Well, I’m not quite through with it, and I just left it in Virginia at my parents’ house accidentally :rolleyes: , so I’ll tell you what I remember - we’re just at the stage where I’m keeping sleep logs, and we JUST started trying to get him to nap better. My son’s a catnapper - he will sleep for 20-30 minutes max during naps, and that’s about it. So our goal is to get him to nap longer during the day in the hopes that it will help his night sleeping.
We’ve been putting him down for naps, and when we get to the point where he usually wakes up, one of us will sit outside of his door (it’s been easier since we’re both off until tomorrow - we both go back to work tomorrow, though), and as soon as he starts to wake up, we’ll go in and rub his back until he goes back to sleep. We’ve been rocking him back to sleep if we need to. Apparently, if we do this for a week or so, his naptime length will increase. We just started this, and it seems like it might be starting to work - he’s been down for 1 1/2 hours and counting this afternoon, which is a vast improvement over the 20 minute naps we were getting all weekend and last week.
She also mentions if they get up in the middle of the night, keep things as quiet and calm as possible. We’ve started doing that, and while he’s still been waking up at 4 AM or so, we’ve been able to get him down much faster. Before, one of us was taking him downstairs, changing his diaper, fixing a bottle, feeding him in front of the TV, etc - but my husband got up and fixed his bottle while I rocked him and kept him in a quiet bedroom (we were staying with my 'rents over the weekend), and he went back down within 10 minutes of finishing his bottle two nights in a row (last night was tricky because we were in a hotel, so there was no other room to take him into). I also wasn’t changing his diaper in the middle of the night because that was just waking him up even more.
I’ve been told by friends that it DOES work, but it’s about a month-long process and not to expect it to work immediately. But once it does work, you don’t have to constantly retrain the baby like you would with CIO. We’re not even sure why his sleep habits changed so drastically - he was taking decent naps and sleeping 12 hours at night consistently until 3 weeks ago or so. But if this works, even if he goes through a few rough nights in the future, we won’t have to constantly train him to sleep well.
(If it were up to me, we’d co-sleep, but my husband’s not comfortable with it, and our room is tiny - there’s room for a mini-cosleeper next to our bed, but even that’s a tight fit - and I think my little chunker may have already come close to the weight limit on the mini-cosleeper).
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