# Have you ever had sex with or in front of a larger group of people at a party or club? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 2, 2010, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426 "2010-09-02T20:42:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/1 "2010-09-02T20:42:05Z")
Poll coming. The poll answers are bifarcated by age. So if the answer is yes, use the age group, you were the last time you participated. If the answer is no, put your current age group. ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/2 "2010-09-02T20:56:15Z")
Age? I thought you meant number of people participating with me. Can I have a re-vote? ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/3 "2010-09-02T21:00:53Z")
I’ve been having group sex (from threesomes up to nights at sex clubs) since I was about 18. Last had a group session, ooooooooooh, three weeks ago. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/4 "2010-09-02T21:05:55Z")
No, but I would if my partner was willing, which she has made clear in no uncertain terms that she never will be. ---
**Author:** ![CalMeacham](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/calmeacham/32/35_2.png) [@CalMeacham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CalMeacham)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/5 "2010-09-02T21:11:47Z")
Not only haven’t I had sex in a large group, I’ve never bifarcated there, either. By age or by anything else. ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/6 "2010-09-02T21:19:33Z")
Once you’ve done it in a stack, you can never go back. ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2010, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/7 "2010-09-02T21:37:17Z")
I think i Hit no by mistake. I meant yes 25-35. ---
**Author:** ![kidneyfailure](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9f8e36/32.png) [@kidneyfailure](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kidneyfailure)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/8 "2010-09-03T02:03:33Z")
> [@CalMeacham](#): > > Not only haven’t I had sex in a large group, I’ve never bifarcated there, either. By age or by anything else. You haven’t lived until you’ve bifarcated in front of a large group, dude. Trust me on this one. ---
**Author:** ![Uncle\_Brother\_Walker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f08c70/32.png) [@Uncle\_Brother\_Walker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uncle_Brother_Walker)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/9 "2010-09-03T03:45:33Z")
Yes, 25-35. I met this couple who introduced me into the whole lifestyle. It was a wonderful part of my life that is, sadly, now over. ---
**Author:** ![GHO57](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/df788c/32.png) [@GHO57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GHO57)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 3:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/10 "2010-09-03T03:49:54Z")
Larger than what? ---
**Author:** ![Maeglin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Maeglin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maeglin)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 5:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/11 "2010-09-03T05:02:10Z")
> [@GHO57](#): > > Larger than what? A breadbox. ---
**Author:** ![heathen\_earthling](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/13edae/32.png) [@heathen\_earthling](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/heathen_earthling)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/12 "2010-09-03T15:19:24Z")
I can’t recall a time with more than three spectators, so I’m voting “no.” ---
**Author:** ![Zsofia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@Zsofia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zsofia)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 3:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/13 "2010-09-03T15:31:48Z")
You should have also separated it out by gender. ---
**Author:** ![42fish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/4/b487fb/32.png) [@42fish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/42fish)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 3:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/14 "2010-09-03T15:38:52Z")
> [@kidneyfailure](#): > > > [@CalMeacham](#): > > > > Not only haven’t I had sex in a large group, I’ve never bifarcated there, either. By age or by anything else. > > You haven’t lived until you’ve bifarcated in front of a large group, dude. Trust me on this one. And if you’re really adventurous, go for trifarcating and quadfarcating. ---
**Author:** ![Omar\_Little](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omar_little/32/269_2.png) [@Omar\_Little](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omar_Little)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/15 "2010-09-03T16:05:50Z")
So far results are about what I expected, about 15% said yes, with a little more than half of that group 35 or younger. As someone else said would be interesting to also ask the same question by gender and as also by married or single. ---
**Author:** ![Fried\_Dough\_Ho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/a88e57/32.png) [@Fried\_Dough\_Ho](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fried_Dough_Ho)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/16 "2010-09-03T16:11:48Z")
46 year old female here – the late 80s were a time of lots of orgies and whatnot… Back then, it was no big deal to go to a house with 20 or 30 people on a Friday night and not leave until after brunch on Sunday morning having done them all. ---
**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/17 "2010-09-03T17:38:08Z")
Yeah… it’s called being a fine arts major. Shit, we would do pot, talk poetic, drink and fuck each other all night. Kinda miss that… the carefree nature of life back then… 27-year-old female. ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/18 "2010-09-03T17:40:55Z")
No, and don’t plan to. I have once had sex and looked over and saw the two cats sitting as if they were in the front row, watching as if it were some tv show. ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 6:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/19 "2010-09-03T18:12:14Z")
> [@Zsofia](#): > > You should have also separated it out by gender. And sexual orientation. ---
**Author:** ![multimediac17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/839c29/32.png) [@multimediac17](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/multimediac17)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/20 "2010-09-03T18:48:00Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > I have once had sex and looked over and saw the two cats sitting as if they were in the front row, watching as if it were some tv show. HAHA. This is amazing. I love your cats. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426.md?page=2)