# Guys would you let Mandingo/Lex Steele bang your SO one time if the opportunity presented itself? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 20, 2010, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356 "2010-09-20T01:58:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cubsfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Cubsfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cubsfan)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/1 "2010-09-20T01:58:12Z")
Say Mandingo or Lexington Steele wanted to tag your SO and your SO expressed interest in trying out a monster like that ONE time just to see what it was like would you let them? The following conditions apply: Won’t be filmed unless you want to. You may or may not be able to watch. He has to “finish” inside. No one would ever know it happened other than the three of you. Curious what your reasons may be if they are anything other than “that’s cheating”. ---
**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/2 "2010-09-20T02:03:47Z")
There’s no money being offered or anything? Well, I can’t not let my SO do anything, but no, I certainly wouldn’t tolerate it. And as for the reason, I’m not sure what you’re looking for. I don’t need any more reason than “that’s cheating”. ---
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/3 "2010-09-20T02:52:47Z")
Never mind. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/4 "2010-09-20T02:55:41Z")
I don’t have any interest in my SO having sex with anybody but me. As **ACM** pointed out, she’s an adult and I don’t give her “permission” for anything. But if she chose to do that, even out of scientific curiosity, I’m not likely to want to be part of the relationship any longer. I don’t have any curiosity of my own about her being with anyone else. ---
**Author:** ![Jimmy\_Chitwood](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f475e1/32.png) [@Jimmy\_Chitwood](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jimmy_Chitwood)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 2:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/5 "2010-09-20T02:59:41Z")
What is the argument that this is somehow interesting or desirable? ---
**Author:** ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/6 "2010-09-20T03:00:57Z")
That is one weird poll. I think porn has warped you more than a little. I don’t know many females that crave a “monster”. Even if they did, I don’t think it would fall into any special category. I am sure some married men have a secret thing for midget albino identical twins but I don’t think it is common enough to engage in a public discussion about it. ---
**Author:** ![HazelNutCoffee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ac91a4/32.png) [@HazelNutCoffee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HazelNutCoffee)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/7 "2010-09-20T03:08:11Z")
I can’t really imagine a woman that would suggest such a proposal in the first place. ---
**Author:** ![Cubsfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Cubsfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cubsfan)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/8 "2010-09-20T03:17:22Z")
This is a copy of a poll on a Porno board I occasionally peruse. I was curious what the results of this poll would be on a non porno board. The results on the Porno board are whT you’d expect. ---
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/9 "2010-09-20T03:25:50Z")
> [@Jimmy\_Chitwood](#): > > What is the argument that this is somehow interesting or desirable? This. If you watch the faces of the porn actresses trying to cram these near foot long, soda can thick oversized hogs into their vaginas it’s not always a look of rapture. ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/10 "2010-09-20T03:30:53Z")
Possibly, if he really wanted to. From what I’ve read (I had never heard of Lexington Steele before) Lexington is about 9" and Mandingo about 10". He’s been with guys about that size before so it wouldn’t really be a ‘try it out’ sort of thing. ---
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/11 "2010-09-20T03:32:04Z")
> [@Cubsfan](#): > > The results on the Porno board are whT you’d expect. And that is …? Serious question, no snark. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Accident](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f05b48/32.png) [@Mr.Accident](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Accident)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 10:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/12 "2010-09-20T10:17:56Z")
Sure, as long as I get to watch. Of course this fictional SO (I’m single at the moment) wouldn’t need my permission in the first place, as long as she was honest about it, and used protection. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [September 20, 2010, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/13 "2010-09-20T13:42:28Z")
I’d be OK with it. Years ago my wife and I went through a fisting phase and she really got off on the feeling of being completely filled. She’s never expressed an interest in being with another guy regardless of his size, in fact we’re both completely monogamous so this is all just a hypothetical, but I wouldn’t be worried about it or jealous in any way. If the situation presented itself and she expressed interest, I wouldn’t stand in her way. I’d want to be there, though. ---
**Author:** ![Eonwe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eonwe/32/240_2.png) [@Eonwe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eonwe)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/14 "2010-09-21T00:47:27Z")
Maybe, if I could sleep with the hot chick who walks her dog down my street, just 'cause, you know, I want to know what it’s like. ---
**Author:** ![ducati](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/cc9497/32.png) [@ducati](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ducati)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/15 "2010-09-21T01:10:34Z")
BTDT. Only, it was a white guy. Veddy interesting. ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/16 "2010-09-21T01:22:03Z")
The problem with the OP is the word “let.” In many relationships (like mine) neither person “lets” the other do things . . . or not do things. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 1:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/17 "2010-09-21T01:41:13Z")
> [@astro](#): > > This. If you watch the faces of the porn actresses trying to cram these near foot long, soda can thick oversized hogs into their vaginas it’s not always a look of rapture. You misspelled ‘rupture’. Its two 'U’s and no ‘A’ because it wouldn’t fit. ---
**Author:** ![Peeta\_Mellark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@Peeta\_Mellark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peeta_Mellark)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 1:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/18 "2010-09-21T01:45:51Z")
There doesn’t appear to be a “No. I have no interest in this. Also, ew.” answer. Pity. ---
**Author:** ![Dag\_Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/439d5e/32.png) [@Dag\_Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dag_Otto)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/19 "2010-09-21T02:20:19Z")
Better off to leave this to the pros, **Cubsfan**. No, that’s not what I mean, you pervs. I mean that this would be much more interesting posed as a (yet another) Rhymer hypothetical. ---
**Author:** ![Peeta\_Mellark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@Peeta\_Mellark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peeta_Mellark)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/20 "2010-09-21T02:25:23Z")
If Skald had set up the poll, there’d be some lengthy back story about how you happened to know the porn star and how once when your wife was half-asleep she mumbled something about “I would be happy to be polyamorous” and also your lesbian neighbor bought you tea while discussing an obscure point of Tolkien lore involving penis size. And I would love it. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356.md?page=2)