# Happy Anniversary, ////Cajun Man\\\\\\\\ and ////Dr.Matrix\\\\\\\\ ! **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [January 1, 2001, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005 "2001-01-01T18:24:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Spider\_Woman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@Spider\_Woman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spider_Woman)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 6:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/1 "2001-01-01T18:24:22Z")
They have been together twenty-one years. Join me in congratulating them and wishing them a Happy New Year. ----:)/ x o x o x ----///\\ [Cajun Man & DrMatrix (21st Anniversary)](http://homepage.mac.com/gaycouple/anniversary.html) On a more somber note, Cajun Man’s father is dying. He and Dr.Matrix will be leaving Wednesday to travel south to be with family. Consequently, they will be unable to attend the Dope Fest to which they were so looking forward. ---
**Author:** ![blank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a4c791/32.png) [@blank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/blank)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/2 "2001-01-01T18:35:07Z")
Great going you two! ////\\  o    o     ^   (—) ---
**Author:** ![andygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@andygirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andygirl)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/3 "2001-01-01T19:21:09Z")
21 years? Can you be my gay couple role models? 😃 And on the serious note- Cajun Man, the best of strength and peace to you and yours. ---
**Author:** ![Falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Falcon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falcon)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 7:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/4 "2001-01-01T19:25:20Z")
WOO! Congrats and Happy Anniversary! _hugs to both Cajun Man and Dr. Matrix_ And I’m sorry I won’t be able to meet you in NYC. You’ll both be in our thoughts. _hugs again_ ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/5 "2001-01-01T19:30:30Z")
Congratulations! Wow! I’m sorry you won’t be at the Dopefest! We’ll have to do a mini-get-together when you get back so I can toast you for your anniversary. Hang in there on your trip South. ---
**Author:** ![Spider\_Woman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@Spider\_Woman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spider_Woman)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/6 "2001-01-01T19:38:08Z")
I believe the happy couple went out for a short while with a friend, so may have not yet seen this thread. **blank** , I love your picture. The hair looks like spider legs. -----🙂 —////\\ ---
**Author:** ![imthjckaz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/imthjckaz/32/3223_2.png) [@imthjckaz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/imthjckaz)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/7 "2001-01-01T21:51:54Z")
Congrats to you guys! Cajun Man, hang in there, Dr. Matrix, you are so supportive, a wonderful human. My prayers are with you two. ---
**Author:** ![psycat90](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@psycat90](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/psycat90)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 9:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/8 "2001-01-01T21:55:46Z")
Woo! Congratulations you two! Happy Anniversary and Happy New Year! My prayers are with you as well. hugs and kisses, Shannon ---
**Author:** ![Scotticher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Scotticher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scotticher)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/9 "2001-01-01T22:04:37Z")
Wow, 21 years! That is quite an impressive thing to achieve in today’s society. I commend you. Congratulations, and I hope your anniversary is WONDERFUL! Scotti ---
**Author:** ![Wicked\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/2acd7d/32.png) [@Wicked\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wicked_Blue)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2001, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/10 "2001-01-01T23:24:48Z")
Wow…21 years! That’s wonderful! 🙂 Congratulations and Best Wishes! Hugs and prayers to you both. Rose ---
**Author:** ![John\_Kentzel-Griffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ccd318/32.png) [@John\_Kentzel-Griffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Kentzel-Griffin)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 1:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/11 "2001-01-02T01:50:25Z")
Thanks **Spider Woman** and everyone. Twenty-one years is pretty cool. It’s kind of strange being roll models, but it’s nice. And a special curly brace hug to: { **Cajun Man** } ---
**Author:** ![Spider\_Woman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cdc98d/32.png) [@Spider\_Woman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spider_Woman)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/12 "2001-01-02T02:50:19Z")
> [@](#): > > Thanks **Spider Woman** and everyone. To start a thread like this for two such good people, the pleasure is mine. More hugs: ////Dr.Matrix\\ ////Cajun Man\\ -----🙂 —////\\ ---
**Author:** ![soulsling](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a5b964/32.png) [@soulsling](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/soulsling)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/13 "2001-01-02T03:15:02Z")
CONGRATS FELLAS! I’m glad I’ve actually met the two of you, your’e great guys. Happy New Years, Congrats on 21 years, and Cheers to you on hoping there’s many more wonderful years together for you! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![nashiitashii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7c8e57/32.png) [@nashiitashii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nashiitashii)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/14 "2001-01-02T03:24:58Z")
Congratulations and happy new year to the both of you. 😃 I hope I can find someone I’d spend a greater portion of my life with. ---
**Author:** ![Geek\_Mecha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ecae2f/32.png) [@Geek\_Mecha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geek_Mecha)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/15 "2001-01-02T03:33:53Z")
Hi **Cajun Man**! Hi **DrMatrix**! Happy New Year to you both, and congratulations on reaching the 21 year mark. May you enjoy many, many more happy years together. And **Cajun Man** , I am sorry about your father. ☹ Hugs and best wishes to all of you. ---
**Author:** ![evilbeth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/evilbeth/32/2268_2.png) [@evilbeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilbeth)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/16 "2001-01-02T06:38:36Z")
Congratulations! Twenty-one years! That seems like such a long time to be with the same person. I am in awe of the amazing love you have for one another! I’m sorry to hear about the bad news, though–you’ll be in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![SqrlCub](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ea5d25/32.png) [@SqrlCub](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SqrlCub)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/17 "2001-01-02T14:17:23Z")
☹ I can’t believe I wasn’t the first post in here. Congratulations you guys. I hope that you have many more years of happiness together. BIG HUGS! Sqrl ---
**Author:** ![Demo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/demo/32/8472_2.png) [@Demo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Demo)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2001, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/18 "2001-01-02T20:07:49Z")
Hey, Happy Anniversary you two! Wishing you the best in '01! Hang in there guys. Vince ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/larry_griffin-kentzel/32/14787_2.png) [@Larry\_Griffin-Kentzel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Griffin-Kentzel)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2001, 3:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/happy-anniversary-cajun-man-and-dr-matrix/48005/19 "2001-01-03T15:05:29Z")
Thanks so very much, all a y’all! (You’re such a sweetheart, **Spider Woman**.) I’m one colossal mess right now…so I’ll post again, when I’m less a mess…