Well, you can try *A Dictionary of Contemporary American Usage * by Bergen and Cornelia Evans (1957). I quote in part:
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When the verb in a sentence is passive the thing acted on becomes the grammatical subject and is always mentioned, but the agent may be ignored. In many English verbs the active form may be used with a passive sense, as in the dorr shut, the room filled, the car drives easily. This has always been true for lay. People have always said * the book is laying on the table* and let it lay… Some grammarians claim that lieis required here, on the grounds that the verb does not have an object. This is an overstatement. Lie may be used here, but it is not required…There is a tendency in present-day English to prefer the verb lay in speaking of inanimate objects, and the verb lie in speaking of living creatures.
In addition, Mr. Kilpatrick has written several books on the English language. The Evanses, as you probably know, were authorities on English, and Mr. Evans was the publisher of Random House.