# Have you ever had sex with or in front of a larger group of people at a party or club? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 2, 2010, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426 "2010-09-02T20:42:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/21 "2010-09-03T19:01:11Z")
No. And frankly lm surprised to see any yeses. I’ve led a sheltered life obviously. ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 7:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/22 "2010-09-03T19:45:59Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > No. And frankly lm surprised to see any yeses. I’ve led a sheltered life obviously. You’re surprised? Really? You didn’t think people had sex in groups or that there just wouldn’t be any here? ---
**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/23 "2010-09-03T19:56:16Z")
> [@Illuminatiprimus](#): > > > [@Leaffan](#): > > > > No. And frankly lm surprised to see any yeses. I’ve led a sheltered life obviously. > > You’re surprised? Really? You didn’t think people had sex in groups or that there just wouldn’t be any here? A little of both, I guess. I mean, it obviously happens. In fact just last week I saw evidence of such while… researching on the internet. I can say that I don’t think I know of anyone who has personal experience in this field. However it’s not the type of thing that comes up around the dinner table. ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/24 "2010-09-03T20:01:41Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > > [@Illuminatiprimus](#): > > > > You’re surprised? Really? You didn’t think people had sex in groups or that there just wouldn’t be any here? > > A little of both, I guess. I mean, it obviously happens. In fact just last week I saw evidence of such while… researching on the internet. I can say that I don’t think I know of anyone who has personal experience in this field. However it’s not the type of thing that comes up around the dinner table. Although it may come up ON the dinner table. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/25 "2010-09-03T20:02:51Z")
> [@Antinor01](#): > > Although it may come up ON the dinner table. 😉 Hey, we EAT off of this thing! ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/26 "2010-09-03T20:30:26Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > > [@Antinor01](#): > > > > Although it may come up ON the dinner table. 😉 > > Hey, we EAT off of this thing! That’s what he said! ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/27 "2010-09-03T20:37:12Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > > [@Antinor01](#): > > > > Although it may come up ON the dinner table. 😉 > > Hey, we EAT off of this thing! Precisely. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/28 "2010-09-03T20:47:10Z")
Let me rephrase. Hey, we eat off of THIS thing! ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/29 "2010-09-03T20:56:56Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Let me rephrase. > > Hey, we eat off of THIS thing! Not me-I’m eating out. ---
**Author:** ![Lemur866](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lemur866/32/434_2.png) [@Lemur866](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lemur866)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/30 "2010-09-03T22:36:58Z")
> [@Serenata67](#): > > Yeah… it’s called being a fine arts major. Shit, we would do pot, talk poetic, drink and fuck each other all night. Kinda miss that… the carefree nature of life back then… > > 27-year-old female. Sonofa…I knew I shouldn’t have majored in natural sciences. ---
**Author:** ![FoieGrasIsEvil](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/foiegrasisevil/32/16638_2.png) [@FoieGrasIsEvil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FoieGrasIsEvil)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 10:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/31 "2010-09-03T22:48:25Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > > [@Antinor01](#): > > > > Although it may come up ON the dinner table. 😉 > > Hey, we EAT off of this thing! Not after that dirty-diapered kid sat on it we don’t! ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2010, 11:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/32 "2010-09-03T23:04:44Z")
This is actually how my partner and I met. And I wish we could have answered in multiple decades. ---
**Author:** ![Cerowyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/82dd89/32.png) [@Cerowyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cerowyn)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/33 "2010-09-04T01:03:48Z")
> [@Leaffan](#): > > A little of both, I guess. I mean, it obviously happens. In fact just last week I saw evidence of such while… researching on the internet. I can say that I don’t think I know of anyone who has personal experience in this field. However it’s not the type of thing that comes up around the dinner table. Toronto and Montreal have numerous clubs where people go to have or watch sex. [This one](http://www.wickedclub.com/index.php) is walking distance from my place. ---
**Author:** ![kopek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kopek/32/337_2.png) [@kopek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kopek)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/34 "2010-09-04T01:57:46Z")
I picked the last because I basically came here to see who had voted yes and then try to look up their picture in the gallery. ---
**Author:** ![KinkiNipponTourist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e9bcb4/32.png) [@KinkiNipponTourist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KinkiNipponTourist)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/35 "2010-09-04T02:02:47Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > No, and don’t plan to. I have once had sex and looked over and saw the two cats sitting as if they were in the front row, watching as if it were some tv show. ditto. It was the one purring while watching that totally creeped me out. damn cat was having a better time than I was. ---
**Author:** ![gladtobeblazed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/85f322/32.png) [@gladtobeblazed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gladtobeblazed)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/36 "2010-09-04T02:48:32Z")
I answered no, but once at a party I got a handjob in a hot tub, with maybe 5 other drunken people in it. I don’t know if that counts or not. ---
**Author:** ![Superhal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b4bc9f/32.png) [@Superhal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Superhal)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/37 "2010-09-04T04:46:06Z")
I heard of it once when Ecstacy was first popular, but I don’t think it’s very common around here. I know there’s one sex club though, but it’s a “watch only” thing. ---
**Author:** ![GHO57](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/df788c/32.png) [@GHO57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GHO57)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 4:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/38 "2010-09-04T04:58:32Z")
> [@Czarcasm](#): > > > [@tdn](#): > > > > Let me rephrase. > > > > Hey, we eat off of THIS thing! > > Not me-I’m eating out. Ah, dogging, I hear it’s what all the cool kids are into these days. ---
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 9:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/39 "2010-09-04T09:36:37Z")
I am going to say no. Of course, in college I made out with women in a room where everyone was making out. But we never went past second base and it wasn’t too long before people started finding more secluded areas of the apartment. ---
**Author:** ![EvilTOJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee59a6/32.png) [@EvilTOJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EvilTOJ)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 10:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/40 "2010-09-04T10:22:04Z")
What, the poll is anonymous? Awww ☹ The poll results would make the next Dopefest a lot more interesting, I’m sure. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426.md?page=3)