# Hard/rough sex **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [July 31, 2003, 12:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103 "2003-07-31T12:03:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![rhubarbarin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eb9ed0/32.png) [@rhubarbarin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rhubarbarin)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 5:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/61 "2011-01-21T17:58:42Z")
I swear to god half the pwomen I have ever heard discuss sex like to be choked until they partially or fully lose consciousness. ---
**Author:** ![Chopper9760](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/cdc98d/32.png) [@Chopper9760](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chopper9760)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 7:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/62 "2011-01-21T19:41:19Z")
Another for vigorous, aggressive, but not denigrating/humiliating. I’ve never gone for spanking but I like biting. A lot. Seriously, turn me into your chew toy, I have no idea why but day-um. ---
**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/63 "2011-01-21T20:01:33Z")
> [@rhubarbarin](#): > > I swear to god half the pwomen I have ever heard discuss sex like to be choked until they partially or fully lose consciousness. See, there’s the problem. You’re dating “pwomen”. 🙂 Seriously, _choking?_ Till loss of consciousness? Ewwww. ---
**Author:** ![rhubarbarin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eb9ed0/32.png) [@rhubarbarin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rhubarbarin)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2011, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/64 "2011-01-22T04:25:44Z")
I do usually hang with a rough crowd who likes it rough. I have little in common with them. I’m a woman and dating a man, BTW. ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2011, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/65 "2011-01-23T12:25:24Z")
I like it the way Sean Connery likes it. ---
**Author:** ![alexandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e68b1a/32.png) [@alexandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alexandra)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2011, 12:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/66 "2011-01-23T12:44:13Z")
Getting pounded is good for dual clit/vag stimulation. ---
**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2011, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/67 "2011-01-23T15:22:28Z")
> [@Autolycus](#): > > I like it the way Sean Connery likes it. Shaken, not stirred? ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2011, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/68 "2011-01-23T17:37:17Z")
We’ve got fireplaces and wine and romantic music. We also have a well-equipped dungeon. ---
**Author:** ![EvilTOJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee59a6/32.png) [@EvilTOJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EvilTOJ)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 8:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/69 "2011-01-24T08:15:40Z")
> [@Cat\_Fight](#): > > I hope you mean something similar to choking that doesn’t actually involve cutting off air, because this can be really, really, really dangerous. Even GGG nazi Dan Savage is against it. It’s not completely cutting off the air/blood supply, it’s more like a squeezing (but not crushing) on her neck. It takes a little practice and a lot of trust on our parts, but it works. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/70 "2011-01-24T22:32:57Z")
> [@EvilTOJ](#): > > It’s not completely cutting off the air/blood supply, it’s more like a squeezing (but not crushing) on her neck. It takes a little practice and a lot of trust on our parts, but it works. I’ll take your word for it, and I know women who love it (and some who just claim to), but [even gentle squeezing](http://books.google.ca/books?id=iWmsV0n0mNYC&pg=PA182&lpg=PA182&dq=choking+%2B+%22dan+savage%22&source=bl&ots=U_QVWTOQ0W&sig=XQDQZleFa7AOWc3lY29V5cDeUbQ&hl=en&ei=T_09Tc2aA8Kx8gOi2LmoCA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=4&sqi=2&ved=0CCoQ6AEwAw#v=onepage&q&f=false) [URL=“[Live Adult Cams & Private Video Chat | roleplaycams.com](http://www.slaveplay.com/info/breath_control.htm)”]can be lethal[/URL, especially if you’re caught up in the moment. ---
**Author:** ![pennyjo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9f8e36/32.png) [@pennyjo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pennyjo)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2011, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/71 "2011-07-09T22:23:27Z")
How frank can I be in here? if its too much just let me know. Rough sex? oh yea baby. I need to find a MAN, not a boy, who knows how to take directions. if I want him to fist me and do it hard, then don’t disrespect me just know I’m being the animal I was born to be. Yes humans are civilized on the outside, to our neighbors, co workers, and family., but in the bedroom give me your animal side. Throw me on my belly and pull my ass up high. Pull my hair or fish hook me. I don’t want him to ask if it feels good just hard and fast what ever hole u land in. yes use a safe word but Damn man take control. But u need to let her find ur spots too. ur g spot, if ur willing to let her finger u will be a painfully but pleasurable experience. you will have the best orgasm uv ever experienced. Just try one person at a time. work on her then the next time focus on him. expecting the unexpected is the greatest feeling. maybe tying me up so I can’t squirm around or gag me so I don’t scream. take control. be a caveMAN! :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Azeotrope](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/0ea827/32.png) [@Azeotrope](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Azeotrope)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2011, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/72 "2011-07-09T23:50:13Z")
This thread just keeps on coming :eek: Is there something wrong with me that I’m still wondering if \*\*Tir Tinuviel \*\*got shagged senseless 8 years ago? ---
**Author:** ![Nzinga\_Seated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b5ac83/32.png) [@Nzinga\_Seated](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nzinga_Seated)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/73 "2011-07-10T01:07:32Z")
> [@DianaG](#): > > Eh, it’s a little smelly, and stuff tends to fall off. Plus the biting. I mean, I’m up for more than a nibble, but the huge chunks of flesh being torn away is a turnoff. Another problem with zombie sex is when he told me to ‘give him some head’ I didn’t think he would literally scoop out my brain. I like it hard and rough. That soft sweet stuff is just foreplay. Then you get down to real business. The ‘fast’ part is tricky. Most men know how to hit the fast stroke pretty expertly, realizing that it is meant to be used _sparingly._ ---
**Author:** ![whiterabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cab0a1/32.png) [@whiterabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whiterabbit)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/74 "2011-07-10T01:21:07Z")
> [@ugly ripe tomato](#): > > This thread just keeps on coming :eek: I saw what you did there. ---
**Author:** ![Sailboat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sailboat/32/461_2.png) [@Sailboat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sailboat)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 1:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/75 "2011-07-10T01:58:13Z")
The Google ads for this topic currently include “fix unhappy marriage.” ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2011, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103/76 "2011-07-10T02:03:18Z")
> [@Sailboat](#): > > The Google ads for this topic currently include “fix unhappy marriage.” Mine’s an ad for an electric toothbrush. Snicker. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hard-rough-sex/192103.md?page=3)