# Having sex with fat ugly women, it's easy but harmful... **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [December 30, 2011, 9:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814 "2011-12-30T09:01:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![slm2955](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c6cbf5/32.png) [@slm2955](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/slm2955)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/41 "2011-12-31T03:20:01Z")
> [@SCSimmons](#): > > That’s actually very good for you. It can extend your lifespan by 8-10 years, cure a number of chronic diseases, and improve your chances of winning at nearly any game of chance. > > 😉 :dubious: oh yea? But sex with a fat ugly female is hazardous to your health? Sexist much?😛 ---
**Author:** ![slm2955](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c6cbf5/32.png) [@slm2955](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/slm2955)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/42 "2011-12-31T03:22:16Z")
> [@Guinastasia](#): > > Let’s see a picture of the OP. Yea OP, don’t leave us hanging…show us what you got… ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/43 "2011-12-31T03:39:08Z")
> [@PapSett](#): > > Yeah, we get it. Us fat ugly women don’t deserve to live, much less have sex. If there’s one thing sexier than fat and ugly, it’s fat, ugly, and gloomy. Rrowrr! ---
**Author:** ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/44 "2011-12-31T03:40:45Z")
Anyone who judges a woman’s sexual ability by her appearances and her weight is a fool. ---
**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/45 "2011-12-31T03:45:22Z")
> [@RogerDalien](#): > > Studies suggest that this will afflict 2 in 5 young man in the prime of their liot My overweight heart bleeds for 'em. Look, if they feel guilty, that’s their problem. If I choose to have sex with someone who is less stunningly beautiful than my own self, it might be because I am seriously attracted to them anyway. Looks are sooo not everything. ---
**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/46 "2011-12-31T03:46:29Z")
> [@RealityChuck](#): > > Anyone who judges a woman’s sexual ability by her appearances and her weight is a fool. Or a man’s. ---
**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 6:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/47 "2011-12-31T06:12:00Z")
What if we were fat and ugly, but lost weight and therefore became better-looking because we were laid off? Does poor and thin beat fat and rich? ---
**Author:** ![Terraplane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/74df32/32.png) [@Terraplane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Terraplane)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/48 "2011-12-31T06:51:07Z")
The premise of this OP is really rotten and I can’t imagine it’s meant sincerely. ---
**Author:** ![ProbablyProcrastinating](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/57b2e6/32.png) [@ProbablyProcrastinating](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ProbablyProcrastinating)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 7:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/49 "2011-12-31T07:56:57Z")
> [@Interrobang](#): > > I’m a slim, ugly guy. My wife is plump and very pretty. So, like, how does that balance out? When we get together do we get a slim, attractive me and a fat, ugly her, or is it the other way around? > > I’d like to know whose self-esteem has been hurt by the last 12 years of us knocking the boots. Mine. We didn’t make it nearly that far and when I first decided to get legally divorced I was wracked with guilt, wondering how long-lasting couples did it. Though, I got over it for the kids’ sake. Still. How dare you get it on in marital bliss when some of us are living in misery. 😛 Congratulations on your happy marriage and not being narcissists. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 9:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/50 "2011-12-31T09:40:28Z")
> [@RogerDalien](#): > > Why is this not an issue? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles about how this is harming a generation of young men? It threw off my curling form for a few days but otherwise it was all good so I was soon back to it. ---
**Author:** ![slm2955](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c6cbf5/32.png) [@slm2955](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/slm2955)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/51 "2011-12-31T15:08:04Z")
> [@Terraplane](#): > > The premise of this OP is really rotten and I can’t imagine it’s meant sincerely. I can’t either. ---
**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 4:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/52 "2011-12-31T16:00:48Z")
Karmically speaking, I am convinced the world is currently so full of fat and ugly people because they were so judgmental, about such things, when they were otherwise, that karma sent them some fat and some ugly as justice. Hence a world filled with oodles of fat and ugly people. And, no doubt, in the future, that will include the OP. Because that’s how the universe teaches you what you’re smart enough to know but choose to ignore, like; it’s what’s inside that counts. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2011, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/53 "2011-12-31T18:46:27Z")
> [@elbows](#): > > Karmically speaking, I am convinced the world is currently so full of fat and ugly people because they were so judgmental, about such things, when they were otherwise, that karma sent them some fat and some ugly as justice. Hence a world filled with oodles of fat and ugly people. Finally, someone willing to admit it’s their fault! ---
**Author:** ![drachillix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/48db29/32.png) [@drachillix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drachillix)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/54 "2012-01-29T21:32:55Z")
> [@silenus](#): > > When that can be documented as actually happening in RL as opposed to porn, let us know! Not many times but several ladies I dated and or had sex with were what the board would call definitely and hot. and I am 5’10" and 375lbs. ---
**Author:** ![drachillix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/48db29/32.png) [@drachillix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drachillix)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 9:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/55 "2012-01-29T21:36:40Z")
> [@PapSett](#): > > Yeah, we get it. Us fat ugly women don’t deserve to live, much less have sex. \ IF thats what you call ugly I would have sex with ugly all day 😃 you are actually pretty damn cute… \ Damnit… ---
**Author:** ![Namkcalb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Namkcalb](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Namkcalb)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 10:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/56 "2012-01-29T22:00:40Z")
> [@PapSett](#): > > Yeah, we get it. Us fat ugly women don’t deserve to live, much less have sex. [troll]Well, ignorance thought [/troll] > [@Lancia](#): > > And what about us fat men?! What harmful effects do hot young women suffer from when one of them has sex with one of us? Where are the Newsweek/Time articles on that? [You](http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/5/50/The_Griffin_family.png)[turn](http://images.wikia.com/simpsons/images/0/04/Simpsons_couch-1-.jpg)[into](http://www.topthat.net/webrock/images/Flintstones_family.jpg) [a](http://www.genericinternetcritic.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/vlcsnap-372525.png) cartoon character ---
**Author:** ![SCSimmons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e495f1/32.png) [@SCSimmons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SCSimmons)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2012, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/57 "2012-01-30T03:21:39Z")
> [@drachillix](#): > > \ > > IF thats what you call ugly I would have sex with ugly all day 😃 > > you are actually pretty damn cute… Dude … I think **Papsett** is the one in the back. (Sorry, I’m just not constitutionally capable of passing up a straight line like that. I agree, **Papsett** is quite pretty.) ---
**Author:** ![Esox\_Lucius](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/848f3c/32.png) [@Esox\_Lucius](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Esox_Lucius)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2012, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/having-sex-with-fat-ugly-women-its-easy-but-harmful/607814/58 "2012-01-31T04:40:57Z")
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