You see this is what irks us. We are not fucking sanguine! We want the same fucking thing that you want! We are doing what we can to try to achieve that! Our disagreement is purely tactical. As a person who is more directly affected by the hateful legislation, do you feel more strongly about this than I ever could? Undoubtedly. But strong feelings don’t change the underlying mathematics of the situation.
Monday morning quarterbacking is not helpful, but you aren’t even doing that. At least Monday morning quarterbacks have suggestions"Jackson should given the ball to Beckman more". What you are saying is “The Ravens had no plan to win. I guess unlike me, Jackson has no interest in scoring points.”
Of course refugee status for the transgendered is not sufficient, but until we can find a way to radically open the minds of 350,000 Tennessee voters (maybe 5g mind control chips in Busch beer) so they vote the bozo’s out we can’t stop the hateful legislation there. So the best we can do is to limit as much as possible its effects elsewhere where we do have power.
The one bit of hope is that some of the most hateful legislation is getting blocked by the courts. This is because despite all by the GOP to fill the judiciary with hateful fucks some of the judges are actual concerned about human rights. This was achievable in part because the Democrats held a very slim majority in the Senate, with which they could confirm sane judges.
Now if we had managed to pass the voting rights act we would be in better shape, but we couldn’t do that because although ostensably being Democrats Manchin and Sinema wouldn’t go for it. Progressives immediately called for their head, demanding that they be primaried, kicked, or whatever. The end result of such action would have been that they would have been replaced by a Republican, and the judical balwark that was mitigating some of the worst of the Republican legislation would have been knocked down. Although it might have felt cathartic do do so, tactically such a move would have been a disaster. This is where the two sides differ.