If I had said “Hey, here are two opposing things all Americans say” or 'Why do most Americans always contradict themselves like this?", you would have sound basis for your complaint. I didn’t say anything like that, because I don’t think or believe that.
There are two apparently-contrasting viewpoints that I have heard enough to notice that I heard them. I wanted to understand where they come from . Of course when I ask a question, it’s impossible not to imagine what the potential answers might be. The potential answers I happened to consider in this case included:
- Yeah, those are two different sets of people and they are in fierce opposition with one another; also they are pretty vocal, so your impression of how common that is in everyday life, might be skewed.
- Yeah, those two contradictory views are held by this specific group of people who are in a state of congnitive dissonance; the way they notionally reconcile these two opposing thoughts is…[something]
- Although you framed those two different things as opposites, they are not quite as simple as you stated them and are not in fact opposites in reality, because…[something]
- Something else I haven’t considered
- Some combination or permutation of the above, with the following interesting nuances…
Neither would I. Neither DID I. You made that up.
No. I wanted to know how those apparently different things are arranged.