# He was discussing our bedroom life on the SDMB!!!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [June 11, 2003, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136 "2003-06-11T16:21:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Larry\_Mudd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f14d63/32.png) [@Larry\_Mudd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Mudd)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/41 "2003-06-12T01:20:14Z")
Hey, I remember that thread! Good times. **Aries28** , if it makes you feel better, you can [read all about _our_ bedroom lives](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=24960). (If you dare.) Gooble gobble, gooble gobble- One of Us! One of Us! ---
**Author:** ![CanvasShoes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/74df32/32.png) [@CanvasShoes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CanvasShoes)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/42 "2003-06-12T05:24:03Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Aries28 \* > \*\*I can’t seem to link to his thread properly…I’m new at this, remember? > > It was from March and the title was something like > > “I have a headache=I want sex…black is white…up is down” > > The funny thing is that he totally misread what I was saying and we had a conversation about it that very day if memory serves. > > Maybe he just didn’t remember the joke we had previously about headaches… > > Anyway…I’m not mad in the least bit. He is a wonderful guy and I am lucky to have him…it just felt a little odd reading it… \*\* I remember that thread. A good portion of the posters were all for having him discuss it with you. I think, due to “his version” of it, some of us were saying “what the …??”. But when he explained it, that you weren’t normally like that and all… I think most people realized that it was just a miscommunication. But all in all, no one thought YOU were “weird” or odd. It wasn’t tacky or all that much about sex really as about that one misunderstood statement between the two of you. He was quite flattering about your relationship and all too, he was just venting about the one incident, not you. Welcome to the boards, you sound as nice and as intelligent as your husband is!!! ---
**Author:** ![Aries28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 12:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/43 "2003-06-12T12:17:59Z")
_blush_ Not hardly. He far out ranks me in the brain department and the humor department. We discussed it last night and I have promised to steer clear of discussing any embarassing stories about him and to brag on his sexual prowess at least once or twice. AND \*\* Dinsdale \*\* he told me there is no such rule about self proclaimed hotties having to post a picture of themselves so there! Of course at the time I was digging through photos trying to find one I thought was most suitable… ---
**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 12:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/44 "2003-06-12T12:21:50Z")
From the FAQ: > [@](#): > > Any person, male or female, who proclaims himself or herself to have above-average looks or sexual prowess must at least attempt to validate such claims by providing a color photograph of said individual. Hey, you can’t make this stuff up. ---
**Author:** ![Aries28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/45 "2003-06-12T12:23:47Z")
Guess I’ll start digging through those photos again… And uh…if I brag on his sexual prowess how exactly does one go about proving that to the boards??? ---
**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 12:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/46 "2003-06-12T12:26:41Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Aries28 \* > \*\*Guess I’ll start digging through those photos again… > > And uh…if I brag on his sexual prowess how exactly does one go about proving that to the boards??? \*\* Double-blind testing. ---
**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/47 "2003-06-12T12:29:15Z")
PS: the photos must be naked. Tastefully done, of course. ---
**Author:** ![Dinsdale](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/97f17d/32.png) [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/48 "2003-06-12T13:03:24Z")
You know, my job takes me to Atlanta on occasion. I could bring along my Polaroid… ---
**Author:** ![Sauron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce7236/32.png) [@Sauron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sauron)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 1:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/49 "2003-06-12T13:11:23Z")
Dear, why is it that wherever we go – the movies, my parents’ house, Sunday School – the topic of nude photos of you always seems to rear its head? Is there something you’re not telling me? Do we have a … _communication problem_? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Gravity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gravity/32/14322_2.png) [@Gravity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gravity)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 1:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/50 "2003-06-12T13:29:38Z")
Ah - I remember that thread. My advice: Don’t worry about it. He was just frustrated and griping to his friends about a situation. Personally, I didn’t really think it was a sex-life thread so much as a relationship thread. Heck, I am deleriously happy with my girl of eleven years, but there are times that I want to bean her. ---
**Author:** ![Aries28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2003, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136/51 "2003-06-12T14:32:16Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Sauron \* > \*\*Dear, why is it that wherever we go – the movies, my parents’ house, Sunday School – the topic of nude photos of you always seems to rear its head? \*\* Just lucky I guess… And to everybody that said don’t worry about it…I wasn’t. I have no problem discussing just about anything. It was just rather strange reading it. No big. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/he-was-discussing-our-bedroom-life-on-the-sdmb/181136.md?page=2)