Okay a few points on cell phones.
When I am holding that phone up to my ear I am focused on my cell, not my car. In fact I will not talk on the phone if my hands free is not connected. If talking to people while operating a motor vehicle is such a concern then I think we should ban people from driving with other passengers all together.
Look at so many of the minivans with kids…kids screaming in back and mom or dad is desparately trying to get them to shut up. Their heads are turning and they are focused on their anger instead of the road. So kids in cars should be banned. I see this a lot in my city. I steer clear of minvans as much as possible.
How about the people that eat while they are driving, those that couldn’t hear an emergency vehicle if it drove over them cause their stereos are louder than a Motley Crue concert or those that are simply idiot drivers? No one is safe, practicing defensive driving is your best defense.
Hands free phones are so much safer. I use it frequently and if I feel I am uncomfortable with the driving situation I explain this to the person on the other line…“gimme a sec here, some asshole is riding my ass” or whatever.
As I pointed out in another thread, I am a techchick. My client relies upon me to be in communication at all times. Since I am rarely in one place for too long except at night, having my phone is essential to catching up with my client and my engineers when I have a problem I can’t resolve easily. I also use it in the office during problem solving. Sure beats placing the caller on hold and having to run downstairs to my server room and back up again.
If my talking on the phone is so offensive while I am shopping, then ignore me. I am a small business person and my lively-hood depends on my cell phone, so much so I have one number service for the benefit of my client. Sides, I would rather see a person talking on a cell phone than screaming at their kids in a store…at least they aren’t disrupting a large part of the store.
I am not stupid enough that I would leave my cell on during a movie or at a theater but I will have it on during a sporting event…again for my client. I always tell my client that I will not be available for such and such time if I know in advance.
I have used cell phones for over 6 years now, a technical marvel that has allowed me to become independant with my work/career, no more sitting in the same office for 8 hours. Also, the drive in a car(assuming you are safe about it) is a large waste of time as far as I am concerned and having a cell phone helps free your time for other things you need to get done be they personal or professional.
So, to those that are bothered by my cell phone use and the fact that I actually do my best to drive as safely as possible while being independant from the corporate world, screw you. Having my cell is important to my life even if it’s not for you…walk a mile in a person’s shoes.