# Have any couples met on the SDMB? Tell your stories...

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 27, 2003, 10:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078 "2003-08-27T22:08:34Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 18\
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**Author:** ![AfterAugust](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/dfb087/32.png) [@AfterAugust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AfterAugust)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 7:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/61 "2003-08-30T07:30:20Z")

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I met my boyfriend on another message board.

If played right, and safely, this is a good way to meet people. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/62 "2003-08-30T12:56:50Z")

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> \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \*  
> **Can we get a :D!**

😃

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**Author:** ![NothingMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b77776/32.png) [@NothingMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NothingMan)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/63 "2003-08-30T14:45:28Z")

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Lest we not forget possibly the first ever Doper couple : **Satan** and **Drain Bead**.

Now if I could just get **SwimmingRiddles** to notice me again!

😉

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**Author:** ![Scotticher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Scotticher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scotticher)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/64 "2003-08-30T15:00:04Z")

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> \*Originally posted by JavaMaven1 \*  
> \*\*I’m glad you thought of us, **Scotti** … but Bryan and I didn’t meet on the boards. \*\*

OOPS…and you know, I think I KNEW that, too. Better start taking Gingko Biloba, I guess! I should mention that one of my favorite memories of the wedding we both attended was watching you and JPB dancing together so skillfully and joyously. You two are VERY adorable!

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**Author:** ![fizzestothetop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e79b87/32.png) [@fizzestothetop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fizzestothetop)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/65 "2003-08-30T15:24:29Z")

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**Punha** and I met on the boards. I was a kinda newbie/lurker and decided to post my picture in Max Carnage’s ultimate picture thread type thingy and **'Pun** apparently liked what he saw and messaged me. We talked for hours and hours and days and days and eventually he came and visited me down here in Podunk Virginia and he’s hardly left my side since. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Geobabe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/geobabe/32/3908_2.png) [@Geobabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geobabe)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/66 "2003-08-30T16:02:15Z")

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> \*Originally posted by NothingMan \*  
> **Lest we not forget possibly the first ever Doper couple : Satan and Drain Bead.**

Sadly, they have split up.

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**Author:** ![Geobabe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/geobabe/32/3908_2.png) [@Geobabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geobabe)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/67 "2003-08-30T16:27:01Z")

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> \*Originally posted by dantheman \*  
> \*\*Would you say it’s more luck or skill? Will the law of averages come into play at some point, or should one take lessons to improve one’s skill? \*\*

Well, I’d say it’s a little of both. It does take a certain amount of skill in order to close the deal once an appropriate target has been acquired, if you’ll pardon my mixed metaphor.

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**Author:** ![NothingMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b77776/32.png) [@NothingMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NothingMan)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2003, 4:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/68 "2003-08-30T16:37:31Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Geobabe \*  
> \*\*Sadly, they have split up. \*\*

Well damn.

I did not know that **Geobabe**.

☹

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**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2003, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/69 "2003-08-31T01:18:59Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Davebear \*  
> \*\*😃 \*\*

Arigatou 🙂

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**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2003, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/70 "2003-08-31T05:32:28Z")

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Darn. **Flamsterette** mentioned me 'n **Euty** before I could. 😉

Anyways. He and I go back as friends quite a ways, to the old AOL SDMB. Over the years, we became very good friends, and eventually it developed into something more. We met face-to-face for the first time at ChiDope in 2002.

Unfortunately, circumstances prevent us from being together as we wish right now, and it’s still going to be a while. But we’ll get there eventually. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Superdude](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/superdude/32/13450_2.png) [@Superdude](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superdude)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2003, 7:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/71 "2003-08-31T07:18:33Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Geobabe \*  
> \*\*Well, I’d say it’s a little of both. It does take a certain amount of skill in order to close the deal once an appropriate target has been acquired, if you’ll pardon my mixed metaphor. \*\*

And let’s also remember that, sometimes, it’s just a hook-up for sex. And sometimes it leads to something a little more meaningful.

I’ve had a couple of…encounters with Dopers. However, I’m going to be modest for once, and not reveal names. It’s been primarily of a sexual nature, admittedly.

That said, I have yet to have a Doper “relationship.” I want one.

Any girls interested in a cute, funny, single guy who has never been married, has no kids, has a job and is willing to relocate?

_Listens to the crickets_

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**Author:** ![papergirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@papergirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/papergirl)\
**Post date:** [August 31, 2003, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/72 "2003-08-31T16:28:12Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Flamsterette\_X \*  
> **todd33rpm** and **bodypoet** (that’s who I was thinking of, before… and I hope they’re still together, or this post will be pretty embarrassing)

We are! We are!  
I’m still sort of shocked that a happily single, fun, sweet, nice guy would actually _choose_ to become involved in a romance with a woman who has four kids, a crazy ex, and a household full of pets.  
What a great guy.  
Best,  
karol

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**Author:** ![Flamsterette\_X](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/41988e/32.png) [@Flamsterette\_X](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flamsterette_X)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2003, 12:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/73 "2003-09-01T00:00:59Z")

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Good to hear, **bodypoet**! 🙂

F\_X

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**Author:** ![Sinshine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Sinshine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sinshine)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2003, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/74 "2003-09-01T03:31:05Z")

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> \*Originally posted by GingerOfTheNorth \*  
> \*\*I can tell you right now that there are some people who are never, ever gonna get laid at Dopefests. Ever. So I’m thinking you can just throw the law of averages right out the window. \*\*

**Ginger** , you break my heart. Because I was just recently thinking of calling all the boys names until someone called me out. But apparently, there’s no point, as some of us _are never, ever gonna get laid at Dopefests._

In all seriousness, it sorta makes a bit of sense that a few good matches have been made here. You pick out a person who posts a brand of intelligence, humour, or cynicism that appeals to you, get to know that person better, and start a conversation. If there’s no talking involved in a relationship, count me out.

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**Author:** ![Pammipoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/87869e/32.png) [@Pammipoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pammipoo)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2003, 8:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/75 "2003-09-01T08:10:59Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Superdude \*  
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> That said, I have yet to have a Doper “relationship.” I want one.
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> Any girls interested in a cute, funny, single guy who has never been married, has no kids, has a job and is willing to relocate?
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> _Listens to the crickets_ \*\*

Hey, I keep telling you, get your ass to Boston 🙂

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2003, 2:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/76 "2003-09-01T14:34:40Z")

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I dunno, **Sinshine** - you sure you want to get involved with us creepy internet people? After all, one may take you away from home and deposit you on the wrong coast.

But at least you’d have a friend there, who would feed you.

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**Author:** ![Badtz\_Maru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e36b37/32.png) [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2003, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/77 "2003-09-02T03:56:41Z")

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I’ve hooked up with women from two different boards, but never this one. I did get some naked pictures from one of the posters here, though.

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**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2003, 4:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-any-couples-met-on-the-sdmb-tell-your-stories/198078/78 "2003-09-02T04:36:03Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Superdude \*  
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> Any girls interested in a cute, funny, single guy who has never been married, has no kids, has a job and is willing to relocate?
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> \*\*

See, your first step to a relationship is to tell people about yourself and not someone else…

I kid! I kid! 😛 😛

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