# Have you ever had sex with or in front of a larger group of people at a party or club? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 2, 2010, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426 "2010-09-02T20:42:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 12:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/41 "2010-09-04T12:14:21Z")
Not only more interesting, but exponentially more likely to happen. ---
**Author:** ![Zsofia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@Zsofia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zsofia)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/42 "2010-09-04T12:46:37Z")
I guess I’m just even more old and boring than I thought I was. ---
**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/43 "2010-09-04T18:48:18Z")
> [@Zsofia](#): > > I guess I’m just even more old and boring than I thought I was. Me too. ---
**Author:** ![LouisB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/dfb087/32.png) [@LouisB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LouisB)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/44 "2010-09-04T19:00:11Z")
> [@42fish](#): > > > [@kidneyfailure](#): > > > > You haven’t lived until you’ve bifarcated in front of a large group, dude. Trust me on this one. > > And if you’re really adventurous, go for trifarcating and quadfarcating. Some things are just good, clean fun but these are just degenerate. I like that. ---
**Author:** ![DooWahDiddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9bcb4/32.png) [@DooWahDiddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DooWahDiddy)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/45 "2010-09-04T20:21:41Z")
> [@Illuminatiprimus](#): > > I’ve been having group sex (from threesomes up to nights at sex clubs) since I was about 18. Last had a group session, ooooooooooh, three weeks ago. I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/46 "2010-09-04T21:34:32Z")
> [@DooWahDiddy](#): > > > [@Illuminatiprimus](#): > > > > I’ve been having group sex (from threesomes up to nights at sex clubs) since I was about 18. Last had a group session, ooooooooooh, three weeks ago. > > I would like to subscribe to your newsletter. By all means - you can subscribe here > **[GayAgenda](https://gayagenda.com/)** > > The news that matters for Gays and Lesbians everywhere! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![DooWahDiddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9bcb4/32.png) [@DooWahDiddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DooWahDiddy)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/47 "2010-09-04T22:37:38Z")
Ha, sorry, didn’t realize you were gay. (Not that there’s anything wrong with that.) No offense, but it does detract from how much I was initially impressed with you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![AndrewL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@AndrewL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AndrewL)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 10:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/48 "2010-09-04T22:49:13Z")
Clearly, I am not being invited to the right parties. ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2010, 10:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/49 "2010-09-04T22:54:12Z")
> [@DooWahDiddy](#): > > Ha, sorry, didn’t realize you were gay. (Not that there’s anything wrong with that.) No offense, but it does detract from how much I was initially impressed with you. 🙂 Yes - the laws of supply and demand definitely do have an effect on how easy it is to get sex (group or otherwise) when you’re a poof. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Cyberhwk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7993a0/32.png) [@Cyberhwk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cyberhwk)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 4:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/50 "2010-09-05T04:07:17Z")
> [@AndrewL](#): > > Clearly, I am not being invited to the right parties. I had 3 coworkers all get pregnant at the same time. Upon telling everybody I did start to wonder if there were some office orgy parties I wasn’t being invited to. ---
**Author:** ![HardlySanguine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/96bed5/32.png) [@HardlySanguine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HardlySanguine)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 6:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/51 "2010-09-05T06:29:07Z")
I’m just waiting for this thread to get resurrected in a few weeks with a > [@](#): > > Can I change my vote? > > 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Erdosain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/erdosain/32/7284_2.png) [@Erdosain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Erdosain)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 10:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/52 "2010-09-05T10:42:11Z")
> [@Lemur866](#): > > > [@Serenata67](#): > > > > Yeah… it’s called being a fine arts major. Shit, we would do pot, talk poetic, drink and fuck each other all night. Kinda miss that… the carefree nature of life back then… > > > > 27-year-old female. > > Sonofa…I knew I shouldn’t have majored in natural sciences. How ironic (in an Alanis Morrissette way). The Fine Arts majors have all the sex while the Biology majors look at pictures of people having sex. ---
**Author:** ![Antigen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/848f3c/32.png) [@Antigen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antigen)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 1:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/53 "2010-09-05T13:57:19Z")
Never have, not the least bit interested. ---
**Author:** ![DocCathode](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doccathode/32/18773_2.png) [@DocCathode](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DocCathode)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2010, 7:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/54 "2010-09-05T19:59:54Z")
Not yet. I’m perfectly willing to perform for spectators but have trouble finding a parter to perform with. BTW I find this bit from WickedClub’s site hilarious “This year’s Annual B’day Bash will be celebrate 1 week earlier to respect “Yom Kippur” Thank you for understanding!” A sex club for folks who still celebrate the Day Of Atonement. I can really get behind that. ---
**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 4:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/55 "2010-09-06T04:20:36Z")
> [@Lemur866](#): > > > [@Serenata67](#): > > > > Yeah… it’s called being a fine arts major. Shit, we would do pot, talk poetic, drink and fuck each other all night. Kinda miss that… the carefree nature of life back then… > > > > 27-year-old female. > > Sonofa…I knew I shouldn’t have majored in natural sciences. Yeah, but you’ve got a degree you can actually use. I think it would have been better for me to skip the orgies and actually have a real job now… ---
**Author:** ![DooWahDiddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9bcb4/32.png) [@DooWahDiddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DooWahDiddy)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 4:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/56 "2010-09-06T04:49:35Z")
> [@Serenata67](#): > > > [@Lemur866](#): > > > > Sonofa…I knew I shouldn’t have majored in natural sciences. > > Yeah, but you’ve got a degree you can actually use. I think it would have been better for me to skip the orgies and actually have a real job now… Yeah, you kind of blew that. And now you’re fucked. ---
**Author:** ![toofs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4491bb/32.png) [@toofs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/toofs)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/57 "2010-09-06T04:50:13Z")
This should have been broken up by sexual orientation, as it seems the gay guys are getting way more kinky action than the straights. ---
**Author:** ![Erdosain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/erdosain/32/7284_2.png) [@Erdosain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Erdosain)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 12:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/58 "2010-09-06T12:10:04Z")
> [@DocCathode](#): > > I find this bit from WickedClub’s site hilarious > > “This year’s Annual B’day Bash will be celebrate 1 week earlier to respect “Yom Kippur” Thank you for understanding!” > > A sex club for folks who still celebrate the Day Of Atonement. I can really get behind that. And here I thought they’d have some tacky event like “Day of A-Bone-ment.” ---
**Author:** ![Illuminatiprimus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/illuminatiprimus/32/11520_2.png) [@Illuminatiprimus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Illuminatiprimus)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 12:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/59 "2010-09-06T12:30:23Z")
> [@toofs](#): > > This should have been broken up by sexual orientation, as it seems the gay guys are getting way more kinky action than the straights. There have to be some benefits to being in a class of people that is only slightly less despised than child molestors (or, in the minds of some people, the same class). ---
**Author:** ![Small\_Hen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ad7895/32.png) [@Small\_Hen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Small_Hen)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2010, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426/60 "2010-09-06T14:45:47Z")
I gave a blowjob to, and had sex with, a guy I didn’t know on someone’s apartment balcony during a party - there were about 30 people there. It was a terrible mistake - I feel humilated just thinking of it. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426.md?page=2) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/have-you-ever-had-sex-with-or-in-front-of-a-larger-group-of-people-at-a-party-or-club/552426.md?page=4)