# Hey guys... ever gotten it up the who-ha by a girl? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 10, 2001, 6:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536 "2001-10-10T06:06:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Omniscient](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/omniscient/32/3290_2.png) [@Omniscient](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Omniscient)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 6:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/21 "2001-10-10T18:00:55Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by jarbabyj \* > \*\*I don’t want to pick nits here Whammo, but it’s spelled hooha, and you don’t have one if you’re a man. I get it up the hooha all the time, but not up the ass. Get me? > \*\* Gotta agree with the lady here. I think the word your shooting for here is _Wahzoo_. > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Cliffy \* > \*\*By the way, Dan Savage of Savage Love ran a column about this recently – the official term for this act is to “peg.” > \*\* OK, question. Is this term specifically related to the strap-on & pump-smack-pump? Or fiddling fingers? All of the above? ---
**Author:** ![Doctor\_Jackson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/doctor_jackson/32/32_2.png) [@Doctor\_Jackson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doctor_Jackson)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/22 "2001-10-10T18:34:02Z")
> [@](#): > > I don’t want to pick nits here Whammo… I don’t believe I’d want to pick nits there, either - gives a whole new meaning to the term ‘head lice’. ---
**Author:** ![Medea\_s\_Child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Medea\_s\_Child](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Medea_s_Child)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/23 "2001-10-10T19:21:26Z")
Personally, this is a question for you and you alone. Lots of guys like it. Lots of guys like it lots and lots. If you think you might, go for it and see. If you honestly don’t want to, don’t. I’m with Miaowara, No means No and the girlie needs to understand this now. But I have draconian consent rules with my personal life. I don’t allow myself to jump someone else unless I know its what they really want. (And invading my personal space without my permission is absolutely beyond the pale.) If you are up for experimentation, go play, trim her nails, buy some Astroglide and see what happens. Again, its your body, your life, your experiances. Your control, your responsibility. Don’t let people take that away from you. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/24 "2001-10-10T19:47:46Z")
I say, try something, like, fingering, and see if you like it. Try a few different things, and experiment-but go SLOWLY. BUT…if you REALLY don’t want to, say NO. If she really loves you, she’ll understand your feelings, and respect them. I have to say, though I have zero experience when it comes to anything remotely sexual-:(-the idea of someone going up MY arse makes me a little uncomfortable…I don’t even like it when my underwear rides up there! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![glowbug](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/5fc32e/32.png) [@glowbug](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/glowbug)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 8:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/25 "2001-10-10T20:06:55Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Cliffy \* > \*\*By the way, Dan Savage of Savage Love ran a column about this recently – the official term for this act is to “peg.” > > –Cliffy \*\* Technically, to “peg” is the act of a woman performing anal intercourse on a man with a strap-on dildo. [“What term, from this day forward, will be the commonly accepted slang for a woman fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo?”](http://www.thestranger.com/2001-06-21/savage.html) - Dan Savage, The Stranger. I am not sure if the term includes digital insertion into the anus. Maybe the term “boy-butt bang”, or “BBB” could suffice for now. ---
**Author:** ![Cliffy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/59ef9b/32.png) [@Cliffy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cliffy)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/26 "2001-10-10T20:20:37Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Omniscient \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by Cliffy \* > > \*\*By the way, Dan Savage of Savage Love ran a column about this recently – the official term for this act is to “peg.” > > \*\* > > OK, question. Is this term specifically related to the strap-on & pump-smack-pump? Or fiddling fingers? All of the above? \*\* Specifically being anally penetrated by a strap-on (presumably one that’s strapped on to someone). –Cliffy P.S. I think wazoo is spelled, uh, the way I just spelled it. ---
**Author:** ![thinksnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thinksnow/32/2849_2.png) [@thinksnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thinksnow)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2001, 8:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/27 "2001-10-10T20:50:49Z")
> [@](#): > > Any guys out there admit to enjoying this? Am I missing out on something amazing? Should I unclench and go? I dated a girl that would probe around, outside-only and on the taint, during BJ’s and it freaked me out seriously. It’s the only thing that ever made me jump and squirm. At first, at least. I’m not ticklish, but I think that the sensation I got from that is what normal ticklish folks would identify with. I got used to it and didn’t mind so much. Anyway, another woman I dated did this too, except she went for the prostate. Again, I jumped a little, but decided to let her go and see where it took me. Wow. Wowowowowowow! Totally worth it. Mind-blowing O. I don’t know that I’d be in for the dildo-thing, but a finger, oh yeah. ---
**Author:** ![freshmeat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c4cdca/32.png) [@freshmeat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/freshmeat)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/28 "2001-10-11T00:58:27Z")
I wish I had your “problems”… To answer the OP, I would love it if my wife would use her finger (or better yet, just strap one on and have at it) on my whatchamacallit, but she refuses. FM ---
**Author:** ![nineiron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e56c9b/32.png) [@nineiron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nineiron)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/29 "2001-10-11T02:32:08Z")
Your girlfriend considers your perfectly normal reluctance to have a finger in your hoo-ha to be “homophobic”? That’s pretty sad. Just because someone else’s idea of a good time doesn’t appeal to you, that doesn’t mean you therefore hate that person’s lifestyle, does it? If I (being Catholic and all) never had a Bar Mitzvah, does that make me an anti-Semite? As to the OP: No, no, no, a thousand times no. ---
**Author:** ![ski](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/bbe5ce/32.png) [@ski](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ski)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 3:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/30 "2001-10-11T03:23:26Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by thinksnow \* > [BI dated a girl that would probe around, outside-only and on the taint, during BJ’s and it freaked me out seriously. It’s the only thing that ever made me jump and squirm. At first, at least. I’m not ticklish, but I think that the sensation I got from that is what normal ticklish folks would identify with. I got used to it and didn’t mind so much. > > Anyway, another woman I dated did this too, except she went for the prostate. Again, I jumped a little, but decided to let her go and see where it took me. > > Wow. Wowowowowowow! Totally worth it. Mind-blowing O. > > I don’t know that I’d be in for the dildo-thing, but a finger, oh yeah. \*\* Okay, I’ve just got to know, doesn’t the finger come out all covered with “waste product” and stink really bad? I mean, unless you preface each session with an enema… Does she wash up right afterwards? This is the main thing that turns me off to the whole idea. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/31 "2001-10-11T03:40:04Z")
Ski: not if you wash. I know whereof I speak. You should wash your hands anyway, though. If the idea still bothers you, use a latex glove or a condom over the finger(s). And yes, I’m all about the stimulate-his-prostate-while-blowing-him routine. ---
**Author:** ![TN\_hippie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TN\_hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TN_hippie)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/32 "2001-10-11T04:01:47Z")
**ski,** it’s a valid concern…but actually, one’s _rectum_ is not usually not full of waste matter unless you’re moments away from taking a dump. And, yes, it’s a good idea to wash up immediately after any kind of anal play. Now that the unpleasant medical details are out of the way… Yes, it’s quite a thrill when the mood and timing are right. A delicate touch is important for the unititiated…but you may find you like it more than you’d imagine. Furthermore, I find the strap-on idea pretty exciting, although I’ve never experienced that particular activity. **Whammo,** consider yourself fortunate to be with a gal who is so open-minded and sexually adventurous. ---
**Author:** ![Chupacabra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/51bf81/32.png) [@Chupacabra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chupacabra)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/33 "2001-10-11T14:39:03Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Whammo \* > \*\*So for 4 years my girlfriend has had a fixation with my ass… specificly my assholio. For some godawful reason or another she wants to invade it. Her ultimate fantasy is to fuck my ass with a dildoio \*\* The only orgasmolio I have ever had without direct stimulation to my penolio came when my wife worked my prostolio. Holy Cowolio! Like most things, It is worth a try at least once. No long nails, though. ---
**Author:** ![DarkWriter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ee59a6/32.png) [@DarkWriter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DarkWriter)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 4:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/34 "2001-10-11T16:12:58Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Chupacabra \* > \*\*The only orgasmolio I have ever had without direct stimulation to my penolio came when my wife worked my prostolio. Holy Cowolio! Like most things, It is worth a try at least once. No long nails, though. \*\* The “anally-induced orgasm” scene in Road Trip is priceless. My husband will not let me anywhere near that delicate area, however. Sheri ---
**Author:** ![Kiki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dc4da7/32.png) [@Kiki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiki)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2001, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536/35 "2001-10-11T16:26:40Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Rachelle \* > **I was the first woman ever to peg (thanks for the term Cliffy!) my SO and he loves it** OK. I have to take this back now that I know _exactly_ what “peg” means. I thought it meant using a finger… not a strap on. No way in hell would my SO let me do that to him. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hey-guys-ever-gotten-it-up-the-who-ha-by-a-girl/86536.md?page=1)