# He wants to go for coffee!!!!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [April 15, 2003, 10:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848 "2003-04-15T10:48:20Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [April 16, 2003, 9:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/21 "2003-04-16T09:37:16Z")

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Passover starts tonight, so I’m going to be away from the boards for a little while. So far, it’s looking like we might do the coffee thang on Thursday or Friday.

I’ll tell you all how it goes. Thanks for your good wishes, guys.

I hope things go well for the bunch of you until I come back.

Yippeeee!!

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [April 16, 2003, 9:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/22 "2003-04-16T09:45:58Z")

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My cheeks hurt from smiling!

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 16, 2003, 11:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/23 "2003-04-16T11:52:47Z")

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Too cute! 🙂 How could anyone NOT want to date this woman?

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**Author:** ![Kalhoun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3bc359/32.png) [@Kalhoun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kalhoun)\
**Post date:** [April 16, 2003, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/24 "2003-04-16T13:43:41Z")

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Juji Mojo said, “Im married now and I never dated my husband.” Hmmm…can you elaborate on that a bit? I thought you said you never dated your husband.

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**Author:** ![juji\_mojo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ea924/32.png) [@juji\_mojo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/juji_mojo)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 1:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/25 "2003-04-17T01:18:39Z")

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Kalhoun… thats right, my husband and I never dated.

Which is why happy date stories make me feel all kind of warm and wistful.

Since this is Scribble’s coffee date thread I wont elaborate here, but if you want to start a different thread, I would gladly explain there.

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**Author:** ![juji\_mojo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ea924/32.png) [@juji\_mojo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/juji_mojo)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2003, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/26 "2003-04-17T01:20:06Z")

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I mean we never dated EACH OTHER. Ive dated other people and I… think… hes gone out with a few other people, although knowing him, I dont think they were real “dates”

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [April 21, 2003, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/27 "2003-04-21T22:51:47Z")

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Okay…I’m back from my mom’s place. The seders and the last couple of days have been fun, but I’m glad to have been liberated from a surfeit of family love and togetherness.

In any case…it’s looking like we’ll be doing the coffee cha-cha on Thursday evening. I’ll keep you all posted.

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**Author:** ![Forbin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5e9695/32.png) [@Forbin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Forbin)\
**Post date:** [April 22, 2003, 1:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/28 "2003-04-22T01:09:28Z")

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I’m happy for you Scribble.  
I’m in that breathless state of a new love, and I hope you can experience that too.  
What’s his name sounds like a lucky guy.

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**Author:** ![dogchow](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@dogchow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dogchow)\
**Post date:** [April 22, 2003, 2:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/29 "2003-04-22T02:33:07Z")

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good luck!

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**Author:** ![finn1911](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d78d45/32.png) [@finn1911](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/finn1911)\
**Post date:** [April 22, 2003, 6:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/30 "2003-04-22T06:09:22Z")

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I’m gonna have to remember to check back friday. 🙂 This is to much suspense for me !

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [April 23, 2003, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/31 "2003-04-23T23:11:00Z")

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Coffee time update, here.

I got word this Monday that I don’t have an assistantship for summer. Since I’m not supported by a grant, that means I get zero, zip, nada, nothing at all from July through September.

There are a lot of other TAs in my position, and I’m going to have to get a move-on if I want to compete with them for the few decent jobs out there. So I’m brushing up my resume and desperately seeking posted ads, contacts, etc.

All this is by way of saying that I’ve asked to postpone the coffee thing until this weekend. Sunday, I’m thinking.

I hope he doesn’t take all this rescheduling stuff as a sign of lack of interest. Ack!

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2003, 5:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/32 "2003-04-28T05:35:44Z")

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Just in case anyone’s still checking this thread–

Yet another postponing–it’ll be on Friday, now. Do you guys still want to know how it comes out?

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**Author:** ![Vorae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/d78d45/32.png) [@Vorae](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Vorae)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2003, 6:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/33 "2003-04-28T06:38:12Z")

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> [@](#):
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> _Originally posted by Scribble_  
> **Do you guys still want to know how it comes out?**

I do. Good luck, BTW. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 5:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/34 "2003-05-02T05:48:22Z")

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Oh, my.

Only 16 hours to go (I need a life so bad, don’t I) and I have absolutely nothing to wear. And tomorrow’s gonna be a workday well-packed with crap. I actually ran out to Meijers on an emergency clothing acquisition mission. Sad, I know.

I’m already freaking out. I haven’t freaked out like this in a good 10 years, minimum. I’m too old for this angst! I’m almost 30, already. Aren’t we supposed to gain in inner strength, serenity, and wisdom as we get older?

And, of course, my Spanish still sucks.

And I can’t sleep.

Ack!

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**Author:** ![Scribble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/scribble/32/3317_2.png) [@Scribble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scribble)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/35 "2003-05-02T05:49:31Z")

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And I’m breaking out, on top of everything else.

And I had a haircut a few days ago that makes me look like I have a dead marmoset on my head. I could put little clips into it, but then all I have is a dead marmoset with clips.

Oy.

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**Author:** ![finn1911](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/d78d45/32.png) [@finn1911](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/finn1911)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 9:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/36 "2003-05-02T09:49:43Z")

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good luck again 🙂

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**Author:** ![guava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/71e660/32.png) [@guava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/guava)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 12:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/37 "2003-05-02T12:05:00Z")

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Scribble, I have to agree with Davebear, your joy is infectious. It’s fun to read about your glee.

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**Author:** ![welby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d78d45/32.png) [@welby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/welby)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/38 "2003-05-02T12:25:11Z")

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Well, if you’ve nothing to wear just invite him to your place and answer the door in the buff. He won’t mind, I’m sure. 😉

I’m realy interested in how this turns out, so please keep us informed.

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**Author:** ![Contrary](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/db5fbb/32.png) [@Contrary](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Contrary)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 1:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/39 "2003-05-02T13:11:07Z")

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It’s FRIDAY – you have to tell us what happens today!

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**Author:** ![Dr\_John\_of\_Babylon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_John\_of\_Babylon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr_John_of_Babylon)\
**Post date:** [May 2, 2003, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-wants-to-go-for-coffee/168848/40 "2003-05-02T13:45:14Z")

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I’m incredibly intrigued. And since my attempts at meeting women have proven fruitless lately, this thread makes me want to ask MYSELF out for coffee!

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