# Hey guys... ever gotten it up the who-ha by a girl?
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [October 10, 2001, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536 "2001-10-10T06:06:15Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/1 "2001-10-10T06:06:15Z")
So for 4 years my girlfriend has had a fixation with my ass… specificly my assholio. For some godawful reason or another she wants to invade it. Her ultimate fantasy is to fuck my ass with a dildoio. NO NO NO. Thats an exit hole only, I say. She taunts me by telling me i’m a homophobe. NO, I say, things up my ass just dont turn me on. I like oral sex… so do gay people… many straight guys like things up their ass… I dont. A homophobe that does not make say I.
She tried it again tonight… an invading finger. NO, says I. NO! NO means NO. She keeps telling me one night she is going to get me so drunk I wont remember what happened.
Any guys out there admit to enjoying this? Am I missing out on something amazing? Should I unclench and go?
Note that I feel bad because her body is an open field for me where anything and everything can happen, yet I dont co-partner that feeling and pull the cover up to my chin scaredy cat style.
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### Author:  [@reprise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/reprise)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 6:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/2 "2001-10-10T06:28:51Z")
Don’t go there. **Satan** started a thread about this topic once and it ended up in Threadspotting (I can’t seem to find it in the archives though - maybe some link guru can locate it).
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### Author:  [@Badtz\_Maru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badtz_Maru)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 6:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/3 "2001-10-10T06:35:56Z")
From what I hear, it feels really good if they hit the right spot. Having been penetrated by a medical professional, I can say that it doesn’t hurt if the finger is well lubricated, feels kinda unusual but not terribly unpleasant. If my wife really wanted to stick a finger up my butt, I’d let her.
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### Author:  [@glowbug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glowbug)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 7:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/4 "2001-10-10T07:03:50Z")
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> \*Originally posted by Badtz Maru \*
> **From what I hear, it feels really good if they hit the right spot.**
The right spot being… the prostate! Yes, kids, the prostate is considered the Grand Central Station of nerve endings in the general region of the anus. Localized stimulation directly over the prostate can cause an orgasm all by it’s lonesome.
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### Author:  [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 7:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/5 "2001-10-10T07:05:04Z")
I say go for it, dude. Remember the immortal words of Bugs Bunny: “I’ll try anything once.”
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### Author:  [@Cliffy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cliffy)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 12:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/6 "2001-10-10T12:08:56Z")
By the way, Dan Savage of Savage Love ran a column about this recently – the official term for this act is to “peg.”
–Cliffy
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### Author:  [@TheNewbie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheNewbie)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 12:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/7 "2001-10-10T12:46:52Z")
I’ve never had a girlfriend try that on me, I just wanted to say that is one of the funniest thread titles I have ever seen!
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### Author:  [@rundogrun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rundogrun)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/8 "2001-10-10T13:45:48Z")
I had a girlfriend back in college who used her finger on me a number of times while performing other “niceties”. It was pretty cool. And yep, it’s all about the prostate.
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### Author:  [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/9 "2001-10-10T13:55:31Z")
Yes.
End communication.
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### Author:  [@Miaowara\_Tomokato](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miaowara_Tomokato)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/10 "2001-10-10T14:04:17Z")
No.
It’s your body, not hers. If there’s something she wants to do but you want to avoid, avoid it. You don’t need to explain. And her threat to get you drunk and assrape you might be grounds for a clout on the jaw and a door slamming behind her. Sounds like date rape to me. Are you okay with this level of “trust?”
What the hell is wrong with the rest of you? You all would probably be coming out strong against date rape, but in a steady relationship date rape is okay?
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### Author:  [@tiny\_ham](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tiny_ham)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/11 "2001-10-10T14:13:24Z")
I don’t want to pick nits here Whammo, but it’s spelled hooha, and you don’t have one if you’re a man. I get it up the hooha all the time, but not up the ass. Get me?
Must you men take everything from us? Can we not have our hoohas for ourselves?
jarbaby
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### Author:  [@Fiver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fiver)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/12 "2001-10-10T14:25:36Z")
**jarbabyj** :
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> I don’t want to pick nits here Whammo, but it’s spelled hooha,
Not if you live in Whoville.
I’ve never taken it and I’ve never given it. But I’d really like to give it someday, so if that day ever comes, I figure turnabout…or rather, turnabout and bend over…is fair play.
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### Author:  [@Kiki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiki)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/13 "2001-10-10T14:35:22Z")
Go for it! Start out small and let her use her finger on you. It’s not gonna hurt (as long as her nail(s) are trimmed and she uses some lube or spit) and you may actually like it.
I was the first woman ever to peg (thanks for the term **Cliffy**!) my SO and he loves it. He had never let a woman touch his ass before because he said it just didn’t “feel right.” I don’t know if he was being homophobic or what but I got him to come around. 🙂
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### Author:  [@pestie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pestie)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/14 "2001-10-10T14:38:49Z")
Tonight, on _Overreaction Theatre_:
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> \*\*No.
> It’s your body, not hers. If there’s something she wants to do but you want to avoid, avoid it. You don’t need to explain. And her threat to get you drunk and assrape you might be grounds for a clout on the jaw and a door slamming behind her. Sounds like date rape to me. Are you okay with this level of “trust?”
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> What the hell is wrong with the rest of you? You all would probably be coming out strong against date rape, but in a steady relationship date rape is okay? \*\*
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### Author:  [@Turbo\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turbo_Dog)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/15 "2001-10-10T14:42:28Z")
Absolutely. Fingers or a vibe now and then is a wonderful thing. Getting reamed with a vibe while getting a BJ is a mind-bender, as is having sex while a vibrating egg is knocking at your prostate’s door.
Ass. It’s not just for exiting anymore.
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### Author:  [@Miaowara\_Tomokato](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miaowara_Tomokato)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/16 "2001-10-10T14:58:12Z")
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> \*Originally posted by pestie \*
> \*\*Tonight, on _Overreaction Theatre_:
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> > \*\*…but in a steady relationship date rape is okay? \*\*
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So I guess **pestie’s** answer is: Yes.
Folks, I’m not saying that if you want your asshole played with your shouldn’t get what you want, I’m saying that if you **don’t** your partner should respect that. I will go on to say that if you can’t trust someone not do to what you don’t want when you’re out of it, you’ve got the wrong partner.
How the hell can you object to this point of view? Let’s turn it around. Let’s hear from the ladies on how they’d react to a man saying “I’m gonna get you passed-out drunk and fuck you in the ass.” Ladies?
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### Author:  [@Odieman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Odieman)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 3:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/17 "2001-10-10T15:14:53Z")
The aforementioned link to Satan’s thread is here: [http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=15773](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?threadid=15773)
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### Author:  [@CnoteChris](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CnoteChris)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 3:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/18 "2001-10-10T15:28:27Z")
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> \*Originally posted by rundogrun \*
> \*\*I had a girlfriend back in college who used her finger on me a number of times while performing other “niceties”. It was pretty cool. And yep, it’s all about the prostate. \*\*
You ain’t whistlin’ dixie.
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### Author:  [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/19 "2001-10-10T15:35:14Z")
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> \*Originally posted by Miaowara Tomokato \*
> \*\*her threat to get you drunk and assrape you might be grounds for a clout on the jaw and a door slamming behind her. Sounds like date rape to me. Are you okay with this level of “trust?”
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LOL! DUDE! Its OK man… really. I’m just a lil shy with the ol’ anus… thats all. 😃
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### Author:  [@Demise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Demise)
#### Post date: [October 10, 2001, 4:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/20 "2001-10-10T16:28:39Z")
Talk about intense orgasms…let’s just say she got a face-full. 🙂
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