# Good bye bully!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 15, 2009, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354 "2009-12-15T14:05:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/1 "2009-12-15T14:05:10Z")

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My evil boss (as known from threads [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=540697)and [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=543009)) is being forced to take a demotion! She’s being transferred to another branch to get her away from all the nastiness she’s caused. So yay! However, the branch manager who was on my side through all of this is also leaving. She was offered a better job elsewhere. So my branch is going to be severely lacking any sort of leadership til they get this fixed. It’s going to be a rough month or two.

But she’s gone!

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**Author:** ![Trepa\_Mayfield](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@Trepa\_Mayfield](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trepa_Mayfield)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/2 "2009-12-15T14:19:59Z")

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Yay!

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**Author:** ![Dragwyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dragwyr/32/2855_2.png) [@Dragwyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragwyr)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/3 "2009-12-15T14:27:04Z")

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**Serenata67** , that is awesome.

So does this mean you no longer have the problem with the wedding invitation?

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**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/4 "2009-12-15T14:30:53Z")

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> [@Dragwyr](#):
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> **Serenata67** , that is awesome.
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> So does this mean you no longer have the problem with the wedding invitation?

Pretty much, yeah. If she shows up, I have no problem kicking her crashing butt out!

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/5 "2009-12-15T14:35:37Z")

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Awesome news!

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/6 "2009-12-15T14:37:47Z")

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Ding, Dong…

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**Author:** ![Dinsdale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/97f17d/32.png) [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/7 "2009-12-15T14:38:10Z")

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Way cool! I wish it weren’t so unusual that folk in authority got what they deserved.

A few years back our office staged a revolt and got our boss reassigned. I couldn’t believe it was successful.

Fantastic when the system actually works the way it should every once in a great while, isn’t it!

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**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 2:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/8 "2009-12-15T14:55:08Z")

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Awesome!!

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**Author:** ![Translucent\_Daydream](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/translucent_daydream/32/16170_2.png) [@Translucent\_Daydream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Translucent_Daydream)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/9 "2009-12-15T15:13:14Z")

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I am in the process of getting this done in my office. When they found out that the meeting that they set up to scream at me for **not** breaking the law was going to be recorded digitally and also be attended by human resources, neither of them showed up today.

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/10 "2009-12-15T15:22:44Z")

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> [@Serenata67](#):
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> She’s being transferred to another branch to get her away from all the nastiness she’s caused.

I’m happy for you of course, but that sucks she will get to spread her shit elsewhere in your company.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/11 "2009-12-15T15:43:35Z")

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> [@Translucent\_Daydream](#):
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> I am in the process of getting this done in my office. When they found out that the meeting that they set up to scream at me for **not** breaking the law was going to be recorded digitally and also be attended by human resources, neither of them showed up today.

I’m afraid that that’s going to require a little explanation.

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**Author:** ![Pray\_for\_peace](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Pray\_for\_peace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pray_for_peace)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/12 "2009-12-15T15:48:54Z")

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> [@Translucent\_Daydream](#):
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> I am in the process of getting this done in my office. When they found out that the meeting that they set up to scream at me for **not** breaking the law was going to be recorded digitally and also be attended by human resources, neither of them showed up today.

Ah, just to be on the safe side, it’s probably not a good idea to give a more detailed description of an ongoing HR matter (although I think the brief post you’ve made is fine).

ETA: **Serenata** , I’m very happy for you!

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**Author:** ![Translucent\_Daydream](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/translucent_daydream/32/16170_2.png) [@Translucent\_Daydream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Translucent_Daydream)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/13 "2009-12-15T15:52:22Z")

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I shouldn’t say.

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**Author:** ![MsWhatsit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb8c5e/32.png) [@MsWhatsit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsWhatsit)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/14 "2009-12-15T15:54:33Z")

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Oh wow, I’m sure that has to be a huge relief. Excellent news! Although it would be even more excellent if they had just fired her butt, instead of inflicting her on another branch. Still, at least she’s out of your hair!

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/15 "2009-12-15T15:58:40Z")

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Ha! Sometimes things \*do \*work the way they should!

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/16 "2009-12-15T16:02:12Z")

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> [@Translucent\_Daydream](#):
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> I shouldn’t say.

Yeah, you probably shouldn’t. But I’m really curious!

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**Author:** ![Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f08c70/32.png) [@Crowbar\_of\_Irony\_3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Crowbar_of_Irony_3)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/17 "2009-12-15T16:02:16Z")

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This is great news! I am glad for you.

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**Author:** ![Translucent\_Daydream](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/translucent_daydream/32/16170_2.png) [@Translucent\_Daydream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Translucent_Daydream)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/18 "2009-12-15T16:14:16Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> Yeah, you probably shouldn’t. But I’m really curious!

I PM’d ya.

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**Author:** ![Projammer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/projammer/32/559_2.png) [@Projammer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Projammer)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/19 "2009-12-15T17:32:20Z")

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> [@Serenata67](#):
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> But she’s gone!

An outright firing squad would have been preferable of course, but then again, this could be the start of encouraging her to explore employment opportunities elsewhere.

Any chance her old job is your new job? Or would you still prefer a transfer?

And I forgot to mention in the other thread, congrats on the upcoming nuptials!

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [December 15, 2009, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/good-bye-bully/521354/20 "2009-12-15T17:55:18Z")

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Wow, so you’ll have a stress free wedding!

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