# Guys would you let Mandingo/Lex Steele bang your SO one time if the opportunity presented itself? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 20, 2010, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356 "2010-09-20T01:58:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![palacheck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a88e57/32.png) [@palacheck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/palacheck)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 10:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/21 "2010-09-21T10:11:11Z")
This is a weird poll. Is this a big fetish for you? It’s almost like you think this is every guy’s secret fantasy or something. No I would not like another person to have sex with my SO. ---
**Author:** ![RandMcnally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@RandMcnally](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RandMcnally)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/22 "2010-09-21T13:56:13Z")
My SO is not allowed to have sex with anyone but me. Or another girl. If she were hot. And I could watch. And video tape. But other than that, no one. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 2:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/23 "2010-09-21T14:29:50Z")
> [@Eonwe](#): > > Maybe, if I could sleep with the hot chick who walks her dog down my street, just 'cause, you know, I want to know what it’s like. And her hot friend. Otherwise, hell no. ---
**Author:** ![shiftless](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@shiftless](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shiftless)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/24 "2010-09-21T14:36:22Z")
I’m sure that I could have a one time thing with another woman without it causing me to fall out of love with my wife, so I trust that she could too. Not that it’s ever happened. If she met her favorite movie star and he offered - that would be a once in a lifetime experience. She should do it. Otherwise she will always wonder, what if? Of course, once in a lifetime experience is the key here. ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/25 "2010-09-21T19:57:47Z")
> [@astro](#): > > > [@Jimmy\_Chitwood](#): > > > > What is the argument that this is somehow interesting or desirable? > > This. If you watch the faces of the porn actresses trying to cram these near foot long, soda can thick oversized hogs into their vaginas it’s not always a look of rapture. Ack! Nothing worse for sex than a too-big penis. Makes it impossible to enjoy what’s happening. That said, I’ve never heard of the people in the poll. ---
**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 8:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/26 "2010-09-21T20:46:47Z")
Why would my wife want to boff someone with a smaller penis? ---
**Author:** ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/27 "2010-09-21T20:51:13Z")
> [@Peeta\_Mellark](#): > > If Skald had set up the poll, there’d be some lengthy back story about how you happened to know the porn star and how once when your wife was half-asleep she mumbled something about “I would be happy to be polyamorous” and also your lesbian neighbor bought you tea while discussing an obscure point of Tolkien lore involving penis size. > > And I would love it. Ha ha! And maybe you might want to work a time machine in there somehow. ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 11:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/28 "2010-09-21T23:01:11Z")
> [@AClockworkMelon](#): > > There’s no money being offered or anything? > > Well, I can’t not let my SO do anything, but no, I certainly wouldn’t tolerate it. And as for the reason, I’m not sure what you’re looking for. I don’t need any more reason than “that’s cheating”. Concur. If it were more of the “Might I forgive her” thing, maybe. But to want it to happen? It has nothing to do with my emotions, but my morals. “Letting” (encouraging?) my SO to do that would just be me cheating. And if I were in a polyamorous relationship, this would have already been decided ahead of time, obviously. I really wonder what the purpose of this question was on the porn site. To see if the porn lovers like dicks? ---
**Author:** ![VarlosZ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/d78d45/32.png) [@VarlosZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VarlosZ)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2010, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/29 "2010-09-21T23:23:54Z")
> [@palacheck](#): > > This is a weird poll. Is this a big fetish for you? It’s almost like you think this is every guy’s secret fantasy or something. Presumably it’s playing off of a standard cuckold fetish (hence the ‘finishing inside’ stipulation). Probably the poll should have been phrased along the lines of, “IF you are a cuckold fetishist to some degree, would you…” – or, even “Are you a cuckold fetishist, and/or do you have a thing for black guys boning white women?” ---
**Author:** ![OpalCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/8edcca/32.png) [@OpalCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OpalCat)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/30 "2010-09-22T20:34:30Z")
> [@silenus](#): > > Why would my wife want to boff someone with a smaller penis? To experience pain-free sex? ---
**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/31 "2010-09-23T16:11:05Z")
> [@Peeta\_Mellark](#): > > If Skald had set up the poll, there’d be some lengthy back story about how you happened to know the porn star and how once when your wife was half-asleep she mumbled something about “I would be happy to be polyamorous” and also your lesbian neighbor bought you tea while discussing an obscure point of Tolkien lore involving penis size. > > And I would love it. I do not use the words _Tolkien_ and _penis_ in the same sentence, except of course for sentences stating the aforementioned policy. ---
**Author:** ![Chicagojeff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Chicagojeff](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chicagojeff)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/32 "2010-09-23T20:24:15Z")
> [@silenus](#): > > Why would my wife want to boff someone with a smaller penis? WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER.. And as for an odd aside I knew Lexington Steele when he was in undergrad.. Nooo not like that dammit.. let’s just say that he and Dr King have two things in common.. one being both African-American.. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2010, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/33 "2010-09-23T21:25:47Z")
> [@panache45](#): > > The problem with the OP is the word “let.” In many relationships (like mine) neither person “lets” the other do things . . . or not do things. What I came here to say. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2010, 12:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356/34 "2010-09-24T12:48:13Z")
> [@Chicagojeff](#): > > And as for an odd aside I knew Lexington Steele when he was in undergrad.. Nooo not like that dammit.. let’s just say that he and Dr King have two things in common.. one being both African-American.. The other being that they’re both great orators? 😕 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/guys-would-you-let-mandingo-lex-steele-bang-your-so-one-time-if-the-opportunity-presented-itself/554356.md?page=1)