Move to Squaw Valley, where that plant nursery is. Squaw Valley’s climate is rated at Csb, aka “Mediterranean Climate”. It’s where rosemary does best.
You’re too cool and wet for the gigantic bushes of rosemary. It’s just not going to happen. The plants won’t live long enough in your climate to get that large. You’ll probably only get another year or two out of them before they die back.
You’re asking a camel to thrive in the rain forest. It’s just not the right place for the creature to thrive. It will survive, a while, but it will never reach its full potential.
Chin up, I can’t put them in the ground at all. Or I could, but that will turn it into an annual instead of a perennial, because the wet and cold here with kill them in a single season. I can get away with bringing a potted one outdoors in the summer, but it’s got to come inside for the later half of fall, winter and first half of spring.
Rosemary survives here in the UK, where it can get pretty cold and wet. The trick is to pick the right variety - some are much more tender than others - and provide good drainage; most tender plants will be more tolerant of cold if they are dry at the roots.
We have rosemary in our Worcestershire garden. It is mostly clay but with some compost to help out. Every year I tear a branch off and stick it in a small pot. Every couple of years I dig up the old woody bush and plant the new one. It is essential for roast lamb.
I’m in the (southern) UK and we have a rosemary bush in our garden that’s 5ft tall and about 7-8ft wide. It started out as a small potted windowsill herb maybe 8 or 9 years ago. It grows pretty fast.
(We also have a ceanothus like the one in the OP pic )
This is a good point, and clarifies my earlier post. Rosemary has been bred into varietals (prone growth vs. bushes, dwarf vs. tall, emphasis on more blossoms, variegatedleaves, etc.) so I’d expect some variation in their respective tolerance for wet feet.
Further - as with most plants - the drainage is key. The plant can tolerate significant amounts of rainfall IF the water immediately drains away from the soil. In other words, it’s not so much whether or not there’s a lot of incoming water – it’s about how quickly it’s moved away from the roots.