# HELLO?! Am I on everyone's ignore list?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [January 10, 2005, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041 "2005-01-10T14:09:16Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Rufus\_Xavier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@Rufus\_Xavier](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rufus_Xavier)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/21 "2005-01-10T15:37:35Z")

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I don’t know.

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**Author:** ![fruitbat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/58f4c7/32.png) [@fruitbat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fruitbat)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 3:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/22 "2005-01-10T15:43:41Z")

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If you all will excuse me for a second, I think I will duck into GQ and reply “I don’t know” thirty odd times. Y’know once for each thread, just so the OPs don’t feel bad. If nothing else it should help the old post count.

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**Author:** ![Shade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2bfe46/32.png) [@Shade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shade)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 3:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/23 "2005-01-10T15:47:39Z")

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This thread’d be a lot funnier if no-one had replied.

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**Author:** ![scout1222](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@scout1222](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scout1222)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 3:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/24 "2005-01-10T15:56:50Z")

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> [@Shade](#):
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> This thread’d be a lot funnier if no-one had replied.

Heh, that’s what I was thinking. And no one has done the “Who said that?” thing that I figured I’d see.

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/25 "2005-01-10T16:02:28Z")

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> [@fruitbat](#):
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> If you all will excuse me for a second, I think I will duck into GQ and reply “I don’t know” thirty odd times. Y’know once for each thread, just so the OPs don’t feel bad. If nothing else it should help the old post count.

After a while it’s pretty hard to hit significant post count numbers. I hit 10K two Augusts ago and I have a long way to go before I hit 20K, a mark at least two dopers have already surpassed.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/26 "2005-01-10T16:05:50Z")

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Ah, it’s **so** pleasant to see somebody else get it in the neck, in the BBQ, for a change.

Usually, **I’m** the one who posts something this dumb.

I dimly recall a German phrase for this…

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**Author:** ![Zabali\_Clawbane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ecd19e/32.png) [@Zabali\_Clawbane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zabali_Clawbane)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/27 "2005-01-10T16:09:10Z")

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You’re certainly conveying a snippy, sarcastic, :dubious: tone today **Bosda** … Just MHO, YMMV.

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**Author:** ![evilbeth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/evilbeth/32/2268_2.png) [@evilbeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilbeth)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/28 "2005-01-10T16:11:57Z")

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> [@UrbanChic](#):
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> This has got to be one of the funniest threads ever. C’mon, be honest. Have none of you never wanted to post the very same thing when your threads sink like a stone?

Probably.  
However, the difference between being a grown-up and being a whiny, immature, attention-whoring annoyance is knowing better than to actually post it.

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**Author:** ![Zabali\_Clawbane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ecd19e/32.png) [@Zabali\_Clawbane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zabali_Clawbane)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/29 "2005-01-10T16:16:52Z")

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Ok, I’ll bite and post this thought that came to mind. (Yeah, I know it brings to life a catch 22, so be it.) Isn’t it true, that it’s rude to point out rude behavior? What the heck has gotten into so many today? People being snippy in places other than the pit, and of all things, a poster being **lectured** on manners…_in the pit!_ :eek:

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**Author:** ![UrbanChic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9dc877/32.png) [@UrbanChic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UrbanChic)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/30 "2005-01-10T16:17:41Z")

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> [@evilbeth](#):
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> However, the difference between being a grown-up and being a whiny, immature, attention-whoring annoyance is knowing better than to actually post it.

Well, yeah, but the former isn’t nearly as funny.

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**Author:** ![MysteryFellow63427](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a88e4f/32.png) [@MysteryFellow63427](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MysteryFellow63427)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/31 "2005-01-10T16:23:46Z")

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When your question sinks like a stone even after being bumped, there are two appropriate responses.

1. Go find one of those MPSIMS threads where everyone kvetches about lousy unsuccessful threads they’ve started, or
2. Figure out the answer yourself.

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**Author:** ![BoBettie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4af34b/32.png) [@BoBettie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BoBettie)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/32 "2005-01-10T16:25:31Z")

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> [@Zabali\_Clawbane](#):
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> Ok, I’ll bite and post this thought that came to mind. (Yeah, I know it brings to life a catch 22, so be it.) Isn’t it true, that it’s rude to point out rude behavior? What the heck has gotten into so many today? People being snippy in places other than the pit, and of all things, a poster being **lectured** on manners…_in the pit!_ :eek:

Could you please repost and explain exactly WTF you’re talking about? I’ve read this 3 times and it still makes no sense. Try including posters names, quotes, and other helpful hints. Sheesh.

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**Author:** ![evilbeth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/evilbeth/32/2268_2.png) [@evilbeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilbeth)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/33 "2005-01-10T16:30:47Z")

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> [@Zabali\_Clawbane](#):
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> Ok, I’ll bite and post this thought that came to mind. (Yeah, I know it brings to life a catch 22, so be it.) Isn’t it true, that it’s rude to point out rude behavior? What the heck has gotten into so many today? People being snippy in places other than the pit, and of all things, a poster being **lectured** on manners…_in the pit!_ :eek:

No one is pointing out manners. They are pointing out real life. Pointing it out in a “‘Whaa! No one answered my thread! Boo hoo!’ Get the hell over it!” sort of way.

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**Author:** ![Zabali\_Clawbane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ecd19e/32.png) [@Zabali\_Clawbane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zabali_Clawbane)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/34 "2005-01-10T16:32:22Z")

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**Zette** I posted thoughts on feelings that had been building while reading the SDMB fora today, which were “brought to a head” by **evilbeth** ’s post directly before mine. That’s all…just wondering if it’s the cold weather getting everybody’s tempers flaring or what?

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**Author:** ![Zabali\_Clawbane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ecd19e/32.png) [@Zabali\_Clawbane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zabali_Clawbane)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/35 "2005-01-10T16:34:11Z")

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> [@evilbeth](#):
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> No one is pointing out manners.

Ok, because I was wondering what was going on. It kinda took me aback is all.

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**Author:** ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/36 "2005-01-10T16:35:08Z")

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What about onequartersie?

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**Author:** ![jlzania](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/67e7ee/32.png) [@jlzania](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jlzania)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/37 "2005-01-10T16:47:06Z")

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Even if you were on everyone’s ignore list, wouldn’t it be against the rules to tell you?

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**Author:** ![Glory](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7cd45c/32.png) [@Glory](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Glory)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/38 "2005-01-10T16:57:40Z")

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This is completely ridiculous - what if you had gotten 50-100 responses all confirming that Halvie was currently not in use. If you used it without conducting any of your own research and got sued for copyright infringement - what exactly would your defense be? Members of the SDMB granted permission to use it?

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**Author:** ![vetbridge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5e925/32.png) [@vetbridge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vetbridge)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/39 "2005-01-10T17:32:06Z")

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> [@jlzania](#):
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> Even if you were on everyone’s ignore list, wouldn’t it be against the rules to tell you?

And how would we know you were asking?

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**Author:** ![evilbeth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/evilbeth/32/2268_2.png) [@evilbeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilbeth)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2005, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hello-am-i-on-everyones-ignore-list/284041/40 "2005-01-10T17:34:24Z")

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> [@Zabali\_Clawbane](#):
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> **Zette** I posted thoughts on feelings that had been building while reading the SDMB fora today, which were “brought to a head” by **evilbeth** ’s post directly before mine. That’s all…just wondering if it’s the cold weather getting everybody’s tempers flaring or what?

I can’t speak for anyone else but stupidity always makes my temper flare. Stupidity combined with arrogance (“How dare people not respond to something **I** had to say?”) _really_ pisses me off.

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