# Help identify a 90s song from very little information

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [December 10, 2008, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502 "2008-12-10T03:48:19Z")\
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**Author:** ![treis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@treis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/treis)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2008, 3:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/1 "2008-12-10T03:48:19Z")

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I was driving to work this morning, and I heard a song that I wanted to hear again. Of course, I forgot to look it up when I got to work in the morning, and now almost everything about it is lost in the mists of my brain. I know this is a ridiculously small amount of information, but if anyone can help me it’s you guys. Here’s what I can give you:

I believe I remember some lyrics about the guys heart no being able to go any lower or something. He’s singing about a girl or something I believe.

It’s very typical sound to the late 90s. The sad singing/music that makes you think, “gee, why don’t I go shoot myself”. Similar in tone to “Name” by the Goo Goo Dolls.

It was played on a “mix” station that does your typical light rock from different decades. Anything from “Maggie Mae” by Rod Stewart to Shattered by OAR.

I know this is a ridiculously small amount of information, but it’s driving me crazy that I can’t remember the song.

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**Author:** ![Millit\_the\_Frail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/51bf81/32.png) [@Millit\_the\_Frail](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Millit_the_Frail)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2008, 4:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/2 "2008-12-10T04:23:52Z")

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This is my specialty!

Try Vast, “Winter in My Heart.”

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**Author:** ![treis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@treis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/treis)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 12:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/3 "2008-12-11T00:38:26Z")

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Nope, that’s not it.

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**Author:** ![The\_Hamster\_King](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8edcca/32.png) [@The\_Hamster\_King](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Hamster_King)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/4 "2008-12-11T00:47:10Z")

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[“Self-Esteem”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kIZeVoRBuU) by the Offspring?  
[“Loser”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJN3PGqDRNg) by Beck?

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**Author:** ![Cazzle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cazzle/32/75_2.png) [@Cazzle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cazzle)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/5 "2008-12-11T00:47:14Z")

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Is it The Drugs Don’t Work by The Verve?

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**Author:** ![The\_Hamster\_King](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8edcca/32.png) [@The\_Hamster\_King](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Hamster_King)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 12:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/6 "2008-12-11T00:54:57Z")

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[“Standing Outside a Broken Phone Booth …”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUO3WDmk1vU) by Primitive Radio Gods?

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**Author:** ![treis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@treis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/treis)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/7 "2008-12-11T00:58:10Z")

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> [@Pochacco](#):
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> [“Self-Esteem”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kIZeVoRBuU) by the Offspring?  
> [“Loser”](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJN3PGqDRNg) by Beck?

It isn’t as up tempo as these two.

> [@Cazzle](#):
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> Is it The Drugs Don’t Work by The Verve?

Nope, but that’s right type of song.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/8 "2008-12-11T01:02:30Z")

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> [@treis](#):
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> I was driving to work this morning, and I heard a song that I wanted to hear again. Of course, I forgot to look it up when I got to work in the morning, and now almost everything about it is lost in the mists of my brain. I know this is a ridiculously small amount of information, but if anyone can help me it’s you guys. Here’s what I can give you:
> 
> I believe I remember some lyrics about the guys heart no being able to go any lower or something. He’s singing about a girl or something I believe.
> 
> It’s very typical sound to the late 90s. The sad singing/music that makes you think, “gee, why don’t I go shoot myself”. Similar in tone to “Name” by the Goo Goo Dolls.
> 
> It was played on a “mix” station that does your typical light rock from different decades. Anything from “Maggie Mae” by Rod Stewart to Shattered by OAR.
> 
> I know this is a ridiculously small amount of information, but it’s driving me crazy that I can’t remember the song.

Could it be Gin Blossoms’ ‘‘Follow You Down’’?

_Anywhere you go  
I’ll follow you down  
Any place but those I know by heart  
Anywhere you go  
I’ll follow you down  
Follow you down but not that far_

From [here.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sM0NHtpI8cQ)

ETA: Gin Blossoms are such angsty early '90’s goodness. I’m getting nostalgic.

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**Author:** ![Susie\_Derkins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e47774/32.png) [@Susie\_Derkins](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Susie_Derkins)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/9 "2008-12-11T01:06:11Z")

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“Brick”, Ben Folds Five?

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**Author:** ![treis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@treis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/treis)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/10 "2008-12-11T01:07:31Z")

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> [@olivesmarch4th](#):
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> Could it be Gin Blossoms’ ‘‘Follow You Down’’?
> 
> _Anywhere you go  
> I’ll follow you down  
> Any place but those I know by heart  
> Anywhere you go  
> I’ll follow you down  
> Follow you down but not that far_
> 
> From [here.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sM0NHtpI8cQ)
> 
> ETA: Gin Blossoms are such angsty early '90’s goodness. I’m getting nostalgic.

DING DING DING We have a winner!

Thank you all very much!

> [@olivesmarch4th](#):
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> ETA: Gin Blossoms are such angsty early '90’s goodness. I’m getting nostalgic.

Sigh, I’m kind of embarrassed to admit that this song is on my computer already. I just hadn’t listen to them in a while.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/11 "2008-12-11T01:08:46Z")

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> [@treis](#):
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> DING DING DING We have a winner!
> 
> Thank you all very much!

I’m finally USEFUL in **Cafe Society**! WOOOT!!!

ETA: I’ve still got _New Miserable Experience_ on heavy rotation. That album is awesome.

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**Author:** ![Nutty\_Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d07c76/32.png) [@Nutty\_Bunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nutty_Bunny)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/12 "2008-12-11T01:09:27Z")

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[Low](http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jywZEjSiCBM) by Cracker? It’s from 1993, but maybe your memory is off…or I’m wrong on my guess.

ETA: Nevermind

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**Author:** ![treis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bc79bd/32.png) [@treis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/treis)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/13 "2008-12-11T01:12:24Z")

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> [@olivesmarch4th](#):
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> I’m finally USEFUL in **Cafe Society**! WOOOT!!!
> 
> ETA: I’ve still got _New Miserable Experience_ on heavy rotation. That album is awesome.

I know it is! I just haven’t listened to it in a while, and my 6:30 brain didn’t make the connection. Hey Jealousy is one of my favorite songs, especially when I am in an angsty mood.

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**Author:** ![garygnu](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/garygnu/32/2924_2.png) [@garygnu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/garygnu)\
**Post date:** [December 11, 2008, 1:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-identify-a-90s-song-from-very-little-information/476502/14 "2008-12-11T01:15:00Z")

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“Rio” by Duran Duran?
