# Hi, Dio! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [November 21, 2008, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hi-dio/473910 "2008-11-21T21:18:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 28
**Author:** ![Darkhold](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/90db22/32.png) [@Darkhold](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darkhold)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2008, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hi-dio/473910/28 "2008-11-21T22:39:13Z")
Personally I think **Dio’s** real bullshit in the thread is when he says that the prostitute has no say in the sexual encounter. The paying customer is always right. > [@Savage Love Column -- Who Was Out of Line?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/savage-love-column-who-was-out-of-line/473818/74): > > I think it’s laughable to compare it to a class. There are no other students. There’s nothing “dangerous” going on. It’s just a sex game. He’s paying for the time, and the time is his to do with as he sees fit. She’s there to follow his agenda, he’s not there to follow hers. Jesus that’s some scary fucking way of thinking there. I’m surprised more people haven’t taken issue with it. If the paying customer suddenly wants to change the nature of the sale to something the prostitute doesn’t want. Well fuck her she’s just there for his agenda. The John’s not buying some vague fuck-time in which he has the right to do whatever he wants with her. He bought a specific service she was offering in this case he’s there to be dominated and if he changes his mind wanting to alter the deal half way through and she doesn’t like it well he’s the one who loses out. Though I do say I think Dan Savage was wrong about the issue. The sub asked for some proof the dildo was clean. Big fucking whoop that’s not topping from the bottom no matter how many Domme’s are getting their panties in a twist over it. --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/hi-dio/473910)._