Hennadancer may have some strange recommendations, but she is right in that the goal of the “curse” is not that harm to come to you, although it does seem like she’s a bit of a dominatrix. The goal of the spell seems to be to get you to drop a mistress and to return to her and to be devoted to her (and to be humiliated, perhaps by your straying). Spanish is not my first language, but I spent three years in Costa Rica, so I have some command of the language.