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I’m the same as I ever was. I haven’t changed. I would have made exactly the same response to your posts here before I was a moderator. It’s your perception of me that has changed.
I have to say that in recent months you have disappointed me quite a bit. I considered you a pretty decent poster in GQ, and in fact defended you when some of your behavior was under discussion among the staff. But recently you have seemed to be more interested in stirring shit than behaving constructively. When you do something stupid, or behave obnoxiously, you can’t expect not to be called on it.
I remember you as well. Your original remarks in ATMB were quite snarky. I think that samclem’s response was appropriate in context, and surely not something to make you “flee in terror.” I’m sure that you can post as well without resorting to such snark and hyperbole.
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Let’s not hang too much on “flee in terror”. That was quite obviously hyperbole. By now, I am sure you know I am not the fleeing type.
That said, I think you are fair enough in what you say. Because I still identify with you somewhat, I will keep your point in mind. I will try to remain on my best behaviour from now on. I will not bore you with my personal life, but I am finding myself in a more restrictive space and with more down time that I am used to and that makes me pointier.
Still, I don’t think my posting style has changed that much. What has changed is where I post. I used to hang around GQ and GD when I joined. GD got old real quick, as many in this thread have mentioned. GQ I try to avoid unless I can really contribute something or the thread has already gone downhill, since I am trying to avoid being part of the other problem also mentioned here.
Now I post mostly around CS, where I remain on my best behaviour (for the most part, I think) and the Pit, where well, it is the Pit. I am still the same I call them as I see them kinda guy, just that I am in a place with less restrictions. That my Pit habits sometimes escape to the rest of the board is what is getting me the negative attention, I am sure.
What has in fact changed, is my perception of how this place is being run. It ticks me because I do like it here, and I think TPTB are being destructive of this place. Because of that, I am not pulling any punches when it comes to matters such as that ATMB thread. I know nobody likes to hear a noob tell them how to do their job. That will not stop me from trying to get my message across. If some find it obnoxious, that’s fine. If they find it bannably so, then pity.
And trying to take this back to the OP, I think my short history here is somewhat reflective of the wider decline of the board that some people perceive.
As we run out of things to talk about, we start talking more about ourselves and we start finding our rougher edges. For some people this is a good thing. A more clubby atmosphere where everybody knows everybody else. A pub to hang out with the regulars.
Others like more the carnival atmosphere with a constant influx of new things, no matter if they are good or bad as long as they are new. Those are the ones here complaining about the decay of the board.
What TPTB need to figure, is what group is a better market and cater to them. Trying to be all things to all people normally fails.