# Here's a sex question for straight women **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [May 6, 2001, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494 "2001-05-06T01:21:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![aha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/eada6e/32.png) [@aha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aha)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/1 "2001-05-06T01:21:09Z")
Ladies do you ever ask for and get Cunnilingus only with no sex what so ever on the part of the guy? You know, much in the same way your husband or boyfriend might say, "Hey darlin would you give me a quick blow job…have you ladies ever just said to your boyfriend or husband, "Hey sweetheart could we meet at home during our lunch hour and you give me a quick munching? Just for the record no woman has ever asked me to do that without following it up with sex. ( Oh yeah I would do it though) ---
**Author:** ![Torgo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@Torgo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Torgo)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/2 "2001-05-06T01:28:02Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by aha \* > \*\*Just for the record no woman has ever asked me to do that without following it up with sex. ( Oh yeah I would do it though) \*\* Good for you Esmerelda, that makes one of us. As for yours truly the price for descending into that hairy pit of malodorous wonders will result in the scabby whore waking up with a size 7 poop-chute (believe you me). ---
**Author:** ![Carina42](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Carina42](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Carina42)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/3 "2001-05-06T01:34:25Z")
Yes. ---
**Author:** ![nashiitashii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7c8e57/32.png) [@nashiitashii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nashiitashii)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/4 "2001-05-06T01:40:27Z")
I’ve actually had a guy finish off sex with an hour long cunnilingus session. Other than that, no. ---
**Author:** ![Falcon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/49beb7/32.png) [@Falcon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Falcon)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 2:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/5 "2001-05-06T02:03:41Z")
Ask for? No. Get without asking? Yes. 😃 (And welcome back, aha…) ---
**Author:** ![Jeannie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e480ec/32.png) [@Jeannie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jeannie)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 2:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/6 "2001-05-06T02:22:24Z")
Yes 😃 ---
**Author:** ![aha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/eada6e/32.png) [@aha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aha)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/7 "2001-05-06T02:32:04Z")
Falcon thankee. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TN\_hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TN\_hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TN_hippie)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/8 "2001-05-06T04:26:54Z")
(curious guy interrupts) On “asking for it”…if not, why not? I’ve always been happy to oblige: be it before, after, or in the absence of other sexual activities. Peace, TN\*hippie ---
**Author:** ![evilbeth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/evilbeth/32/2268_2.png) [@evilbeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/evilbeth)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/9 "2001-05-06T04:52:15Z")
I’ve had people offer to do it but usually I become so incredibly aroused during the act that I demand other activities following. So, actually, I’ve never just asked and had it done. I never just ask for “a quick munching” 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Ann\_Onimous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ea5d25/32.png) [@Ann\_Onimous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ann_Onimous)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 4:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/10 "2001-05-06T04:59:43Z")
No, never. ---
**Author:** ![Silo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ac91a4/32.png) [@Silo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silo)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/11 "2001-05-06T05:51:16Z")
> [@](#): > > _Originally posted by aha_ Just for the record no woman has ever asked me to do that without following it up with sex. ( Oh yeah I would do it though) Same here brother! Don’t know what that’s all about. 🙂 Welcome back from your hiatus! ---
**Author:** ![Nanook\_of\_the\_North\_Shore](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/bc8723/32.png) [@Nanook\_of\_the\_North\_Shore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nanook_of_the_North_Shore)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 6:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/12 "2001-05-06T06:27:22Z")
My brother actually used this as a pick up line in a bar once. He went up to a woman, offered to do that for hours with no string attached(he didn’t use those words of course, but I’m trying to keep it **somewhat** clean here). She slapped him and stormed off. Fifteen minutes later she was back asking if he was serious. He was, and they left together. I don’t remember now if she held him to the original offer tho. ---
**Author:** ![Minty\_Rae](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/49beb7/32.png) [@Minty\_Rae](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Minty_Rae)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 7:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/13 "2001-05-06T07:47:58Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by aha \* > **Ladies do you ever ask for and get Cunnilingus only with no sex what so ever on the part of the guy?** Nope. Never have, never will. It’s real nice and all, but sex is so much better. (Paying _attention_ to the OP date this time…) ---
**Author:** ![porcupine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac91a4/32.png) [@porcupine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/porcupine)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/14 "2001-05-06T15:00:28Z")
Asked?: No Had it happen?: Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes Did I mind?: Nope 😃 Is it typically my preference to stop there?: No **Torgo** , if your comment is serious, I’m very glad I’m not dating you. ---
**Author:** ![TruePisces](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/truepisces/32/13628_2.png) [@TruePisces](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TruePisces)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 3:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/15 "2001-05-06T15:22:25Z")
Yes, I think I have. (It’s not one of those things I usually keep track of!) Sometimes, I’ve just been incredibly horny (I’ve been told a time or two that my sex drive would make a sixteen year old boy jealous! 😃 ) and he wasn’t. I love to receive. However, I’m also fair and give just as much, and without requesting more (even if it gets _me_ hotternhell) Sometimes the pleasure is just in the pleasing. ---
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/16 "2001-05-06T15:52:13Z")
Oh there you are aha. I see the wifey would probably be quite happy if you told her you’d do it 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![BoBettie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4af34b/32.png) [@BoBettie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BoBettie)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/17 "2001-05-06T16:01:33Z")
All the time- I usually get the warm fuzzies after and doze off into an excellent sleep. Mmmmmmmmmmm. “Honey! Come here!!!” I also reciprocate fairly frequently. That’s probably why we’re always smiling. Zette 😉 ---
**Author:** ![magdalene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df788c/32.png) [@magdalene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magdalene)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/18 "2001-05-06T16:24:30Z")
Ayup. My boy is a champion eater. ---
**Author:** ![Wicked\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/2acd7d/32.png) [@Wicked\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wicked_Blue)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2001, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/heres-a-sex-question-for-straight-women/64494/19 "2001-05-06T18:11:27Z")
Yes, but sadly, not recently. ☹ Rose