# grude, do you have something on your mind? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [October 20, 2014, 9:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906 "2014-10-20T09:35:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/21 "2014-10-20T18:42:21Z")
> [@grude](#): > > I don’t like saying nigger, I’m sick of race being rubbed in my fucking face(we’re in the pit right?) For someone who doesn’t like saying it, you sure say it an awful lot. > [@](#): > > I have no clue how to respond Here’s a free clue - constantly repeating the slurs here isn’t the best way. One iteration of “someone called me an old nigger” is one thing, peppering your post with it is…another. > [@](#): > > TLDR I am sick of Trinidad. So move. > [@Drunky\_Smurf](#): > > It sounds like you have something you want to tell us. You can share, it’s ok, this is a safe place. Well, for one thing, I hate Smurfs. Ooh, I hate them. > [@grude](#): > > Mr Dribble- Go fuck a cactus. > [@](#): > > The wartime rape thread was inspired by ISIS mainstream media articles, and historical accounts of wartime rape. I wondered if I was born a hundred to a thousand years ago would my peers have been looking forward to a war so they could get some? Sure. That’s why you went to all the trouble to point out how nice Westerners don’t do wartime rapes anymore…which must be such a relief to Abeer Qassim Hamza and her family. You know, if her First World soldier rapists hadn’t killed them all. > [@](#): > > But your assumptions are appreciated! It’s nice to be valued. ---
**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/22 "2014-10-20T18:54:40Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > For someone who doesn’t like saying it, you sure say it an awful lot.Here’s a free clue - constantly repeating the slurs here isn’t the best way. One iteration of “someone called me an old nigger” is one thing, peppering your post with it is…another.So move. > Well, for one thing, I hate Smurfs. Ooh, I hate them. > > Go fuck a cactus.Sure. That’s why you went to all the trouble to point out how nice Westerners don’t do wartime rapes anymore…which must be such a relief to Abeer Qassim Hamza and her family. You know, if her First World soldier rapists hadn’t killed them all.It’s nice to be valued. Believe whatever you want. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/23 "2014-10-20T18:57:50Z")
> [@grude](#): > > Believe whatever you want. Why thanks, I shall. ---
**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/24 "2014-10-20T19:01:18Z")
Where did I say ELIMINATED? I’m well aware rape of female soldiers by USA soldiers goes on, I do read the news. If this is the incident you cite I don’t doubt it: > **[Mahmudiyah rape and killings](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mahmudiyah_killings#Victims)** > > The Mahmudiyah rape and killings were war crimes involving the gang-rape and murder of 14-year-old Iraqi girl Abeer Qassim Hamza al-Janabi and the murder of her family by United States Army soldiers on March 12, 2006. It occurred in the family's house to the southwest of Yusufiyah, a village to the west of the town of Al-Mahmudiyah, Iraq. Other members of al-Janabi's family murdered by American soldiers included her 34-year-old mother Fakhriyah Taha Muhasen, 45-year-old father Qassim Hamza Raheem... If you think I’m some USA we’re number 1 poster you are way off base. ---
**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/25 "2014-10-20T19:08:48Z")
Reading it isn’t participating. You come off like you just want to start stuff. Requests for clarification or context go unanswered. Reasoned opinions receive no response. Can you see why that might be a tad tiresome? ---
**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/26 "2014-10-20T19:08:59Z")
> [@grude](#): > > TLDR I am sick of Trinidad. I hear Tobago is lovely. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/27 "2014-10-20T19:23:23Z")
> [@grude](#): > > Where did I say ELIMINATED? When you said “It seems it is only the USA and other first world countries where this is punished harshly where it has\*\* died out\*\*” If “died out due to harsh punishment” isn’t “elimination”, you may need an English refresher course. It would be useful for the rest of us if it also included a module on what is and isn’t outright vile language to use on message boards… ---
**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/28 "2014-10-20T19:25:11Z")
> [@elbows](#): > > Reading it isn’t participating. You come off like you just want to start stuff. Requests for clarification or context go unanswered. Reasoned opinions receive no response. > > Can you see why that might be a tad tiresome? Yea I apologize to anyone who wanted either of those and did not receive it, yes I know that is essentially meaningless but I am serious in the apology. Any thread of mine anyone replied to, you can be confident I read, even if I did not personally reply to. ---
**Author:** ![grude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47774/32.png) [@grude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/grude)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/29 "2014-10-20T19:31:35Z")
> [@MrDibble](#): > > When you said “It seems it is only the USA and other first world countries where this is punished harshly where it has\*\* died out\*\*” If “died out due to harsh punishment” isn’t “elimination”, you may need an English refresher course. It would be useful for the rest of us if it also included a module on what is and isn’t outright vile language to use on message boards… The USA can’t even stop 100% of the rape of it’s female soldiers , am I supposed to believe it has stopped 100% of the rape of female civilians? ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/30 "2014-10-20T19:52:03Z")
> [@grude](#): > > The USA can’t even stop 100% of the rape of it’s female soldiers , am I supposed to believe it has stopped 100% of the rape of female civilians? If you don’t believe it, maybe you should stop saying it, then? ---
**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/31 "2014-10-20T22:02:30Z")
> [@Miller](#): > > Have you had a stroke recently? I think there’s been a whole lotta strokin’ goin’ on at the **grude-hus**. ---
**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2014, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/32 "2014-10-20T23:51:53Z")
> [@elbows](#): > > I’m impressed he’s participating. More than he does in plenty of the threads he starts. However, his participating isn’t impressive. ---
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/33 "2014-10-21T03:37:53Z")
> [@grude](#): > > I don’t like saying nigger, I’m sick of race being rubbed in my fucking face(we’re in the pit right?) > > Anyway my point with that thread was imagine you’re getting lunch off, aw. You decide to sit on a bench in a park and eat your lunch, when a person walks by and decides to tell you you’re acting old niggerish. WTF You mention this bizarre occurrence to someone, this crazy person and they back the crazy person! Saying well eating in public, clearly you were acting like an old nigger. > > I hate attention, I hate strangers talking to me, I doubly hate strangers talking to me and using racial slurs. I have no clue how to respond, the whole situation is so absurd. Then it happens again, and again, then strangers call your kid a pickney. > > I get it, they probably aren’t saying it in hate but it is so damn absurd. > > My wife was talking to her friend on the phone years ago, her friend said “I bet he he is thinking why are these nigger bitches talking about him” my wife said I am sure my husband does not refer to me as nigger bitch in his mind. Her friend said nah I am sure he does.😕 > Once a woman sat down on a bench next to me and starting babbling about I am sure you think why is this nigger woman talking to me and etc. I said NO I am not thinking that(spoiler alert she wanted to tell me about a man named Jesus) and she was like I am sure you are. > TLDR I am sick of Trinidad. > [@grude](#): > > I read them though, this board needs some kind of system where you could give a poster points. The thread I made about what exactly communist revolutionaries expected to happen was one of the the single most educational threads I ever made on the board. > > I’ve been meaning to address this but just because I don’t post back in a thread doesn’t mean I’m not reading it. > > EDIT:Also the thread about the movie Life Of PI 🙂 You gotta be the biggest jerkwad on this board. Fucking inbred jerkwad. That’s our **grude**. Your threads are like Tourette’s syndrome attacks. ETA: And who gives one single fuck if you are still reading threads that you start and then abandon? Is that supposed to mean something? Fucking participate in the brain garbage you subject everyone else to. ---
**Author:** ![splatterpunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3be4f8/32.png) [@splatterpunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/splatterpunk)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/34 "2014-10-21T04:29:22Z")
> [@grude](#): > > If you think I’m some USA we’re number 1 poster you are way off base. Nah, he just thinks you’re a dipshit. ---
**Author:** ![Stringbean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Stringbean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stringbean)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/35 "2014-10-21T04:30:42Z")
In all honesty, I think there was some meat to his “Trinidad nigger” thread. Shame all the pissy-pants got their way. ---
**Author:** ![Askance](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/askance/32/8281_2.png) [@Askance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Askance)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/36 "2014-10-21T04:33:07Z")
> [@QuickSilver](#): > > I hear Tobago is lovely. - My wife conversed with a stranger in a Caribbean nation recently! - Jamaica? - No, she … ---
**Author:** ![splatterpunk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3be4f8/32.png) [@splatterpunk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/splatterpunk)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/37 "2014-10-21T04:43:37Z")
> [@Stringbean](#): > > In all honesty, I think there was some meat to his “Trinidad nigger” thread. Really? Can you point me to some source (other than **grude** ) that can confirm that it’s common for folks in Trinidad to refer to someone eating on a park bench as “old nigger” behavior? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/38 "2014-10-21T04:44:41Z")
> [@Kimballkid](#): > > Nigger tears? They taste like Grape Drink. ---
**Author:** ![cochrane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cochrane/32/10441_2.png) [@cochrane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cochrane)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/39 "2014-10-21T04:52:18Z")
> [@grude](#): > > If you think I’m some USA we’re number 1 poster you are way off base. I have never gotten that impression from any of your posts. In fact, I have the exact opposite impression of you. ---
**Author:** ![cmyk](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmyk/32/3353_2.png) [@cmyk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmyk)\ **Post date:** [October 21, 2014, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906/40 "2014-10-21T05:03:25Z")
> [@Gatopescado](#): > > They taste like Grape Drink. This is the part where I like to interject that grape drink turns your shit green. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/grude-do-you-have-something-on-your-mind/701906.md?page=3)