# Have you ever had a female wet dream? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 8, 2008, 9:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970 "2008-10-08T09:44:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![pepperlandgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f17d59/32.png) [@pepperlandgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pepperlandgirl)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 5:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/21 "2008-10-08T17:30:06Z")
Whenever i have a sex dream, it ALWAYS stops before intercourse. ALWAYS. It’s like my brain thinks it’s more fun to dream about a sex comedy, full of wacky misadventures, so we’re always trying to have sex, but something always stops us. The one time in my life I actually dreamt about intercourse, it was a wet dream. Wish it would happen again! ---
**Author:** ![Santo\_Rugger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@Santo\_Rugger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Santo_Rugger)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/22 "2008-10-08T17:38:24Z")
> [@Stauderhorse](#): > > …At the time I was in another country and surrounded by a lot of gorgeous dark-haired guys (none of whom spoke the same language as me, so no chance of anything happening). Whoah, back up a second there. You’ve never heard of the language of love? I managed to do alright in Brazil, and I didn’t speak a work of Portugese when I landed there. Amazing what a few drinks and some club music will do for ya. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/23 "2008-10-08T17:43:55Z")
> [@Stauderhorse](#): > > Yup, once. At the time I was in another country and surrounded by a lot of gorgeous dark-haired guys (none of whom spoke the same language as me, so no chance of anything happening). So in the dream, I was going at it with some dark-haired guy and had an orgasm in my sleep. It didn’t wake me up, but you can bet I remembered it in the morning. The dream itself was very intense and very real. The funny thing is, the dream was just about sex, no prelude or anything. When I, erm, go on dates with my hand, the things that get me going are along the lines of a really passionate makeout session, oral sex, foreplay - basically anything but intercourse. Maybe my brain just wanted to skip ahead to the good stuff. ¿Cómo está **usted**? ;);)😉 ---
**Author:** ![Monstera\_deliciosa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monstera_deliciosa/32/109_2.png) [@Monstera\_deliciosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monstera_deliciosa)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 5:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/24 "2008-10-08T17:55:27Z")
> [@pepperlandgirl](#): > > Whenever i have a sex dream, it ALWAYS stops before intercourse. ALWAYS. It’s like my brain thinks it’s more fun to dream about a sex comedy, full of wacky misadventures, so we’re always trying to have sex, but something always stops us. The one time in my life I actually dreamt about intercourse, it was a wet dream. > > Wish it would happen again! My sexual dreams are similar, in that the sex never actually happens. I actually think it is because my most vivid dreams (of all types) happen toward the end of the night, when my bladder is full, and my brain/body won’t allow itself to relax. Sometimes in the dream, I actually excuse myself from my would-be lover to find a bathroom! I have had exactly one orgasmic dream in my entire life, during an short afternoon nap, when that factor wasn’t in play. ---
**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/25 "2008-10-08T18:08:41Z")
I have had sex dreams that caused me to orgasm, though that isn’t a regular thing at all. My sex dreams are very similar to **pepperlandgirl** ’s where you keep trying to have sex and trying to have sex and for one reason or another it just doesn’t happen. Warning: TMI alert but it was really funny so I feel the need to share. I had a dream the other night that I was trying to have a threesome with these two women and my boyfriend was going to take pictures but they kept leaving the room to do stupid things, like dye their hair or take out the trash, and when it was finally going to happen a police officer burst in and stopped us because it turns out the two girls were only 16. I woke up and laughed for about 10 minutes because I just knew that my boyfriend was probably having the _exact same dream_ at his place. ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 6:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/26 "2008-10-08T18:19:37Z")
> [@pbbth](#): > > I have had sex dreams that caused me to orgasm, though that isn’t a regular thing at all. My sex dreams are very similar to **pepperlandgirl** ’s where you keep trying to have sex and trying to have sex and for one reason or another it just doesn’t happen. I have the exact same recurring frustrating dream, except it involves: Golf! I keep trying and trying to tee off, but something is always either impeding my back swing or in my direct path! Yes, I’m pathetic. ---
**Author:** ![bufftabby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/77aa72/32.png) [@bufftabby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bufftabby)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/27 "2008-10-08T19:12:30Z")
Oh, yeah, definitely. I’d say it happens once or twice per year. It’s fun. ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/28 "2008-10-08T19:12:53Z")
I’m so jealous. I haven’t had a wet dream for years, and if I do have an erotic dream it never gets past kissing. ::sigh:: ---
**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/29 "2008-10-08T19:31:32Z")
> [@pbbth](#): > > My sex dreams are very similar to **pepperlandgirl** ’s where you keep trying to have sex and trying to have sex and for one reason or another it just doesn’t happen. Sounds like my college experience… ---
**Author:** ![Queen\_Bruin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Queen\_Bruin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Bruin)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/30 "2008-10-08T20:50:15Z")
It’s happened to me a few times in the last year, usually during a low point in marriage bed relations. Between this and my husband’s sleep sex, we make for a weird pair. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![WhyNot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c77e96/32.png) [@WhyNot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WhyNot)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/31 "2008-10-08T20:52:59Z")
> [@Queen\_Bruin](#): > > It’s happened to me a few times in the last year, usually during a low point in marriage bed relations. > > Between this and my husband’s sleep sex, we make for a weird pair. 😃 “Why does Queen Bruin have a pantry full of chamomile tea?” “Oh, she and King Bruin LOVE to sleep!” 😃 ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/32 "2008-10-08T20:54:15Z")
> [@Stauderhorse](#): > > (none of whom spoke the same language as me, so no chance of anything happening) What part of “universal language” don’t you understand? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Stauderhorse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce7236/32.png) [@Stauderhorse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stauderhorse)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 2:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/33 "2008-10-09T02:07:07Z")
> [@KneadToKnow](#): > > What part of “universal language” don’t you understand? > > 😉 Would that involve pointing to him, then myself, then at both of our crotches at the same time? ---
**Author:** ![elfkin477](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a9a28c/32.png) [@elfkin477](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfkin477)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/34 "2008-10-09T02:21:27Z")
About once a year. Or maybe it’s more, about once a year I wake up towards the end and know about it. ---
**Author:** ![Ruby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@Ruby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ruby)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/35 "2008-10-09T02:21:33Z")
Occasionally, yes. I would be \ delighted if it happened more, though. Most of the time, I can’t remember the details of the dream either which kinda sucks. ---
**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 2:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/36 "2008-10-09T02:30:57Z")
> [@Zebra](#): > > I think we need to hear these dreams ladies. > At least I do. Me to; in great detail and with pictures, if possible. Hand drawn sketches would be okay. I’m old, humor me. ---
**Author:** ![Lucky\_13](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lucky_13/32/13209_2.png) [@Lucky\_13](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucky_13)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/37 "2008-10-09T02:58:09Z")
Yes, I have, but it’s very rare. Mostly it doesn’t go as far as actual intercourse, just making out, and I usually wake up right before that (so frustrating!). On the rare occasions in which dream-penis ensues, I have orgasms. No, er, female ejaculate, just the usual moisture. But when it happens, it’s great! ---
**Author:** ![Sunrazor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sunrazor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunrazor)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/38 "2008-10-09T03:31:22Z")
Uhm … most of my wet dreams involve females. What!? Well, you asked! ---
**Author:** ![Pollux\_Oil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/858c86/32.png) [@Pollux\_Oil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pollux_Oil)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 6:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/39 "2008-10-09T06:19:06Z")
I’m a guy, intruding on the thread, but I have to say I find this thread fascinating. (No, not in that way! I’m not a pervert! At least not in this case.) I find it fascinating because I’ve never had a wet dream in my life. I’ve had arousing dreams, but like some of the people have said if the dream goes anywhere towards sex I either wake up or something happens in the dream to draw me away. In fact, I’m pretty sure nudity is banned from my dreams too. I distinctly remember at least one dream from when I was younger where I had acquired a Playboy but every time I tried to look in it something came up. And when I finally looked in it it was all articles. 😕 I’ve always just attributed it to the fact that I’m a light sleeper. It’s interesting to see I’m not the only one. ---
**Author:** ![Incref](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f17d59/32.png) [@Incref](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Incref)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 6:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970/40 "2008-10-09T06:32:21Z")
> [@Pollux\_Oil](#): > > I had acquired a Playboy but every time I tried to look in it something came up. I just spat water across my desk! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-a-female-wet-dream/466970.md?page=3)