# Help me find this porn video please

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [June 16, 2017, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083 "2017-06-16T04:26:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![myeidsex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@myeidsex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/myeidsex)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/1 "2017-06-16T04:26:03Z")

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I don’t know if it was movie or video but it was about bbw white girl raped in e forest by 2 guys and her husband or dad was tied to a tree and looking at them and screaming

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**Author:** ![Ike\_Witt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ike_witt/32/283_2.png) [@Ike\_Witt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ike_Witt)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/2 "2017-06-16T04:34:27Z")

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Why don’t you try asking that question on a porn site?

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/3 "2017-06-16T04:38:51Z")

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That could be so many titles.

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**Author:** ![femmejean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/0ea827/32.png) [@femmejean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/femmejean)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/4 "2017-06-16T04:41:54Z")

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Try PornHub or the anonymous board, 4chan.

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/5 "2017-06-16T04:43:08Z")

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This is the kind of porn that should not be legal. Now rape should be allowed to be represented but as part of a larger story. People getting off on the crime itself is wrong.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Pig](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@Little\_Pig](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Pig)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/6 "2017-06-16T04:46:36Z")

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> [@Ike\_Witt](#):
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> Why don’t you try asking that question on a porn site?

Probably because answers from the SDMB are considered definitive.  
😉

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**Author:** ![femmejean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/0ea827/32.png) [@femmejean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/femmejean)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/7 "2017-06-16T04:48:28Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> This is the kind of porn that should not be legal. Now rape should be allowed to be represented but as part of a larger story. People getting off on the crime itself is wrong.

This isn’t GD but tbh, I think that’s insane. How is that gonna solve anything?

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**Author:** ![dude\_robert](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8e7dd6/32.png) [@dude\_robert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dude_robert)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 4:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/8 "2017-06-16T04:50:49Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> This is the kind of porn that should not be legal. Now rape should be allowed to be represented but as part of a larger story. People getting off on the crime itself is wrong.

Why? According to the internet, lots of people seem to have rape fantasies, and most of them can enact then in ways such as having consented sex with adults. Plus many rape roleplays usually do include a backstory, otherwise the rape element would not really exist… I myself have no real problem with it as long as they keep it as a fantasy…

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/9 "2017-06-16T05:07:45Z")

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> [@femmejean](#):
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> This isn’t GD but tbh, I think that’s insane. How is that gonna solve anything?

What’s more insane: Getting off on a woman getting raped or wanting to discourage such things? This kind of pork normalised rape. The aficionado of this is also getting off on the suffering of the husband/father. These folks need to be institutionalized.

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/10 "2017-06-16T05:08:48Z")

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Stupid autocorrect…porn…not pork

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**Author:** ![voltaire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/voltaire/32/313_2.png) [@voltaire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/voltaire)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/11 "2017-06-16T05:09:22Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> This is the kind of porn that should not be legal. Now rape should be allowed to be represented but as part of a larger story. People getting off on the crime itself is wrong.

(You shouldn’t say such silly things in such silly threads that I would have rather just not posted in, because yuck.) But…

You should consider that rape as part of the larger story might normalize it to the masses, while rape in a niche fetish porn flick might satisfy the urges among a niche group that might otherwise seek other outlets for those urges.

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/12 "2017-06-16T05:10:40Z")

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I disagree that it should be illegal. It is by definition not a crime if it is a fantasy played out by consenting adults. It’s also not actually rape. “Rape” fantasies are probably one of the most common fantasies among men and women both. The thing about fantasies of non-consent is that the fantasizer is in control of everything, and therefore consent is a given. So really “rape fantasy” is an oxymoron.

Of course, there’s a whole conversation to be had about increasingly violent pornography and its impact on the acceptance of said behavior in real life, and how we balance that with the reality that it’s okay to be into some freaky shit as long as everyone involved is consenting. As part of a larger story, say in a romance novel where the hero rapes the heroine, or where the rape is used as a throwaway plot device…I have a much bigger problem with that, because that to me reinforces dangerous cultural messages in a context much more relatable than a porn video. I don’t think those things should be illegal, though, either.

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/13 "2017-06-16T05:12:25Z")

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> [@voltaire](#):
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> (You shouldn’t say such silly things in such silly threads that I would have rather just not posted in, because yuck.) But…
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> You should consider that rape as part of the larger story might normalize it to the masses, while rape in a niche fetish porn flick might satisfy the urges among a niche group that might otherwise seek other outlets for those urges.

I meant in a mainstream film where the rapist us portrayed as evil. Jeez…why must we allow psychopathology to be depicted in a positive manner?

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**Author:** ![myeidsex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@myeidsex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/myeidsex)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/14 "2017-06-16T05:14:35Z")

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Loool guys cool it just a question

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**Author:** ![femmejean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/0ea827/32.png) [@femmejean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/femmejean)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/15 "2017-06-16T05:21:28Z")

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> [@myeidsex](#):
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> Loool guys cool it just a question

Welcome to the SDMB 😃

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**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/16 "2017-06-16T05:24:46Z")

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> [@madsircool](#):
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> I meant in a mainstream film where the rapist us portrayed as evil. Jeez…why must we allow psychopathology to be depicted in a positive manner?

I think because of the first Amendment.

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**Author:** ![Thudlow\_Boink](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thudlow_boink/32/320_2.png) [@Thudlow\_Boink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thudlow_Boink)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/17 "2017-06-16T05:25:03Z")

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[Is this the video you’re looking for?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)

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**Author:** ![running\_coach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/running_coach/32/15836_2.png) [@running\_coach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/running_coach)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/18 "2017-06-16T05:28:27Z")

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> [Is this the video you’re looking for?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)

_That_ should be an insta-ban.

😃

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**Author:** ![myeidsex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f9ae1b/32.png) [@myeidsex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/myeidsex)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/19 "2017-06-16T05:28:32Z")

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> [@Thudlow\_Boink](#):
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> [Is this the video you’re looking for?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)

I

No that is a song!!

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**Author:** ![madsircool](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madsircool/32/3432_2.png) [@madsircool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madsircool)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2017, 5:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/help-me-find-this-porn-video-please/789083/20 "2017-06-16T05:30:18Z")

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> [@Spice\_Weasel](#):
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> I think because of the first Amendment.

Do we allow kiddie poem? Snuff pork? There are limits. The UK has much stricter limits than we do.

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