve been titillated by whispered stories from the girl tellign me she just had a quick wank behind those bushes over there and no-one here at this picnic noticed a thing. Mmmmmmmmm. ---
**Author:** ![Dr.Lao](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/2bfe46/32.png) [@Dr.Lao](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Lao)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/3 "2001-06-03T03:20:17Z")
I’m not sure how I would feel walking in on my hypothetical girlfriend masturbating, but I can tell you that the thought of a woman masturbating is definitly a turn-on. I suppose this is because for a lot of guys any interested woman is a turn-on, and someone who is masturbating sure is interested in something. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![TN\_hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TN\_hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TN_hippie)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 5:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/4 "2001-06-03T05:47:09Z")
Extremely erotic, yes. Yum, TN\*hippie ---
**Author:** ![UncleBill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/d26b3c/32.png) [@UncleBill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UncleBill)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 7:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/5 "2001-06-03T07:45:01Z")
Two of my fondest sexual memories are from the lady I dated in NC, who, while I was laying atop her doing what comes naturally, wedged her hand between our bellies and began rubbing her clitoris. That sensation and knowledge of what she was doing was a mind-blower. Then the most recent young lady in GA, on our first bedroom encounter, as I was coming back from retrieving two condoms from her bathroom (always knock twice) I saw her manually stimulating herself, and her expression of sensuality and openness was another brain explosion. Humina, humina. I approve of it heartily. ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 9:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/6 "2001-06-03T09:29:50Z")
Oh my goodness yes! Yes yes yes! ---
**Author:** ![Astroboy14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df705f/32.png) [@Astroboy14](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Astroboy14)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 9:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/7 "2001-06-03T09:33:03Z")
I’m having a hard, um, time thinking of anything more erotic! Except maybe walking in on **TWO** girls mastubating… To the shower!!😃 ---
**Author:** ![SPOOFE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c5a1d2/32.png) [@SPOOFE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SPOOFE)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 9:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/8 "2001-06-03T09:39:41Z")
Well, I’ve seen my best friend get fingered by her boyfriend before (and I’ve seen her give her boyfriend head before), so it’s pretty much given that A: I’m a hardcore voyeur, and B: I’ll watch anything if it involves either a penis or a vagina. ---
**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/9 "2001-06-03T14:37:34Z")
Uuummmmmm,…yeah…I’d…watch that…sure. Especially if she doesn’t catch on that I’m watching… ---
**Author:** ![Astroboy14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/df705f/32.png) [@Astroboy14](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Astroboy14)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/10 "2001-06-03T14:53:32Z")
**SPOOFE** , can I hang out with you? ---
**Author:** ![Damhna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3bc359/32.png) [@Damhna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Damhna)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 2:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/11 "2001-06-03T14:59:13Z")
There is nothing , nothing quite as sensual and arousing. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Cynical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@Mr.Cynical](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Cynical)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/12 "2001-06-03T15:26:34Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by dpr \* > **I love watching my SO masturbate. It’s one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question.** Aw, Jesus, dpr. I’m never going to be able to read anything she writes without thinking of this post. ---
**Author:** ![Sublight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/439d5e/32.png) [@Sublight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sublight)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/13 "2001-06-03T17:38:10Z")
Yes, very much. My girfriend also enjoys watching me masturbate. ## –sublight. If I can’t lick the system, I’ll give it a damn good fondling. ---
**Author:** ![Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Morrison\_s\_Lament](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morrison_s_Lament)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/14 "2001-06-03T18:05:52Z")
Mmmmmm… girls masturbating… I still prefer beer and valium though, but that’s just me 😃 — G. Raven ---
**Author:** ![Tuckerfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/eada6e/32.png) [@Tuckerfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tuckerfan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/15 "2001-06-03T18:50:45Z")
Oh yeah, we dig it. Because _we_ do it, and if we see **you** doing it, we know you’re _ **interested** _ in **sex**!!! That way we know you’re not sleeping with us just to make us happy, but because we’re good. (We males tend to have fragile egos about such things.) ---
**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/16 "2001-06-03T18:57:54Z")
Yeah, it works for me! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crankyasanoldman/32/11670_2.png) [@CrankyAsAnOldMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CrankyAsAnOldMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/17 "2001-06-03T19:00:00Z")
Back when I was giving good phone to a guy I didn’t get to see often enough, I once described a plan wherein I’d tie him up up spread eagled on the bed so he was naked and helpless. Then I’d straddle him so I was just out of reach and masturbate where he could see the whole thing, including my face as I brought myself off without an ounce of help from him. I was given to understand that this was an agonizingly appealing scene for him to think about. Of course, maybe he was just good at giving good phone, too. ---
**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/18 "2001-06-03T20:30:09Z")
…that you’ve completely blown me away (I just read your thread about the Tommy/Pamela video). Damn. As for the OP, I personally haven’t met a man yet who didn’t dig watching. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/19 "2001-06-03T20:36:00Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Persephone \* > \*\*… > As for the OP, I personally haven’t met a man yet who didn’t dig watching. 😉 \*\* Some even request it, even! ---
**Author:** ![Silo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ac91a4/32.png) [@Silo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silo)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2001, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/20 "2001-06-03T20:39:52Z")
Talk about masturbating your post count, sheesh. 😉 Sure I dig it… but it’s more fun after a joint! 😉 oh yeah, and some Valium too ::gives morrisons the thumbs up:: 😃 Ok, this thread is a buncha guys? ::shudder:: So…um, ladies what do you think about the reverse situation? ::waddling away:: [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388.md?page=2)