# Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [June 3, 2001, 3:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388 "2001-06-03T03:03:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Tuckerfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/eada6e/32.png) [@Tuckerfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tuckerfan)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/41 "2001-06-04T01:44:25Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Miss Creant \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Tuckerfan \* > > \*\ ***Miss Creant** , I dunno about other guys, but I’d probably _ **dig** _ it. Like the man said, “Whatever it takes to get you off, baby.” (Though you might wanna say something to the guy before you do the nasty to indicate that you like playing with yourself during sex. If _ **that** _ doesn’t turn him on, you’re probably better off without him. \*\* > > Just for the record, I’m not playing around down there the whole time. Only until I absolutly can’t wait a second longer. \*\* Doesn’t matter. If a woman I was about to be intimate with for the first time looked at me kind of coyly and said in a babyish voice said that she liked to play with herself during sex, I’d probably propose to her on the spot. Once had a girlfriend who could only orgasm in certain sexual positions, and I can tell you it got me really excited when she said it. If a guy’s really interested in you, then he’s not going to care what it takes to get you off, so long as you **do** get off. Unless, of course, its something really weird like making him dress up in your nightie while wearing golf shoes, then you’d probably freak a number of guys out. ---
**Author:** ![elfkin477](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a9a28c/32.png) [@elfkin477](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfkin477)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/42 "2001-06-04T01:49:13Z")
> [@](#): > > Most girls would rather not walk in on their guys as far as I can tell. What do \* you \* think? \*\* Well, I’m not dating anyone, so I won’t comment on the boyfriend thing but…it’d be much worse to walk in on a girl friend doing that than a guy friend. Nothing against any of the girls I’m friends with, but eek, how embarassing would that be? Maybe because girls don’t talk about it with their girl friends as often? I mean, I’d assume just about all the guys did it from things they’ve said…oh hell, I can’t really explain it, it’d just be worse to walk in on another girl. ---
**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/43 "2001-06-04T01:59:52Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by dantheman \* > \*\*To answer the OP from my own point of view: > Nope! > > Well, not me, anyway. 🙂 \*\* _No_? As in ‘No, I don’t want to see that’ or ‘No, I don’t mind watching?’? ---
**Author:** ![Azura\_Borealis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7ab992/32.png) [@Azura\_Borealis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azura_Borealis)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/44 "2001-06-04T02:01:44Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Silo \* > \*\*Ok, this thread is a buncha guys? ::shudder:: So…um, ladies what do you think about the reverse situation? > ::waddling away:: \*\* Not only do “Enjoy” Masturbating for, and with, my SO (when I have one) I also, very MUCH so enjoy watching my SO masturbating. Whether it be while I sit back on the sofa and watch him lying in bed, masturbating, for me… I enjoy observing the different expressions of pleasure on his face, with different techniques & manipulations, it’s a stunning visual, if you are really into seeing what makes your man tick. (Or wank) Or if it’s watching/knowing he is masturbating while we are having a sexcapade… definately lets me know how aroused he is, if he’s so hot that he has to give it a wank while he can’t reach my body. And seeing that type of arousal… is definately a turn on. _Yum_ Just my girly point of view. Catching a guy wanking solo would be a different story. Not so much of a turn on to me. I’d much prefer he come get me and say - I feel like having a wank, will you come watch? Give me some inspiration? _wink wink_ Much more appealing that catching him with his pants down. ::Runs off to find a yummy goth boi who has a webcam, and the compulsive urge to wank. heh.:: ---
**Author:** ![hardygrrl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a3d4f5/32.png) [@hardygrrl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hardygrrl)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/45 "2001-06-04T02:01:45Z")
Elfkin477…sometimes I wish I hung out with friends like yours. I got an email today confirming that one of my best friends was using two of the birthday gifts she received… A multi-speed vibrator A life size cardboard cutout of Chris Jericho. Hopefully not at the same time but I wouldn’t put it past her ::shudders:: And I’m the freak because I have phone sex. Great phone sex. ---
**Author:** ![Azura\_Borealis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7ab992/32.png) [@Azura\_Borealis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azura_Borealis)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/46 "2001-06-04T02:04:33Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by hardygrrl \* > \*\*And I’m the freak because I have phone sex. Great phone sex. \*\* I’ve been called a freak for that too. Allbeit, I did not pay for this phonesex, but nonetheless it was always fabulous! So - you aren’t alone in the freak kingdom. heh. ---
**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/47 "2001-06-04T02:08:26Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Arden Ranger \* > \*\*_No_? > > As in ‘No, I don’t want to see that’ or ‘No, I don’t mind watching?’? \*\* No, I don’t want to see that… I mean, if the question is, “Would you want to watch a woman masturbate?” my answer is nope, I wouldn’t. To me, that’s no fun. _Participating_, however, _is_. 🙂 So if I was gonna watch and THEN have fun, I suppose I could put up with it… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Searching\_For\_Truth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@Searching\_For\_Truth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Searching_For_Truth)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/48 "2001-06-04T02:57:20Z")
- \*_Whammo- \*\* How about Arden R, Perse, Cranky, Hardygrrl and I all “do lunch” and you can all use me to share with each other your special techniques and tips!!!_ Can I come? It’s my post… - quote:\*\* Milossarian- \*\* Girls and Masturbation: Do Guys Really Dig It? And the winner of the “Stupidest Question of 2001, Even for MPSIMS,” is …\* Excuse me Milo, but the reply above it was a NO! So not everyone is into it… ---
**Author:** ![Montfort](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Montfort](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Montfort)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/49 "2001-06-04T03:18:08Z")
I’m posting to this thread for the sole purpose of allowing **Anniz** to see her name in it the next time she does a name-search for herself. 😃 I, alas, have very little anecdotal evidence to report on. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/50 "2001-06-04T03:53:16Z")
oh montfort… I think your sig answers for you. _LOL_ ---
**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/51 "2001-06-04T03:56:01Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Searching For Truth \* > \*\*Can I come? \*\* **Ahem** I said DAMN I love it when a woman asks that! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![glee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b5a626/32.png) [@glee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glee)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/52 "2001-06-04T04:37:52Z")
So it’s 0500 local time, and I can’t get to sleep. I decide to read a few threads, then go back to bed. Then I find this: > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by CrankyAsAnOldMan \* > Back when I was giving good phone to a guy I didn’t get to see often enough, I once described a plan wherein I’d tie him up up spread eagled on the bed so he was naked and helpless. 🆒 > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by CrankyAsAnOldMan \* > Then I’d straddle him so I was just out of reach and masturbate where he could see the whole thing, including my face as I brought myself off without an ounce of help from him. 🙂 > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by CrankyAsAnOldMan \* > I was given to understand that this was an agonizingly appealing scene for him to think about. 😃 😃 Now I’ll never get back to sleep… ---
**Author:** ![Anniz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/cc9497/32.png) [@Anniz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anniz)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 7:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/53 "2001-06-04T07:51:49Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Montfort \* > \*\* > I, alas, have very little anecdotal evidence to report on. ☹ \*\* You whant to watch me doing it, sure, no problem, but you have to wait a while till I’m there again. Is that okay? ---
**Author:** ![Milossarian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Milossarian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Milossarian)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 12:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/54 "2001-06-04T12:16:08Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\*Excuse me Milo, but the reply above it was a NO! So not everyone is into it… \*\* Ah, but Searching, the score is as lopsided as a Detroit Lions NFL playoff game. ---
**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 12:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/55 "2001-06-04T12:21:12Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Milossarian \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*\*Excuse me Milo, but the reply above it was a NO! So not everyone is into it… > > \*\* > Ah, but Searching, the score is as lopsided as a Detroit Lions NFL playoff game. \*\* Does that make me Wayne Fontes or Bobby Ross? ---
**Author:** ![dpr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@dpr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dpr)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/56 "2001-06-04T13:16:51Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Anniz \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Montfort \* > > \*\* > > I, alas, have very little anecdotal evidence to report on. ☹ \*\* > > You whant to watch me doing it, sure, > no problem, but you have to wait a while till I’m there again. > Is that okay? \*\* Aaaaah warm fuzzy feelings for two wonderful people… Although in a strange way that leaves me feeling like 'm intruding… p.s. It’s so wonderful to see you two still so happy. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Odieman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/a87d85/32.png) [@Odieman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odieman)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/57 "2001-06-04T13:34:42Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by dpr \* > I love watching my SO masturbate. It’s one of the most erotic and intimate exepriences IMO. Sharing such a private thing with your lover is not only special but highly erotic as it reeks of sexuality and speaks volumes about the person in question. > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by dpr \* > > Although in a strange way that leaves me feeling like 'm intruding… > \*\* Yeah I know exactly what you mean dpr 😉 Keith ---
**Author:** ![lurkernomore](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d6d6ee/32.png) [@lurkernomore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lurkernomore)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/58 "2001-06-04T13:43:41Z")
let’s see…guys get to see pussy…and the problem with this is? Yes. ---
**Author:** ![Montfort](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Montfort](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Montfort)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/59 "2001-06-04T14:32:10Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Anniz \* > \*\*You whant to watch me doing it, sure, > no problem, but you have to wait a while till I’m there again. > Is that okay? \*\* Deal. Do I _have_ to wait, though? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Tygr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/df788c/32.png) [@Tygr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tygr)\ **Post date:** [June 4, 2001, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388/60 "2001-06-04T14:37:18Z")
HA! **lurker** that was roughly the exact reply I was formulating in my mind as I read this thread. 'specially after reading **Cranky’s** mind-blowingly descriptive scenario. 🆒 I figured the answer would be a nearly 'cross the board “YES” simply because most guys love the sight of a well-stimulated p **sy. And who can stimulate a p** sy better than that p\*\*sy’s owner? 😉 Plus it’s a great learning opportunity - pay attention and take plenty of notes, because there WILL be a test later, in the form of putting what you’ve learned to practical use. Gad, people, WAS it a full moon? All these threads about sex to read first thing on a Monday morning… Lucky for me I had a good weekend, else I’d be getting NO work done. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/girls-and-masturbation-do-guys-really-dig-it/67388.md?page=4)