# Has a a celebrity's heterosexuality surprised you?

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**Created:** [September 18, 2010, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206 "2010-09-18T18:41:29Z")\
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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 12:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/101 "2010-09-22T00:24:11Z")

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> [@etv78](#):
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> Another member of Bananarama married the man from the Eurythmics.

That reminds me. Annie Lennox certainly looks and has behaved very much like she was batting for the other team, but all actual evidence suggests otherwise, her having been married twice.

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**Author:** ![Not\_a\_Platypus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@Not\_a\_Platypus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Not_a_Platypus)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 12:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/102 "2010-09-22T00:42:04Z")

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> [@It\_s\_Not\_Rocket\_Surgery](#):
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> > [@xizor](#):
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> > Ty Pennington has never come out to my knowledge, but I haven’t checked in a while
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> [There’s some evidence against this](http://www.bittenandbound.com/2008/09/28/drea-bock-is-ty-penningtons-manager-and-girlfriend/).

Assuming you’re being serious, what is that article evidence of? A happy hetero relationship?

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**Author:** ![Wendell\_Wagner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8491ac/32.png) [@Wendell\_Wagner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wendell_Wagner)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/103 "2010-09-22T01:02:16Z")

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Sinéad O’Connor describes herself as three-quarters hetrosexual and one-quarter Lesbian. She has four children, each by a different father:

> **[Sinéad O'Connor](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sin%C3%A9ad_O'Connor)**
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> Shuhada' Sadaqat\[a\] (born Sinéad Marie Bernadette O'Connor; 8 December 1966 – 26 July 2023), known professionally as Sinéad O'Connor,\[b\] was an Irish singer, songwriter, and activist. Her debut studio album, The Lion and the Cobra, was released in 1987 and achieved international chart success. Her 1990 album, I Do Not Want What I Haven't Got, marked her greatest accomplishment, selling over seven million copies worldwide. Its lead single, "Nothing Compares 2 U", was honored as the top O'Conno...

A couple of months ago she married her third husband.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/104 "2010-09-22T01:32:10Z")

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> [@Wendell\_Wagner](#):
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> She has four children, each by a different father…

There was a thread about this subject fairly recently—Any female celebs out there who have kids by 5 or more different men?

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/105 "2010-09-22T02:01:15Z")

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> [@MPB\_in\_Salt\_Lake](#):
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> > [@Wendell\_Wagner](#):
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> > She has four children, each by a different father…
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> There was a thread about this subject fairly recently—Any female celebs out there who have kids by 5 or more different men?

Sarah Palin- I’d say more but she’d have to kill me.

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**Author:** ![Superhal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Superhal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superhal)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/106 "2010-09-22T02:26:04Z")

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I’m convinced Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Cruise are both gay.

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**Author:** ![It\_s\_Not\_Rocket\_Surgery](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/it_s_not_rocket_surgery/32/312_2.png) [@It\_s\_Not\_Rocket\_Surgery](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/It_s_Not_Rocket_Surgery)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 2:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/107 "2010-09-22T02:30:17Z")

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> [@Not\_a\_Platypus](#):
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> > [@It\_s\_Not\_Rocket\_Surgery](#):
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> > [There’s some evidence against this](http://www.bittenandbound.com/2008/09/28/drea-bock-is-ty-penningtons-manager-and-girlfriend/).
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> Assuming you’re being serious, what is that article evidence of? A happy hetero relationship?

It’s"some evidence" he isn’t necessarily gay. No proof, but all that’s out there.

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 4:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/108 "2010-09-22T04:17:56Z")

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> [@MPB\_in\_Salt\_Lake](#):
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> > [@Leiko](#):
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> > Rick Steves, the travel writer/radio host/television host. That was a double whammy: I thought he was gay and Canadian, turns out he’s straight and from Edmonds, WA.
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> Rick had his wife and their two kids on several episodes of his show over the years, and it always looked like such a happy, perfect family, travelling Europe together and clearly enjoying spending time together.
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> I don’t know why, but when I read that he and his wife divorced last year after over 20 (maybe it was 30?) years of marriage, it really, really bummed me out…

Yeah, ditto here. We’re tangentially acquainted, and they not only _seemed_ like a compatible couple, I really believe they _were_.

–\> Although he’s actually very disorganized, and it’d drive me nuts to be married to him (oh, look, _now_ I’m on topic).

I’m trying to wrap my brain around the fact that two people can be perfect for each other for decades, and then … not be. Without blaming it all on a midlife crisis. Or the guy looking like a gay Canadian…

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 4:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/109 "2010-09-22T04:35:12Z")

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> [@digs](#):
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> [Yeah, ditto here. We’re tangentially acquainted, and they not only _seemed_ like a compatible couple, I really believe they _were_

It’s funny, I don’t know why I felt so badly when I read about it, as I have never even met the guy, but like you, I really felt like they were a very happy family—It showed thru on-camera…

Anyway, I have spent a considerable amount of time exploring some of the same places that Rick Steves turned me onto via his show, and I will always be a fan of his program.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/110 "2010-09-22T13:00:37Z")

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I’ve been told that only half of The Village People are gay.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/111 "2010-09-22T13:06:25Z")

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> [@DMark](#):
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> Way back when Trading Spaces was a hit show, Frank casually mentioned something about “his wife”.  
> Not only did I do a double-take, but later heard from a woman in NYC who said her husband was in the next room, heard the comment and said, “WTF - he has a wife?!”  
> I still have my doubts about the whole thing, but hey.

Me, my husband and son were watching a Trading Places when he mentioned his wife. We all WTF’ed too.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/112 "2010-09-22T13:13:26Z")

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Someone mentioned in a previous thread of the same topic that the extremely swishy TV interior decorator Christopher Lowell is married (to a woman).

Knock me over with a feather…

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/113 "2010-09-22T13:17:00Z")

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> [@The\_Scrivener](#):
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> Someone mentioned in a previous thread of the same topic that the extremely swishy TV interior decorator Christopher Lowell is married (to a woman).
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> Knock me over with a feather…

No? Really?

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/114 "2010-09-22T13:25:24Z")

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> [@Superhal](#):
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> I’m convinced Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Cruise are both gay.

Leonardo needs to come out of the closet. All I’ve heard suggests that not only is he gay, but he is very, very busy at it.

> [@Quercus](#):
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> I’ve been told that only half of The Village People are gay.

I personally know the cop Ray Simpson, his lovely wife Leslie and their daughter. He is most definitely not gay.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/115 "2010-09-22T13:27:40Z")

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> [@Annie-Xmas](#):
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> > [@Superhal](#):
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> > I’m convinced Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Cruise are both gay.
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> Leonardo needs to come out of the closet. All I’ve heard suggests that not only is he gay, but he is very, very busy at it.
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> > [@Quercus](#):
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> > I’ve been told that only half of The Village People are gay.
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> I personally know the cop Ray Simpson, his lovely wife Leslie and their daughter. He is most definitely not gay.

And the original cop, Victor Willis, was married to Phylicia Rashad at one time.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/116 "2010-09-22T15:01:02Z")

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> [@Quercus](#):
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> I’ve been told that only half of The Village People are gay.

Does that mean the other half are desperate?

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 3:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/117 "2010-09-22T15:06:46Z")

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[Christopher Lowell](http://www.christopherlowell.com/) has mentioned his wife on his TV show. I have my doubts…

Joe

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/118 "2010-09-22T15:08:18Z")

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> [@DonLogan](#):
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> Michael Waltrip the (married to a woman) NASCAR driver sets off my gaydar bigtime.

Agreed, completely.

Joe

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/119 "2010-09-22T15:25:10Z")

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> [@wheresgeorge04](#):
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> [Christopher Lowell](http://www.christopherlowell.com/) has mentioned his wife on his TV show. I have my doubts…
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> Joe

Really? (Maybe he’s gay and the wife is a lesbian, yet they’re happily married, lol). Maybe he’s just one of those nelly straight married men. My landlord years ago appeared to be “gay as an Umberto spring frock”, yet he was happily married to a straight woman and they had two kids.

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**Post date:** [September 22, 2010, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/has-a-a-celebritys-heterosexuality-surprised-you/554206/120 "2010-09-22T16:33:36Z")

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The rumor about Christopher Lowell is that he’s not remotely as nellie when he’s off camera but girls it up for his persona. No idea if it’s true or not. Similar to an episode of _Ugly Betty_ in which Suzuki St. Pierre, a bitchy flamingly gay gossip columnist who was a recurring character, was outed as a suburb husband and soccer dad who only did the gay act because that’s what got him hired and was being blackmailed by an actor he’d hired to play his boyfriend.

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