It needs to be remembered that speaking of gender differences in this manner is painting with VERY broad strokes.
I wish I could better recall a talk I attended by a doctor from the University of Chicago who was studying the differences between male and female brains. Turns out there are differences…humans are not all the same brain stuffed into a male or female body. She (the doctor) would study people with brain damage and compare what effects it had. So, a man and a woman both had the same physical part of the brain destroyed and would exhibit distinct differences in the effects that had. In short we are actually wired differently and this different wiring does result in men and women, broadly speaking, showing different aptitudes for different things. For instance, while men may be better at math women tend to be better with language.
She gave the audience a series of simple tests to illustrate that men would do better at some tasks and women do better at others. Interestingly she said that her students at University of Chicago seemed androgynous. The women and men at that school both tended to perform equal to each other in all aspects on these tests. Given the caliber of students at that school this may not be surprising but it also shows that none of this is hard and fast “women suck at task-X”.
It really was fascinating…I’ll have to dig through some boxes and see if I can find the details on who she was and more of her studies.