# Helena330 is an anti-male, feminist zealot **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [March 29, 2017, 2:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264 "2017-03-29T02:06:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![SeaDragonTattoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@SeaDragonTattoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SeaDragonTattoo)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/21 "2017-03-29T02:52:22Z")
Lessee here: “this bitch,” “your bitch,” “this broad,” and, uh, basically socialist communist (WTF?), plus a reference to Gotti and organized crime. You DO know that blunt does not equal insulting, and that nonsense helps no argument? Name calling of someone an OP cares about even a little about is a great way to make sure they disregard anything you say. Ugh, going to take a shower, just addressing the OP makes me feel dirty. Hi Helena! I’m out. ---
**Author:** ![CosmicManiac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85e7bf/32.png) [@CosmicManiac](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CosmicManiac)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/22 "2017-03-29T02:53:33Z")
> [@running\_coach](#): > > Hey dumbfuck! Did you know you’re a blithering idiot to support someone both temperamentally and intellectually unfit to be President? Please discuss the topic. ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/23 "2017-03-29T02:55:01Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > You left-wing boneheads can’t take your political correctness blinders off… > [@CosmicManiac](#): > > …And no one has still explained, in detail, why I’m supposedly at fault here. Because you’ve turned the discussion into something political, then blamed her for doing exactly the same thing. Nobody’s blaming you for the forcefulness of your original post, just for your response to **Helen330**. “Thinking with your dick” is a common expression to describe a common phenomenon. I’ve used it (and done it) myself, and I’m hardly a “radical, anti-male feminist”. ---
**Author:** ![steronz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steronz/32/11765_2.png) [@steronz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steronz)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/24 "2017-03-29T02:57:48Z")
> [@SeaDragonTattoo](#): > > Lessee here: “this bitch,” “your bitch,” “this broad,” and, uh, basically socialist communist (WTF?), plus a reference to Gotti and organized crime. > > You DO know that blunt does not equal insulting, and that nonsense helps no argument? Name calling of someone an OP cares about even a little about is a great way to make sure they disregard anything you say. Yeah, this plus the undercurrent of “women are nothing but narcissists who want your money.” I know in this case OP is talking about a specific woman, but since he doesn’t even know her, it raises an :dubious:. If OP had no posting history here maybe people would give him the benefit of the doubt, but in the Venn diagram of Trump-supporters-on-the-internet and MRAs-who-read-TheRedPill, there’s a lot of overlap. It’s a reasonable conclusion to draw. ---
**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/25 "2017-03-29T02:58:11Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > Please discuss the topic. Hint: He was. ---
**Author:** ![Aspenglow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspenglow/32/76_2.png) [@Aspenglow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspenglow)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/26 "2017-03-29T02:58:32Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > No, I actually fucking don’t. Will someone please explain what’s the matter with severe bluntness to a guy who can’t get the message any other way? Trust me; your posts reveal ever so much more about you than you may wish they had at some point in the future. You treat women like shit and it shows in every word you say. “… snarling after your trust fund like a pack of ravening wolves…?” “bitch, broad, unrepentant, drug-addled, knee-jerk Trotskyite…?” You view women as chattel. You will no doubt enjoy a lifetime of unsuccessful relationships with them. And deserve no better. 'Night, 'night, li’l fella. **Helena330** spoke truth. You merely revealed your feeble character. ---
**Author:** ![snfaulkner](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snfaulkner/32/433_2.png) [@snfaulkner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/snfaulkner)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/27 "2017-03-29T02:58:58Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > …Are you guys fucking serious? You’re siding with her, after all I tried to do was make this man realize the foolishness of his ways, entrusting a cocaine addict to be in a relationship with him and not taking seriously the very real threat of her stealing from him? > > That makes me the bad guy? > > No. It does not. You left-wing boneheads can’t take your political correctness blinders off for one goddamn second, and realize that being forceful is an effective way of getting a message as important as mine across to this guy? Let’s go over what you said here: > [@CosmicManiac](#): > > … > Ah, “thinking with his dick”, but I’m not thinking at all? That was a classic page from the radical, anti-male feminist playbook. No woman I’ve ever met gratuitously said another man is “thinking with his dick”. I have heard lines like that from radical feminists, and other extremists. If you think “thinking with his dick” is such a giveaway, red flag, all hands on deck, pit worthy phrase that warrants this: > [@](#): > > **Helena330** , you should be ashamed of yourself, honestly. I was trying to help the dude get rid of this crackwhore who’s very clearly on track to start taking his money, and I said it in very blunt, forceful terms since the more gentle posts of other users clearly wasn’t working, and you excoriate me for it? I bet you think that men, not women, should take the last names of their spouses when they marry. > > Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you, Helena? Daddy didn’t give you enough love or something? Sheesh. Then you are indeed this: > [@](#): > > …but you don’t think at all. You just throw some misogynist shit on the wall and figure we’ll buy it. Stay in college. You have MUCH to learn. ---
**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 2:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/28 "2017-03-29T02:59:08Z")
Im in this Woman Haters Club :o https://www.dailymotion.com/embed/video/x34ehpw ---
**Author:** ![steronz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steronz/32/11765_2.png) [@steronz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steronz)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/29 "2017-03-29T03:00:20Z")
Wait, I missed that. What’s wrong with men taking their wives’ last name? ---
**Author:** ![CosmicManiac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85e7bf/32.png) [@CosmicManiac](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CosmicManiac)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/30 "2017-03-29T03:07:37Z")
> [@Aspenglow](#): > > Trust me; your posts reveal ever so much more about you than you may wish they had at some point in the future. > > You treat women like shit and it shows in every word you say. “… snarling after your trust fund like a pack of ravening wolves…?” “bitch, broad, unrepentant, drug-addled, knee-jerk Trotskyite…?” > > You view women as chattel. You will no doubt enjoy a lifetime of unsuccessful relationships with them. And deserve no better. > > 'Night, 'night, li’l fella. **Helena330** spoke truth. You merely revealed your feeble character. Poppycock. I view cocaine-addled women as potential gold diggers who will break a man’s heart while wearing the smile of the Joker playing card. I have the utmost respect for honest, hardworking women—not conniving, deceptive ones. ---
**Author:** ![Beren\_Erchamion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/90ced4/32.png) [@Beren\_Erchamion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beren_Erchamion)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/31 "2017-03-29T03:09:49Z")
Do you have anything to contribute that’s _not_ rooted in raging misogyny? ---
**Author:** ![Beren\_Erchamion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/90ced4/32.png) [@Beren\_Erchamion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beren_Erchamion)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/32 "2017-03-29T03:11:03Z")
> [@Wolf333](#): > > Why are trump supporters so whiny and thin skinned? Because they’re stupid and morally degenerate. ---
**Author:** ![steronz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steronz/32/11765_2.png) [@steronz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steronz)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/33 "2017-03-29T03:12:15Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > Poppycock. I view cocaine-addled women as potential gold diggers who will break a man’s heart while wearing the smile of the Joker playing card. I have the utmost respect for honest, hardworking women—not conniving, deceptive ones. Yeah, honest Christian women who don’t spread their legs for any swinging dick with a pile of cash. Hardworking, salt-of-the-earth types, with broad hips who know their place and don’t sass back. Amiright? ---
**Author:** ![Beren\_Erchamion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/90ced4/32.png) [@Beren\_Erchamion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beren_Erchamion)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/34 "2017-03-29T03:13:04Z")
Also, it’s worth pointing out that “anti-male” and “feminist” are mutually-exclusive. ---
**Author:** ![Lasciel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e79b87/32.png) [@Lasciel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lasciel)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/35 "2017-03-29T03:13:15Z")
> [@steronz](#): > > Wait, I missed that. What’s wrong with men taking their wives’ last name? Something something ‘red pill’ something MRA, blah blah ‘low-T’ yadda yadda ‘pussification’ gabble gabble, ‘tradition’ etc … Did I hit them all? ---
**Author:** ![Helena330](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/helena330/32/531_2.png) [@Helena330](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helena330)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/36 "2017-03-29T03:13:40Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > **Poppycock.** I view cocaine-addled women as potential gold diggers who will **break a man’s heart while wearing the smile of the Joker playing card**. I have the utmost respect for honest, hardworking women—not conniving, deceptive ones. No college kid talks like that and I know a lot of them. You’ve said other things things that trigger my BS detector, as well. Who are you, really? ---
**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/37 "2017-03-29T03:13:48Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > Poppycock. I view cocaine-addled women as potential gold diggers who will break a man’s heart while wearing the smile of the Joker playing card. **I have the utmost respect for honest, hardworking women** —not conniving, deceptive ones. Lucky for them, they see right through you. ---
**Author:** ![Beren\_Erchamion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/90ced4/32.png) [@Beren\_Erchamion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beren_Erchamion)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/38 "2017-03-29T03:15:24Z")
> [@steronz](#): > > Yeah, honest Christian women who don’t spread their legs for any swinging dick with a pile of cash. Hardworking, salt-of-the-earth types, with broad hips who know their place and don’t sass back. Amiright? M’lady (tips fedora) ---
**Author:** ![steronz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/steronz/32/11765_2.png) [@steronz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/steronz)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/39 "2017-03-29T03:16:10Z")
> [@Lasciel](#): > > Something something ‘red pill’ something MRA, blah blah ‘low-T’ yadda yadda ‘pussification’ gabble gabble, ‘tradition’ etc … > > Did I hit them all? Beta cucks, low energy, MAGA, etc… ---
**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2017, 3:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264/40 "2017-03-29T03:17:28Z")
> [@CosmicManiac](#): > > Please discuss the topic. The topic of Helena’s misandry is easily dealt with - she ain’t got any. The topic of you being an idiot, though… that’s going to keep paying off for quite a while. The topic of your post in the original thread - was there any actual indication the woman was after Esco for his money, like some stereotyped gold-digger imagery you chose to employ? I can see it being a very bad idea to date an occasional drug user (regardless of your gender or their gender) because it might _lead_ to them sliding into full-blown addiction, the collapse of their life and them dragging you down as a result (and possibly wheedling money from you or stealing it outright). I don’t see why gender is an issue. I’m sure there are plenty of women out there dating men who snort cocaine occasionally. I’d advise similar caution without feeling the need to describe the man as some kind of gigolo parasite in the making. I will say to Helena that her criticism of you was uncalled for. She should have gone for all-out mockery and scorn to the very limits of the IMHO forum because you are richly deserving of it, being the dumbass you are. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/helena330-is-an-anti-male-feminist-zealot/783264.md?page=3)