I just popped in because of the totally stupid shellfish/pork=mixed-fabrics=gay-sex thing.
The Kosher food laws was one group of laws in Leviticus. They never applied to Gentile God-fearers, and in Acts 9-10 are specifically negated for Christians, and even marginalized for Jewish Christians if it got in the way of them reaching out to Gentiles. Kosher diet & the mixed-fabric prohibition (btw, some priestly garments were commanded to be mixed fabric) were to denote the distinction of Israel from the Gentiles. That is not a concern for Christians.
The prohibition of male-male sex was in the section of Levitical laws that dealt with covenental faithfulness & sexuality: child-sacrifice, sorcery, adultery, bestiality, incest and m-m sex were all banned in this. Of course, I could call up threads here where some Dopers support 9-month abortion & have a so-what attitude towards bestiality & adult consensual incest.
Also, Christ in speaking of marriage DOES say it is between a man & a woman.
Among the Jews, as Sampiro rightly noted, there was no controversy about gay sex. Paul, when speaking to the Gentiles- for whom homosexuality was an issue,
did reinterate the ban against it, not because it was a violation of the Israel-Gentile distinction, but because it was a violation of the Genesis-order of marriage.
Why don’t the vast majority of Christians support the death penalty for adultery & other sexual sins? Well, for child molestation & rape & bestiality, I’m not against the death penalty. However, re adultery & homosexuality, I think Christ set the example in forgiving the woman caught in adultery AND cautioning her to don’t do it again (of course, there were lots of illegal irregularities in that situation). I don’t think Christ totally abolished the death penalty here.
What should wrongly-divorced/remarried Christians do if they are truly repentant? It depends. If they actually left the first spouse TO marry the second spouse, and the abandoned mate has not remarried, and there are no children in the second marriage, then perhaps divorcing the second spouse & returning to the first one is the answer. It’s interesting that Christ doesn’t say what should be done- just that wrongly-divorced/remarried folks are in an adulterous situation. Maybe the best they can do in repentance is make sure the alimony/child-support is paid up & strive to do better in the second marriage.
OK, final summation- I think Christ in the passages Sampiro cited is actually condemning people divorcing in order to marry someone else. I don’t think He’s even talking about someone who has been divorced for years & then finds someone to marry much later. He’s talking to those (mainly men) who think they are getting around the adultery ban & dumping one spouse to take another.
There is another interesting bit of Bible scholarship that suggests He is condemning people who just dump the first spouse & take another mate, without even bothering to get a legal divorce.
Conclusion: Biblical grounds for divorce: divorce, abuse & abandonment (which includes creating an intolerable living situation). Jesus never intended to say that an innocent person is forever bound to a covenant-breaker/abuser. He sure was not looking to make the Torah Law harsher on people. Anyone with Biblical grounds to divorce is free to remarry. Any other who divorce & remarry should repent, in whatever way possible. Sometimes the eggs are just too scrambled to just restore the first marriage. In that case, you do the best you can in your legal obligations to the first spouse & resolve to do better with your present spouse. Christ gave authority to the Apostles & by extension the Church “to bind & to loose” and this is one of those situations. Christ did not give authority to the Church to totally change the rules as the mainline Protestant churches are now debating.
Good book on Divorce/Remarriage from a Christian Reconstructionist who is also a Bishop in the Reformed Episcopal Church: Ray Sutton’s SECOND CHANCE
http://freebooks.commentary.net/freebooks/docs/a_pdfs/rssc.pdf
http://freebooks.commentary.net/freebooks/docs/html/rssc/rssc.html