# Hair products that give your hair less body

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 20, 2012, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618 "2012-11-20T14:51:54Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 15\
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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/1 "2012-11-20T14:51:54Z")

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My hair will stand up with little effort, if I run my fingers through it I can get it to stand up on end (my hair is about 2 inches long) and stay that way. It makes brushing it to look presentable at work where I am trying to pretend to fit in harder because it is constantly wavy or sticking up where it shouldn’t.

So I know there are lots of hair care products that add body, what about ones that take it away so hair becomes more flat? I had to stop using conditioner because it made my problem worse.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Bird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Little\_Bird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Bird)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 4:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/2 "2012-11-20T16:41:34Z")

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Go “no-poo”. Your hair will retain its natural oils and that will weigh it down. I’ve talked about it before, I think this is the best post: [No-Poo](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=14951939&postcount=15). I have been weening myself off using the soap in the baking soda rinse, but every week or so I still need it.

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/3 "2012-11-20T16:47:32Z")

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Moved MPSIMS --\> IMHO.

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/4 "2012-11-20T16:56:57Z")

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Damn, I misread the title. I’m looking for a way to give my body less hair.

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**Author:** ![Tarwater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/9de0a6/32.png) [@Tarwater](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tarwater)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/5 "2012-11-20T17:16:54Z")

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You want a grooming cream. I can’t recommended one because I’m not cursed.with thick hair. You might try Bumble and Bumble’s Grooming Creme, though.

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**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/6 "2012-11-20T18:56:13Z")

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Styling gel if you like a wet-all-day look, or wax/putty if you prefer a more-natural look.

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**Author:** ![maggenpye](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecc23a/32.png) [@maggenpye](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maggenpye)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 7:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/7 "2012-11-20T19:08:30Z")

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Possibly a leave conditioner woud work for you. I’ve read (can’t find the cite, or the site, sorry) that 1 part conditioner to 3 parts water in a spritzer bottel works well. If you’ve already got conditioner at home it would be free to try,

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**Author:** ![Maastricht](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e57/32.png) [@Maastricht](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maastricht)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/8 "2012-11-20T19:10:37Z")

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Just go to any drugstore and ask for a shampoo and conditioner to slick down and tame thick or fuzzy hair. There are a lot of them.

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**Author:** ![sitchensis](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sitchensis/32/4892_2.png) [@sitchensis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sitchensis)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 8:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/9 "2012-11-20T20:23:49Z")

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I use an older pomade type product that is more water soluble and less waxy, but for the life of me I can’t think of the name. I know it looks like it’s from the 70’s and it comes in a teal/blue small plastic tub.

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**Author:** ![Baracus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/2bfe46/32.png) [@Baracus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baracus)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2012, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/10 "2012-11-20T20:57:18Z")

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My hair tends to have a mind of its own and I have been using American Crew Forming Cream with success. It isn’t as stiff as gel and seems more resilient. For the size of the tub it seems expensive, but one tub can last me six months so it isn’t too bad overall.

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**Author:** ![Bam\_Boo\_Gut](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/8c91f0/32.png) [@Bam\_Boo\_Gut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bam_Boo_Gut)\
**Post date:** [November 21, 2012, 2:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/11 "2012-11-21T14:52:58Z")

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I’m using Pro-Line Comb-Thru Softener - it’s cheap and doesn’t build up too much on the hair. Put a dollup in your hands and smooth it through either wet or dry hair. They also do a leave-in conditioner which works, but this softener seems to work better.

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**Author:** ![Teacake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Teacake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Teacake)\
**Post date:** [November 21, 2012, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/12 "2012-11-21T21:52:37Z")

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I have very thick, curly hair, and use a product made (mostly) of beeswax. It makes my hair behave without looking “styled” and I can still run my hands through it, which I tend to do when I’m tired or stressed, and it would stress me out more to remember not to, so this is a good thing. Plus it smells nice. I only need a little bit, about the size of a pea, for hair that’s currently maybe four inches long (I must get a haircut…) on a medium-sized head.

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**Author:** ![Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@Unauthorized\_Cinnamon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Unauthorized_Cinnamon)\
**Post date:** [November 22, 2012, 12:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/13 "2012-11-22T00:20:36Z")

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This isn’t a product, but get a good haircut from a decent salon. Find a stylist you like who will get to know your hair.

My hair is very thick and has lots of body, and gets out of hand really easily, but my beloved Sara will look at it after cutting a bit, declare, “It’s still too heavy,” and proceed with some form of sorcery that makes it lie down and behave.

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**Author:** ![SeaDragonTattoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@SeaDragonTattoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SeaDragonTattoo)\
**Post date:** [November 22, 2012, 1:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/14 "2012-11-22T01:00:31Z")

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Or, instead of trying to fight it, just get some pomade and do a slightly messy “It’s supposed to look this way” sort of look. Sometimes you just gotta go with a look your hair agrees with.

Maybe an appointment with a good men’s hair cutter is in order, as already mentioned. A slightly shorter and well-textured cut might help you with looking like it’s supposed to be a little messy, but still professional and “clean-cut.”

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**Author:** ![Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hilarity_n.suze/32/6223_2.png) [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hilarity_N.Suze)\
**Post date:** [November 22, 2012, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hair-products-that-give-your-hair-less-body/641618/15 "2012-11-22T04:40:39Z")

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I speak from experience: Don’t fight your hair. Decide what’s easiest to maintain, and get it cut and styled to go in that direction. If it wants to stand up, and for professional reasons you need it to look like, say, Don Draper’s hair in Mad Men, you need Don Draper’s product, which was probably Alberto VO5 or Brylcreem. But these days a lot of other looks are acceptable in most work places.
