# Have you ever done something on your Bucket List? What's on your Bucket List?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 11, 2026, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-done-something-on-your-bucket-list-whats-on-your-bucket-list/1029207 "2026-04-11T16:03:12Z")\
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> [@sunacres](#):
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> On the other hand, I do admit that the trappings that have grown up around most popular tourist destinations have severely reduced their appeal. That is a frustrating disaster.

It be like that (as the kids say). I have a bad taste in my mouth about Jamaica, and in particular Dunn’s River Falls, because of how pushy the locals are. And both are extraordinaryily beautiful.

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I’ve never actually sat down and written a bucket list but I have gradualy developed a rough mental one since I heard of the concept at 18, and it may evolve.

The following things could be considered as having been fulfilled:

- Learned to play the bagpipes

- Published a book

- Visited the Loire Valley in France, Scotland, the Sans Souci palace in Potsdam (Germany), and Southern France (but much more to explore there)

Things that haven’t been fulfilled yet include:

- Eating turtle soup or at least mock turtle soup

- Eating a good game bird dish

- Going diving in the sea

- Flying in a balloon or hang gliding (or perhaps trying skydiving but I’m a bit hesitant about this one)

- Visiting a whole host of places, mainly around Europe, but also in the Americas

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**Post date:** [April 12, 2026, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-done-something-on-your-bucket-list-whats-on-your-bucket-list/1029207/23 "2026-04-12T20:49:05Z")

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Current Bucket List:

1. Fly a B-17 (_fly_, not ride in). Done.
2. Ride in a P-47. Not yet.
3. Travel at least some of the Intracoastal Waterway by boat. Not yet.
4. Hunt feral hogs from a helicopter with a fully automatic (machine) gun. Not yet, but hopefully this year.
5. Ride in a tank. Not yet.
6. Raft the Grand Canyon. Done.
7. Catch a large shark. Done.
8. Same, but for tuna. Not yet.
9. Learn to SCUBA dive and get certified. Not yet.
10. Catapult from, and land on, an aircraft carrier. This was just a pipe-dream, but it actually happened, so… Done.

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> [@themapleleaf](#):
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> Eating turtle soup or at least mock turtle soup

I’ll be in New Orleans in December. Turtle soup there is as ubiquitous as chicken soup is in the Midwest. I’d eat a bowl and raise a glass to you, but that stuff tastes like shit (I’m told; and by “shit” I mean “strong taste of freshwater fish,” which I can’t stand. Same reason I hate frog legs.).

> [@themapleleaf](#):
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> Eating a good game bird dish

I’ve had wild turkey. It was delicious, though gamey (which makes sense, but I don’t like the taste of game).

> [@pullin](#):
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> Hunt feral hogs from a helicopter with a fully automatic (machine) gun. Not yet, but hopefully this year.

Jesus Christ dude. Are you going to do it while Ted Nugent shreds on his guitar? 😃

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**Post date:** [April 13, 2026, 3:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-done-something-on-your-bucket-list-whats-on-your-bucket-list/1029207/25 "2026-04-13T03:06:47Z")

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Saw a total solar eclipse.

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**Post date:** [April 13, 2026, 12:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-done-something-on-your-bucket-list-whats-on-your-bucket-list/1029207/26 "2026-04-13T12:52:11Z")

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Stuff that is done.

- My wife asked me to teach her how to shoot handguns. I did, we both just got our CCW permits. Kinda weird. Don’t plan on carrying. My wife got surrounded by a pack of coyotes when hiking, so she might carry then. Things aren’t quite pear shaped enough in the US for me to carry, but you never know. And the professional training was a good thing.

- My wife and I got most of our travel done. Well one to go. British Isles Norway and Iceland. That’s this August.

- We recently moved, which was a huge thing. Stayed in Colorado.  
Those where some things that where on our bucket list. But accomplished.

Next up

- Taking a pastels class. That’s scheduled for May
- Learning to play the piano. Well, at least well enough to enjoy it.
- Riding my bike more.
- My wife took a pickleball class, so looks like pickle ball is on my list. Sounds fun.

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> [@pullin](#):
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> Hunt feral hogs from a helicopter

In TX, it’s legal to hunt them from a hot air balloon. 🙄

Summit Kilimanjaro  
(Photo) shoot a safari  
Rim-to-rim, maybe rim-to-rim-to-rim\*  
Shoot a actively spewing volcano.  
Northern Lights above the Artic Circle. (I have seen & shot them in the US; but not nearly as strong as up north)

\* that’s a single trail run of the Grand Canyon, not a leisurely, multi-day trek. It’s less distance than a marathon, just with, obviously, a lot of vertical.

There’s all sorts of stuff I’ve do on a regular basis that is a lot of other peoples bucket list

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**Post date:** [April 13, 2026, 1:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-done-something-on-your-bucket-list-whats-on-your-bucket-list/1029207/28 "2026-04-13T13:35:43Z")

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> [@HeyHomie](#):
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> > [@pullin](#):
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> > Hunt feral hogs from a helicopter with a fully automatic (machine) gun. Not yet, but hopefully this year.
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> Jesus Christ dude. Are you going to do it while Ted Nugent shreds on his guitar? 😃

Seems like Credence would be more appropriate. 😄

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My bucket list was boring. It mostly consisted of projects and special dishes I wanted to cook. Some of them I never completed were restoring an early 1950’s model Chev Pick up truck. Another was successfully making puff pastry apple turnovers. They come out good but not bucket list good. I still haven’t got that one down.

Shortly before my divorce, the marriage counselor asked us to make a bucket list of not over 25 items. She told us not to show the list to one another until we came for counseling. Her list was mostly all travel and my list was all about creative projects. The only things on my list she liked was the renting a cabin by a remote lake for a 2 week romantic honeymoon. I kept my list after the divorce. I would add things now and then and remove things now and then. One very important thing on the list was that I wanted to experience my idea of true love, mainly the associated passion for one another. I could never seem to get that to last for more than a few months. I took that off my list a few years ago. One of the things on my list was to do something really big, something that required follow-through and dedication. I have had about 4 running starts at that but at some point, I discovered my limitations and decided to abandon and move on. I have been on my last one for about 3 years now, and it is still going strong. 78 years old now, so time is a factor. At least 3 times a week I want to give up but something positive will happen to keep me going. I feel satisfied that the majority of my simple list was completed.

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you can get turtle soup delivered from Commander’s Palace

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> [@HeyHomie](#):
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> - **Have sex with an Asian woman.**
> - **Have sex with a Black woman.**

Jeez. Did the OP write their bucket list when they were 13, and these two items are holdovers?

To the OP: have you had sex with a woman, of any ethnicity? If so, then you probably have a decent idea what it may be like to have sex with a Black or Asian woman. They’re individual human beings, not magical exotic Elven creatures or something.

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> [@solost](#):
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> To the OP: have you had sex with a woman, of any ethnicity?

All white women.

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OK, well, maybe you were unduly influenced by the Stones’ song ‘Some Girls’ growing up, but again, women of whatever ethnicity are individuals with their own feelings, predilections and tastes. There’s nothing unique and special about having sex with ‘Black’ or ‘Asian’ women as an ethnic group, other than maybe having bragging rights at the maturity level of a 13 year old.

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My list includes (but changes a lot):

- Wildlife Safari in Kenya/Tanzania
- Helicopter ski trip in Canadian Rockies, Alaska, or both
- Diving trips to French Polynesia, Great Barrier Reef, Maldives
- Grand Canyon Rim-to-Rim
- Hut-to-Hut hiking in Norway
- Follow along with the Tour de France
- Run a 100 mile race

I’ve already done a few on my list:

- Hike the Alta Via 1, Hiker’s Haute Route, Annapurna Circuit, Angel’s Landing, Peekaboo Slot Canyon
- Hot air balloon ride in the desert
- Tent camp in the Sahara
- Off piste skiing in Hokaiddo Japan
- Diving in the Caribbean
- Places to visit: Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Marrekesh, Tokyo, Vatican City, Amalfi Coast
- Sites to visit: Sagrada Familia, St Paul’s Cathedral, Ankor Wat
- Run the Boston Marathon, ultramarathon

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Some I have accomplished already:

Live outside the U.S. for an extended period of time  
African safari  
Visit a Middle Ages European castle  
Learn a foreign language to a reasonable degree of fluency

Some that remain:

Learn to scuba dive  
See the Northern lights  
Various travel goals, including seeing a game in every MLB ballpark

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Anything I really desired to do, I’ve mostly done:

Flown a fighter jet  
Published a book  
Traveled to a few interesting places  
Had a couple of careers I cared about

Frankly, the only bucket list item I have is being able to retire. Not sure how feasible that one really is, sadly.

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> [@Spiderman](#):
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> In TX, it’s legal to hunt them from a hot air balloon. 🙄

What could possibly go wrong?!

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> [@Thing.Fish](#):
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> What could possibly go wrong?!

Lesse, in the tight confines of a basket elbowing someone in the face on recoil, & that’s assuming that you’re using something like a bolt action where you control ejection of the shell.

Balloons travel one direction - downwind. If said hog runs any direction other than downwind it’s getting further away from you with no chance to catch it; like when the pilot might hit the _very loud_ burners so that you remain a _hot_-air balloon & stay afloat. Hell, even if they run in the exact direction you are flying, they’re probably running faster than the balloon is flying, which again, means they’re getting further away from you every second with no chance to catch up.

We seriously think some lawmaker who thought balloons are quieter than helos thought it might be a good idea without doing any investigation whatsoever.

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Or possibly some lawmaker whose brother-in-law owns a balloon rental business/gun shop.

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