# Having sex with fat ugly women, it's easy but harmful... **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [December 30, 2011, 9:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814 "2011-12-30T09:01:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![RogerDalien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9de0a6/32.png) [@RogerDalien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RogerDalien)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 9:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/1 "2011-12-30T09:01:50Z")
A phenomenon not often discussed are the harmful effects of going for that easy lay: having sex with fat ugly women and the hit it can take on a young man’s self-esteem. IT’s the after-effects: the shame and the guilt. Why is this not an issue? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles about how this is harming a generation of young men? Studies suggest that this will afflict 2 in 5 young man in the prime of their liot ---
**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 9:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/2 "2011-12-30T09:47:05Z")
1. Have teh sexxay with fat un-ugly women. They are slagged for being fat but they are often very sweet-natured and not too bad to look at really. 2. What’s a liot? ---
**Author:** ![Giles](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giles/32/60_2.png) [@Giles](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giles)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 9:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/3 "2011-12-30T09:54:11Z")
> [@Beware\_of\_Doug](#): > > 1. What’s a liot? Japanese for “riot”. ---
**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 10:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/4 "2011-12-30T10:16:17Z")
> [@RogerDalien](#): > > Studies suggest that this will afflict 2 in 5 young man in the prime of their liot What studies? ---
**Author:** ![Beware\_of\_Doug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@Beware\_of\_Doug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beware_of_Doug)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 10:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/5 "2011-12-30T10:28:35Z")
Well doy? Studies about liots. ---
**Author:** ![Gyrate](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gyrate/32/3588_2.png) [@Gyrate](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gyrate)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 10:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/6 "2011-12-30T10:37:55Z")
This reminds me of the only bit on _Joey_ that actually made me laugh: > [@Joey Tribbiani](#): > > It’s important to choose someone at the same level of hotness as yourself. You could go two points either way, but I-- I wouldn’t do much more than that. For example, I’m a 9, okay, so I can hit on a 7 or a hypothetical 11. Okay? Another option for me is a 4 and a 5. Okay? Three 3s. And-- and I wouldn’t recommend this – nine 1s. ---
**Author:** ![tim-n-va](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim-n-va/32/3001_2.png) [@tim-n-va](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tim-n-va)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 1:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/7 "2011-12-30T13:24:40Z")
Reminds me of the joke about sex with a fat woman and riding a moped. Fun, easy to do but you wouldn’t want your friends to see you doing it. ---
**Author:** ![Happy\_Lendervedder](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/happy_lendervedder/32/8488_2.png) [@Happy\_Lendervedder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Lendervedder)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 1:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/8 "2011-12-30T13:51:31Z")
> [@tim-n-va](#): > > Reminds me of the joke about sex with a fat woman and riding a moped. Fun, easy to do but you wouldn’t want your friends to see you doing it. I don’t know, having sex with a fat woman riding on a moped sounds dangerous. Maybe fun, but definitely not easy. ---
**Author:** ![Scarlett67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scarlett67/32/7387_2.png) [@Scarlett67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scarlett67)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 2:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/9 "2011-12-30T14:00:15Z")
> [@tim-n-va](#): > > Reminds me of the joke about sex with a fat woman and riding a moped. Fun, easy to do but you wouldn’t want your friends to see you doing it. Damn, scooped by half an hour! Have any studies been done on the harmful effects on fat ugly women when they have sex with jackasses? What about the shame and the guilt? Where are the _Time_ and _Newsweek_ articles? ---
**Author:** ![PapSett](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@PapSett](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PapSett)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/10 "2011-12-30T14:43:28Z")
Yeah, we get it. Us fat ugly women don’t deserve to live, much less have sex. ---
**Author:** ![Lancia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lancia/32/17174_2.png) [@Lancia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lancia)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/11 "2011-12-30T15:00:24Z")
And what about us fat men?! What harmful effects do hot young women suffer from when one of them has sex with one of us? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles on that? ---
**Author:** ![GoodOmens](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/d26b3c/32.png) [@GoodOmens](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GoodOmens)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/12 "2011-12-30T15:17:42Z")
I’m a slim, ugly guy. My wife is plump and very pretty. So, like, how does that balance out? When we get together do we get a slim, attractive me and a fat, ugly her, or is it the other way around? I’d like to know whose self-esteem has been hurt by the last 12 years of us knocking the boots. ---
**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/13 "2011-12-30T16:23:35Z")
> [@Lancia](#): > > And what about us fat men?! What harmful effects do hot young women suffer from when one of them has sex with one of us? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles on that? Well, reputable journalists have reported on aspects of that [phenomenom](http://www.theonion.com/articles/asian-teen-has-sweaty-middleagedman-fetish,2649/). ---
**Author:** ![Sudden\_Kestrel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@Sudden\_Kestrel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sudden_Kestrel)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/14 "2011-12-30T16:40:35Z")
What about women who were once slim and beautiful but who have for some reason become fat and ugly? Is the damage from sex with fat and ugly women retroactive? Should my mildly portly and handsome husband get more life insurance? ---
**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 4:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/15 "2011-12-30T16:43:36Z")
> [@Lancia](#): > > And what about us fat men?! What harmful effects do hot young women suffer from when one of them has sex with one of us? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles on that? When that can be documented as actually happening in RL as opposed to porn, let us know! ---
**Author:** ![simster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/simster/32/1047_2.png) [@simster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simster)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/16 "2011-12-30T16:58:49Z")
Fat bottomed girls make the rockin’ world go round! ---
**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 5:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/17 "2011-12-30T17:08:12Z")
> [@Lancia](#): > > And what about us fat men?! What harmful effects do hot young women suffer from when one of them has sex with one of us? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles on that? When has this ever happened? ---
**Author:** ![Patch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a183cd/32.png) [@Patch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Patch)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 5:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/18 "2011-12-30T17:16:49Z")
> [@Gyrate](#): > > This reminds me of the only bit on _Joey_ that actually made me laugh: I’ve never done a 10, but one night I did five 2’s, and I think that should go down as a positive achievement! –George Carlin ---
**Author:** ![Filbert](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/filbert/32/3433_2.png) [@Filbert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Filbert)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 5:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/19 "2011-12-30T17:21:34Z")
> [@TriPolar](#): > > When has this ever happened? Classically, when the word ‘fat’ is also paired with ‘rich’ and/or ‘famous’? ---
**Author:** ![Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tim_r.mortiss/32/142_2.png) [@Tim\_R.Mortiss](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tim_R.Mortiss)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2011, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/20 "2011-12-30T17:22:36Z")
> [@Interrobang](#): > > I’m a slim, ugly guy. My wife is plump and very pretty. So, like, how does that balance out? When we get together do we get a slim, attractive me and a fat, ugly her, or is it the other way around? > > I’d like to know whose self-esteem has been hurt by the last 12 years of us knocking the boots. Jack Spratt? Is that you?? [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814.md?page=2)