# Have to admit it, I am a very change-resistant person

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 7, 2018, 5:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169 "2018-03-07T05:57:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/61 "2018-03-09T17:35:08Z")

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> [@QuickSilver](#):
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> Bullshit.

:rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/62 "2018-03-09T17:40:11Z")

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You still haven’t answered the questions about how a teenager is like weight loss.

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 6:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/63 "2018-03-09T18:13:29Z")

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> [@Sunny\_Daze](#):
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> You still haven’t answered the questions about how a teenager is like weight loss.

> [@Luciano700](#):
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> Well then, I almost forgot the thread even existed.
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> Yes, I know I was being a bit too unorthodox with that comparison. But I am pretty sure if I made even a statement more… Never mind I will just reexplain it.  
> Being a teenager it’s perhaps you’re most struggling time. You’re basically increasing your world awareness and trying to get used to new social norms. As a kid of course you’re used to being careless and hoping just to explore some basic interests. it really goes without saying. because I mean you’re now aware of yourself.

:dubious:

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/64 "2018-03-09T18:29:13Z")

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I don’t see any similarity there at all to weight loss.

I agree that being a kid is different than being a teenager.

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 6:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/65 "2018-03-09T18:35:10Z")

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> [@Sunny\_Daze](#):
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> I don’t see any similarity there at all to weight loss.
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> I agree that being a kid is different than being a teenager.

Everyone thinks differently so…

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 6:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/66 "2018-03-09T18:42:06Z")

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> [@Luciano700](#):
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> Everyone thinks differently so…

Yes, some people think coherent thoughts and others do not.

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**Author:** ![Knowed\_Out](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/knowed_out/32/7380_2.png) [@Knowed\_Out](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Knowed_Out)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/67 "2018-03-09T20:17:47Z")

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Your world will change, so you’ll have no choice but to adapt.  
You’ll eventually graduate, have to live on your own, pay your own bills, find a job, find transportation, and provide for yourself.  
When that happens, you’ll be reminiscing about the happier times when you didn’t have to make life-changing decisions. It’s something we all go through. Just wait your turn.

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/68 "2018-03-09T20:19:29Z")

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> [@](#):
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> You still haven’t answered the questions about how a teenager is like weight loss.

Yeah, could you explain clearly? I think your explanations of so many things on this board seem like they make sense to you, and in your head you think you’ve answered the question, but you’re leaving out important information (or maybe parts of sentences?).

Can you try again? Pretend you don’t think you answered this before, and start over: _How is being a teenager like weight loss?_

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**Author:** ![Mangetout](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mangetout/32/19_2.png) [@Mangetout](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mangetout)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/69 "2018-03-09T21:39:17Z")

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It really goes without saying.

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 10:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/70 "2018-03-09T22:25:11Z")

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> [@digs](#):
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> Yeah, could you explain clearly? I think your explanations of so many things on this board seem like they make sense to you, and in your head you think you’ve answered the question, but you’re leaving out important information (or maybe parts of sentences?).
> 
> Can you try again? Pretend you don’t think you answered this before, and start over: _How is being a teenager like weight loss?_

I don’t understand how it doesn’t make sense  
Because both require great effort  
As you grow up, you have to get used to new life changing situations and new social pressures, norms and ideas, and you also have to stress about financial and school situations.

Losing weight requires great amount of exercise and diet and of course like growing up, your diet choices impact your routine.

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**Author:** ![Sunny\_Daze](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunny_daze/32/438_2.png) [@Sunny\_Daze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunny_Daze)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/71 "2018-03-09T23:31:03Z")

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> [@Luciano700](#):
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> I don’t understand how it doesn’t make sense  
> Because both require great effort

A-ha! I follow you now. Let’s continue.

> [@](#):
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> As you grow up, you have to get used to new life changing situations and new social pressures, norms and ideas, and you also have to stress about financial and school situations.

Yes, I see.

> [@](#):
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> Losing weight requires great amount of exercise and diet

I’ll allow this.

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> and of course like growing up, your diet choices impact your routine.

This makes my head hurt.

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 9, 2018, 11:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/72 "2018-03-09T23:54:55Z")

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> [@Sunny\_Daze](#):
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> A-ha! I follow you now. Let’s continue.
> 
> Yes, I see.
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> I’ll allow this.
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> This makes my head hurt.

Lol

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 1:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/73 "2018-03-10T01:08:48Z")

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Dude, one of these days, you will look back on your teen years as a carefree time. When Mom paid the bills and bought the groceries. Provided you with a bunch of Dove men hygiene products. When you could game and post on random message boards to your hearts content. That is nothing like losing weight or any number of adult trials and tribulations. Quit fretting over the shit and go have fun. You’re a kid, get on with being a kid.

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/74 "2018-03-10T05:07:50Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> Dude, one of these days, you will look back on your teen years as a carefree time. When Mom paid the bills and bought the groceries. Provided you with a bunch of Dove men hygiene products. When you could game and post on random message boards to your hearts content. That is nothing like losing weight or any number of adult trials and tribulations. Quit fretting over the shit and go have fun. You’re a kid, get on with being a kid.

Just got back from a high school soccer game, it was an embarrassing yet fun time.

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**Author:** ![kambuckta](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/53a042/32.png) [@kambuckta](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kambuckta)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/75 "2018-03-10T05:24:37Z")

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> [@Luciano700](#):
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> Just got back from a high school soccer game, it was an embarrassing yet fun time.

Do you ever actually RESPOND to what people are saying to you?

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**Author:** ![digs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/digs/32/14889_2.png) [@digs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/digs)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/76 "2018-03-10T06:03:52Z")

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> [@kambuckta](#):
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> Do you ever actually RESPOND to what people are saying to you?

I think he did (this once), by saying he had fun.  
Responding to: “Quit fretting over the shit and go have fun.”

But, yeah, he’s ignoring all the other advice…

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**Author:** ![Luciano700](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Luciano700](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Luciano700)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/77 "2018-03-10T06:04:59Z")

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> [@kambuckta](#):
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> Do you ever actually RESPOND to what people are saying to you?

I think the point of that post was to show off some gratitude

Anyways, I will try to discuss personal issues less online. Problem is I am such an introvert and people know it, this is why people love taking advantage over me in social real life situations.

Even my mom has sometimes no way to help me out, so I am just doing whatever I can.  
And no I don’t go saying “Where’s my social privilege?” I just try to work my ass off to earn my reputation.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/78 "2018-03-10T12:00:45Z")

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> [@kambuckta](#):
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> Do you ever actually RESPOND to what people are saying to you?

Seriously? Did you just get here?

Pretty sure, as long as his routine continues to garner responses, ain’t nothing gonna change. But I do admire your optimism! Good luck with that!

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 1:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/79 "2018-03-10T13:02:10Z")

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> [@Luciano700](#):
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> I don’t understand how it doesn’t make sense  
> Because both require great effort  
> As you grow up, you have to get used to new life changing situations and new social pressures, norms and ideas, and you also have to stress about financial and school situations.
> 
> Losing weight requires great amount of exercise and diet and of course like growing up, your diet choices impact your routine.

Wow, that’s some bullshit nonsense right there. You’ve got gift for this, kid. Keep this up and you’ll be recruited by 4chan by the time you graduate high school. Save your mom a bunch of money wasted on college.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2018, 1:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-to-admit-it-i-am-a-very-change-resistant-person/810169/80 "2018-03-10T13:04:24Z")

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> [@Luciano700](#):
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> I think the point of that post was to show off some gratitude
> 
> Anyways, I will try to discuss personal issues less online. Problem is I am such an introvert and people know it, this is why people love taking advantage over me in social real life situations.
> 
> Even my mom has sometimes no way to help me out, so I am just doing whatever I can.  
> And no I don’t go saying “Where’s my social privilege?” I just try to work my ass off to earn my reputation.

Introvert? Kid, in your short time here I know more about you than my next door neighbors.

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