Yes, it always gets better eventually. In the meantime, in the midst of these “adjustments”, people and families perish, either literally (lack of health care, homelessness, substance abuse, suicide/murder, malnutrition, etc) or figuratively/financially.
I can’t believe how many I know who are struggling right now. My niece just did my taxes for me (she does it for a living and volunteered to do my pretty complicated return this year for free) and she and her husband came over last night and it turns out he has not worked in over a mth. They are hurting. The subject of selling stuff off came up and I suggested Craigslist and gave her the name of my pawn shop, lol. (she asked) Thank God for my DVD collection…good for $150-200 in a pinch…I’ve pawned it and gotten it back 3 times in the past year.
Others I know are several mths behind on rent and/or utilities and scrambling to find work or enough work to get by, much less say catch up. (I’m a mth behind on 2 utilities, but nothing dire…just paying the past due every mth to stay “on” and they are very accomodating since I have an excellent payment history otherwise)
I really must say I think it will get worse (which is in line with most predictions). Many of those who are now on the edge will go over it before long, defaulting on/losing everything. I honestly anticipate being in the position of providing shelter to a friend/neighbor in the not to distant future.
My grandmother raised 5 kids on her own as a divorced working mother through the depression. (she was an accountant and was fortunate to have a fairly stable, long-term employer) I know that they ate beans and rice many nights and a piece of bread with dinner was a treat. I can identify sometimes lately.
When it is tight, we rely on beans and rice (which fortunately my kids enjoy) and soup (which fortunately I am skilled at, several sorts, and which the kids also enjoy). We have not ever gotten to the point of relying on ramen or other cheap, crap food in stead of fresh veggies and whole grains and other wholesome, homecooked items, but it’s gotten pretty close to the bone.
I agree that many Americans live at a standard far above what they can afford or need, and that is an adjustment which, while painful, is overall beneificial. About TIME our society began considering frugality and thrift and the value of non-material things. But a great many, a majority of us, imo, were already just scraping by and NOT living beyond our means (except to survive at something slightly above 3rd world status by maxing out credit cards and re-mortgaging our homes, etc…)
Overall, I see this as yet another wholesale draining of the wealth from the many to the few (the Republicans didn’t fail in their last 8 yrs, they did exactly what they set out to, imo :mad:)
Yeah, we’ll survive, but I suspect we may have to lower our standards a great deal to do so. Hard, but it might do us good to get a better grip on what life is like for most of the world’s population. Might help us get our priorities in line where they are out of line at present. But those incompotent, corrupt parasites who helped drive us to this point should NOT benefit or be forgiven or forgotten. :mad: